In NY, I was at this bar/club and approached a chick. At the time I did not know about the concept of engaging the whole clique. Initially, I spoke exclusively to my target but when cockblocking started to happen from friends (3 friends were 7s+; solid group), I wound up naturally engaging all of them as some sort of defense mechanism asking them where they were from etc. We all went back and forth as a group for a minute. They realized I was cool and I resumed my target.
Within 20 seconds of talking to the target, she asks me to buy her a drink. I said, won't u buy me a drink and said I'm having a Long Island Iced Tea since we were in NY. She laughed and said no. I thought of what I read about push/pull and looked away while she responded to my questions. We started to dance then I stepped away to look aloof. I'm thinking, "this shit is working." Every time I leave then go back to her, she's showing more love. Thinking the cat's in the bag, I go to the other room for 5 minutes (pushing), come back, and she's talking to another dude. I say fuck it, and do not try to re-engage her and just took the L on her.
My advice: use push/pull carefully as it may backfire if too much pushing is involved.
Within 20 seconds of talking to the target, she asks me to buy her a drink. I said, won't u buy me a drink and said I'm having a Long Island Iced Tea since we were in NY. She laughed and said no. I thought of what I read about push/pull and looked away while she responded to my questions. We started to dance then I stepped away to look aloof. I'm thinking, "this shit is working." Every time I leave then go back to her, she's showing more love. Thinking the cat's in the bag, I go to the other room for 5 minutes (pushing), come back, and she's talking to another dude. I say fuck it, and do not try to re-engage her and just took the L on her.
My advice: use push/pull carefully as it may backfire if too much pushing is involved.