Hey everyone, I'm new here but I have been using the forum as a resource for hooking up abroad. I bought Roosh's Bang Poland book and -- lo and behold -- I am now in Poland.
Couchsurfing is a great site to meet girls abroad. The response rate is usually pretty high and the girls are enthusiastic about meeting foreigners. But it's not a dating site, so how do you turn what's essentially a site for cultural exchange into a real sex pipeline?
The strategy I came up with is based on Roosh's method, with some tweaks here and there.
- I would do a search for locals and filter it by either "users who recently logged in" or "newest profiles." Those who were recently on the site tend to be active users and the newest users will be the most responsive.
- I only contact the girls with less than 200 profile views and the ones who don't have a lot of couchsurfing friends. My take is that the ones who are experienced users are also likely to be travel geeks who are into the site for what it is. The newer profiles are fresh to the whole thing so they haven't developed a firm mindset on what the site is for.
- I send them an innocent request asking if they know of any cool bars or places to check out, which Roosh suggests. And if they reply enthusiastically, like asking me curious questions or even inviting me to hang out, then I respond to those.
- I fire off a response suggesting a daytime coffee date, just to feel her out and not waste a whole night doing "cultural exchange" when I can be out at a bar gaming girls.
- Now here's the key, in the message I also ask something like "Btw, do you think it's ok with your boyfriend that we meet? I heard French guys are the jealous type and I don't want anyone to get mad." Of course, you can say that about any guy from any country. But the point is to screen her to ensure that you don't end up spending the afternoon with a girl who already has a boyfriend and near zero potential to hook up (weird, but it's happened to me). Sure, she might suspect something, but it's an innocent enough question that you won't look like you have some kind of agenda. Sometimes they tell me they have a boyfriend, but he's ok with it or other times she says something like "not all of them are jealous. Luckily I don't have one"
- The best place to meet up is a park maybe, and then a bar later on if you're feeling her. Find a bar in the daytime that feels intimate and cozy. Dimly lit, but not pitch dark. Trust me in every city there is a bar like this.
- If you are good at switching it from "cultural exchange" framework into a sexual framework of interaction and physically escalating, go for it. Sometimes it's tough to get on that wavelength so as a failsafe, I use a gimmick called the "secrets game"
Goes something like this: I tell her that in the US we sometimes play this game that helps people get to know each other better. It's basically truth or dare, without the dare. I start off with soft questions like "What's your favorite ice cream flavor." Then I eventually go no holds barred with something like "When's the last time you had sex?'
This helps to initiate not only a deeper connection but moves the interaction toward a sexual level pretty quickly. Anyway, I found this approach pretty effective for me. But if you guys have some ideas or your own methods, I'd love to hear them.
Couchsurfing is a great site to meet girls abroad. The response rate is usually pretty high and the girls are enthusiastic about meeting foreigners. But it's not a dating site, so how do you turn what's essentially a site for cultural exchange into a real sex pipeline?
The strategy I came up with is based on Roosh's method, with some tweaks here and there.
- I would do a search for locals and filter it by either "users who recently logged in" or "newest profiles." Those who were recently on the site tend to be active users and the newest users will be the most responsive.
- I only contact the girls with less than 200 profile views and the ones who don't have a lot of couchsurfing friends. My take is that the ones who are experienced users are also likely to be travel geeks who are into the site for what it is. The newer profiles are fresh to the whole thing so they haven't developed a firm mindset on what the site is for.
- I send them an innocent request asking if they know of any cool bars or places to check out, which Roosh suggests. And if they reply enthusiastically, like asking me curious questions or even inviting me to hang out, then I respond to those.
- I fire off a response suggesting a daytime coffee date, just to feel her out and not waste a whole night doing "cultural exchange" when I can be out at a bar gaming girls.
- Now here's the key, in the message I also ask something like "Btw, do you think it's ok with your boyfriend that we meet? I heard French guys are the jealous type and I don't want anyone to get mad." Of course, you can say that about any guy from any country. But the point is to screen her to ensure that you don't end up spending the afternoon with a girl who already has a boyfriend and near zero potential to hook up (weird, but it's happened to me). Sure, she might suspect something, but it's an innocent enough question that you won't look like you have some kind of agenda. Sometimes they tell me they have a boyfriend, but he's ok with it or other times she says something like "not all of them are jealous. Luckily I don't have one"
- The best place to meet up is a park maybe, and then a bar later on if you're feeling her. Find a bar in the daytime that feels intimate and cozy. Dimly lit, but not pitch dark. Trust me in every city there is a bar like this.
- If you are good at switching it from "cultural exchange" framework into a sexual framework of interaction and physically escalating, go for it. Sometimes it's tough to get on that wavelength so as a failsafe, I use a gimmick called the "secrets game"
Goes something like this: I tell her that in the US we sometimes play this game that helps people get to know each other better. It's basically truth or dare, without the dare. I start off with soft questions like "What's your favorite ice cream flavor." Then I eventually go no holds barred with something like "When's the last time you had sex?'
This helps to initiate not only a deeper connection but moves the interaction toward a sexual level pretty quickly. Anyway, I found this approach pretty effective for me. But if you guys have some ideas or your own methods, I'd love to hear them.