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Why do guys start an LTR with 'the local slut'
06-28-2012, 01:48 PM
In my small town (70k inhabitants) we have a few notorious sluts. They are well known for their slutty behaviour through all those years. They are fucked by dozens of guys....and now after some years they are less sexy and more fat. Still they manange to find a guy who wants to be serious with her, despite her bad name. Those guys must know she was the local slut. Can somebody explain me why they do that?
This afternoon i saw this girl i know from since we were kids walking with a dude and my friend told me: They are getting married tomorrow. This girl was attractive (solid 8) in her best years, but she was the dick sucking queen of my town. I know this guy and he must know it as well.
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06-28-2012, 02:14 PM
Rather be dating a known slut than be deluded about my girl being a chaste angel.
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06-28-2012, 02:46 PM
Having an LTR with a slut can be a lot of fun. However, I would never marry one, I would never have one as the mother of my children, and my mother would disown me if I brought one home for Xmas supper. It's the Catholic way of thinking, I guess.
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06-28-2012, 03:04 PM
They think they can be the one to lock it down.
Pretty sure it is a product of the romcom message permeating through society - notice how the girls in that are always fucking the badboys at the beginning, and then they are 'saved' by the hero? At once it excuses the behaviour of sluts and makes impressionable young fellows want to be the hero of the story of their lives.
Back in the day romance films weren't so bad because the girls were relatively feminine, but over time the girls have gotten impossibly worse in the stories and the 'saviours' now have completely unattainable attributes, like being super-goodlooking, super-rich, super-charismatic, and super-'in love' with completely sub-par women.
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06-28-2012, 03:18 PM
While it's true that everyone has a past, you don't want to be confronting little pieces of it everywhere you go! I think it's a combination of these guys getting turned out by these chicks' sexual skills, and something inside them that makes them think they can't do better. They're probably nice guys that came along when these chicks weren't as desirable as they used to be, and are tired of getting run through.
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06-28-2012, 04:35 PM
I would say pretty much all of my LTRs have been with sluts, except my first one, and even then she later became a huge slut.
Most girls are sluts.
Every now and then I'd get a little grossed out or uneasy about their sexual past, but it definitely fades with age. These days I just don't give a shit, and I assume most girls have been gangbanged by the football team and treated like an utter whore. It saves me from disappointment.
Truth be told, I'd rather wake up to the town blowjob queen every day than be completely unsatisfied with some straight laced plane jane.
The current LTR wakes me up with great BJs and she's kinky as hell. I know I'm not the only guy she's done this with, but seriously, who cares? Paranoia about a girls sluttiness is living in the past, and I'd rather just enjoy myself.
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06-28-2012, 05:23 PM
Quote: (06-28-2012 03:04 PM)Kitsune Wrote:
They think they can be the one to lock it down.
Pretty sure it is a product of the romcom message permeating through society - notice how the girls in that are always fucking the badboys at the beginning, and then they are 'saved' by the hero? At once it excuses the behaviour of sluts and makes impressionable young fellows want to be the hero of the story of their lives.
Back in the day romance films weren't so bad because the girls were relatively feminine, but over time the girls have gotten impossibly worse in the stories and the 'saviours' now have completely unattainable attributes, like being super-goodlooking, super-rich, super-charismatic, and super-'in love' with completely sub-par women.
I think there is a lot of "captain save-a-ho-ism" going on in the media, it subtly gives beta males the hope that they can "save" the hot wild, party girl, and she'll appreciate their adoration, respect, and caring for her, win her over, and they fall in love to live happily ever after.
It's all a crock of B.S., that along with teaching guys to white knights is some of the biggest contributing factors to guys becoming and staying beta males.
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06-28-2012, 05:40 PM
One reason we dislike sluts is an evolutionary accident:
Sluts were poor choices to ensure our DNA gets passed on. Who knows how many other dudes she's banged?
But today, we can verify whether or not the child is ours.
The other reason to dislike sluts is more practical:
She goes through guys like trashbags, who's to say she won't replace you?
The only reason to LTR a slut is if she willingly becomes your slave, you can cheat on her whenever, and she'll still be waiting for you. In other words, the only way to LTR a slut is by having total power over them, otherwise it will never last.
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06-28-2012, 08:46 PM
Guys are lame and want to protect and change the sluts.
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06-29-2012, 03:45 AM
Quote: (06-28-2012 01:48 PM)Amsterdao! Wrote:
In my small town (70k inhabitants) we have a few notorious sluts. They are well known for their slutty behaviour through all those years. They are fucked by dozens of guys....and now after some years they are less sexy and more fat. Still they manange to find a guy who wants to be serious with her, despite her bad name. Those guys must know she was the local slut. Can somebody explain me why they do that?
This afternoon i saw this girl i know from since we were kids walking with a dude and my friend told me: They are getting married tomorrow. This girl was attractive (solid 8) in her best years, but she was the dick sucking queen of my town. I know this guy and he must know it as well.
The girl fucked with a lot of dudes but there were probably way more dudes around who also wanted to fuck her but never got the chance for being to ugly/dorky/non social or whatever reason.
One of these guys still lives in the past and now think he's captain save-a-ho and that he scored a hot girl that is wanted by other guys too while she's thinking of settling down with a guy who adores her/spoils her and is faithful to her.
In a way it's a win/win situation for the both of them. They both think they got the prize.
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06-29-2012, 04:03 AM
Quote: (06-29-2012 03:26 AM)RioNomad Wrote:
First few posts in this thread are full of win. Nailed it right out of the gate. Who DOESN'T want to hook up with a super hot nympho that fucks your brains out? A man will justify her whoreish ways any way he can to convince himself her past isn't really what everyone says/knows.
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06-29-2012, 04:41 AM
Men start "LTRs" when they lose a sense of abundance and start projecting magical properties on to women.
Women are like vegetables/fruits. You can't keep them around forever. They need to be eaten when they are ripe. They will rot soon after.
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06-29-2012, 09:07 AM
LTRs with sluts isn't a bad thing. It's just how you handle her. Don't get super Romeo on her. Everyone knows shes a whore so its no need to treat her anything less than that.
Any problem from her will only reinforce that shes a hoe
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06-29-2012, 09:50 AM
Lots of truth on this thread. Any guy with a madonna/whore complex should ask himself honestly, "Why do I REALLY have a problem with this girl's sexual past."
I think a lot of the time, it's because there is some instinct in him that desires the VERY traditional and outdated scenario where he is a bold and chivalrous suitor going after the pure, virgin prize.
Well, I've been with a few virgins, and there's certainly a mental thrill about the experience, but it's good for a one time shot, literally.
Now, on the flip side, you certainly want to avoid a slut who's transitioning into the phase of retired and embittered ex-party girl who's looking to change her ways and settle down with a nice harmless beta. And it's betas like these that will become furious and seeth with jealous resentment if they find out their girlfriend's past.
Soup's fruit metaphor is perfect. Get em while they're ripe and keep a fresh supply
ETA: I've fucked a few girls that I worked with who had slutbag reputations. And since they had that reputation, they had a huge line of suitors who thought they could get in easy, but sluts aren't always "easier" just because they've been around. They denied plenty of guys who couldn't make it happen, and when I fucked them I was the target of some coworker envy. Just sayin'.
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