So, I met Swiss/Turkish chick a couple weeks back. She was only visiting 2 weeks. We fucked like animals the whole time she was out here. I spent the night at her hotel the whole time. She's a freak! Now this chick is telling me to come stay with her in Switzerland, and she is dead serious. The chick is mad into me, she says she's "addicted" to me. She said she would put me up in her house as long as I want and feed me (Not only feed me, but cook for me...) She has $ and she's mad cool. I honestly enjoy spending time with her, possible LTR material (Not that that's what I was looking for but you never know). She's also sexy as hell and the sex is good, she's a nympho. She masterbates for me on skype, it's awesome! She's a solid 8.5. She's mad feminine too. Definitely not like most Swiss girls I've met. I think she picked up a lot of Turkish traditions from her family. Her values definitely seem more turkish than western european. She says that both Turkish and German are her frist languages. She's also mad nuturing. She would bring me food at work. She always talks about how she likes cooking and would cook for me every night. She's basically what you would expect a good woman to be. I'm seriously giving it consideration. It's a pretty nice opprotunity. Many people would kill to live in Switzerland for free. Switzerland isn't personally close to the top of my list of places to visit, but at the same time I would definitely like to hit up all of europe. I was planning on saving europe til when I was older, since I feel places like south america and asia are much better for young men without a lot of money. But given the circumstances, why not bust it out now that I have an opprotunity like this? I already told her if I go out there I'm traveling all around. She was cool with it and didn't ask to come along. You better believe I'll be hitting up Poland and a couple other eastern eruopean spots. But I also wanna do the Euro-tourist thing to and see all the dope sites in places like Itally, France, Greece, England, and Spain. It would be more of a bounce spot to spot fast trip. Since in those places, the women (At least what I know from them) aren't super appealing to me. So I don't feel like I really need to set up shop for quit as long. I'm more there just to check out the place than as if I was in Brazil or Colombia looking to have lots of fun with the local tallent. The chick also wants to take me to Turkey, which is actually a place I would really like to visit. Another plus too is I can snowboard in the alps. They couldn't be too far away. At the same time though I'm sure lift tickets are ridiculously expensive so I probably wouldn't be doing as much riding as I'd like.
On the other hand though... If I'm staying with her, I'm pretty much locked down until I travel. If anything goes south with her it could be bad. I'd have to cut my trip short. I do however have a close friend who lives a couple hours away in Lugano, so if I'm in a tough spot, I know she'll help me out. Honestly, South America was gonna be my next trip, but I want to go for a good 6 months-1 year, and I know that's gonna cost me a shit load of money, especially since I'm not open to staying in hostels. It's a big decision to make. I've been working mad hard to go on a long trip, but haven't been saving as much as I would have liked to. I know to get the money I want for a year in South America, it's gonna take me a lot longer to save, at least 6 months-a year. And I'm already getting sick of working hard like this. In the last two weeks I've worked 160 hours with one day off, last week 5 doubles in a row. That's rare but typcially I'm working 64-72 hours a week, but always have Friday and Saturday off. I'm thinking I need a trip by the end of the year, I'm way past due. It's been almost 2 1/2 years since my last Brazil trip. My second job is by far the most stressful and least favorite job I've ever had in my life, hands down. I can't stand it! But the money is good and I know I just have to stick it out another couple months. The problem with finding another job is this job works with my other jobs schedule.
So, what would you guys do? There are a lot of pluses and negatives here. It's a free place without having to work for a good 6 months-a year assuming everything goes alright. The chick understands that I won't be able to work there easily (Pretty sure Switzerlands is one of the hardest places around for a foreigner to work. My friend has lived there 4 or 5 years now and has not been able to get a real job, she's just been doing under the table stuff like baby-sitting.) and when I offered to help her out she refused to let me. BUT.... If things go south with the girl I'm some-what fucked. I mean it wouldn't be the worst thing in the world, I'd just have to cut the trip short. Another minus is I'm pretty much locked down if I do this. The chick is mad cool though and would definitely be the type of girl I would date if I was looking for a girlfriend. She's easy to get along with too. I told my mom about it and asked her what she thought. At first I thought my mom would maybe be a little against it because she comes from a Muslim family. Not that my mom is close minded, but her family is some-what conservative christians, though my mom isn't too religious. You know how the conservative-Christian media vilanizes Muslims. My mom usually isn't super excited about me dating Brazilian and Argi girls and when I date American girls she is happy. Suprisingly though, my mom said to jump on the opprotunity. She didn't even mention anything about the girl being Muslim. She thinks its a great opprotunity and she loves Switzerland and Austria. She used to live in Austria (Oh and BTW this girl grew up in Austria but has been living in Switzerland a while now). My father on the other hand I haven't even asked. He's gonna be mad dissapointed I'm messing around with a girl from a Muslim family. My dad is SUPER Christian. Like go to church 4 days a week born-again crazy bible thumping Christian. He litterally goes to downtown las vegas and tries to "introduce people to the lord." As far as he's concerned the middle east and every muslim in it should be burned to the growned. And he's said that to me before too. I'm personally gonna get a kick out of telling him because I hate that kind of bigotry. He'll be salty for a couple days but he'll get over it.
So, give me some input, what do you think I should do?
On the other hand though... If I'm staying with her, I'm pretty much locked down until I travel. If anything goes south with her it could be bad. I'd have to cut my trip short. I do however have a close friend who lives a couple hours away in Lugano, so if I'm in a tough spot, I know she'll help me out. Honestly, South America was gonna be my next trip, but I want to go for a good 6 months-1 year, and I know that's gonna cost me a shit load of money, especially since I'm not open to staying in hostels. It's a big decision to make. I've been working mad hard to go on a long trip, but haven't been saving as much as I would have liked to. I know to get the money I want for a year in South America, it's gonna take me a lot longer to save, at least 6 months-a year. And I'm already getting sick of working hard like this. In the last two weeks I've worked 160 hours with one day off, last week 5 doubles in a row. That's rare but typcially I'm working 64-72 hours a week, but always have Friday and Saturday off. I'm thinking I need a trip by the end of the year, I'm way past due. It's been almost 2 1/2 years since my last Brazil trip. My second job is by far the most stressful and least favorite job I've ever had in my life, hands down. I can't stand it! But the money is good and I know I just have to stick it out another couple months. The problem with finding another job is this job works with my other jobs schedule.
So, what would you guys do? There are a lot of pluses and negatives here. It's a free place without having to work for a good 6 months-a year assuming everything goes alright. The chick understands that I won't be able to work there easily (Pretty sure Switzerlands is one of the hardest places around for a foreigner to work. My friend has lived there 4 or 5 years now and has not been able to get a real job, she's just been doing under the table stuff like baby-sitting.) and when I offered to help her out she refused to let me. BUT.... If things go south with the girl I'm some-what fucked. I mean it wouldn't be the worst thing in the world, I'd just have to cut the trip short. Another minus is I'm pretty much locked down if I do this. The chick is mad cool though and would definitely be the type of girl I would date if I was looking for a girlfriend. She's easy to get along with too. I told my mom about it and asked her what she thought. At first I thought my mom would maybe be a little against it because she comes from a Muslim family. Not that my mom is close minded, but her family is some-what conservative christians, though my mom isn't too religious. You know how the conservative-Christian media vilanizes Muslims. My mom usually isn't super excited about me dating Brazilian and Argi girls and when I date American girls she is happy. Suprisingly though, my mom said to jump on the opprotunity. She didn't even mention anything about the girl being Muslim. She thinks its a great opprotunity and she loves Switzerland and Austria. She used to live in Austria (Oh and BTW this girl grew up in Austria but has been living in Switzerland a while now). My father on the other hand I haven't even asked. He's gonna be mad dissapointed I'm messing around with a girl from a Muslim family. My dad is SUPER Christian. Like go to church 4 days a week born-again crazy bible thumping Christian. He litterally goes to downtown las vegas and tries to "introduce people to the lord." As far as he's concerned the middle east and every muslim in it should be burned to the growned. And he's said that to me before too. I'm personally gonna get a kick out of telling him because I hate that kind of bigotry. He'll be salty for a couple days but he'll get over it.
So, give me some input, what do you think I should do?