I met my gf roommate at college about 2 months ago, my gf hasn’t told her roommate that were seeing dating because she thinks that her roommate has a crush on me and thinks its funny watching her try to get with me. I may have also given my gf the impression that I have zero interest in her roommate which is probably why she is ok with the situation.
I wasn’t and still am not convinced that her roommate does have a crush on me, but I am starting to wonder. She found out that when were not living on campus we actually live really close to each other and shes always asking to meet up for drinks; she gave me her home and cell numbers; also were always play fighting on her bed in a very physical way, she goes out of her way to help me, when were chilling she uses any excuse to sit on my lap, comments on how good I smell and this weekend she called me up to go play strip poker with her and …. her boy friend, I say her boy friend although she denies it’s a serious relationship. Anyway she lost at poker and striped lol
These are reason I think she might like me, but there are confusing factors like she can sometime be a bitch to me also, and when ever I go around their room, she assumes im there to see her roommate and if she isn’t there, she will basically tell me she isn’t in, implying I should leave. And sometime when were play fighting she will randomly tell me to stop with an attitude in her voice that make me think I pushed her too far like she did that today, but it was right after her “boyfriend” had just messaged her on msn, so I don’t know if it was a guilt thing.
I’ve really started to like the roommate, but my girlfriend is such a nice person; I don’t want to hurt her and I took her virginity so i worried it might really hurt her; based on past experience if you cheat with someone who knows your gf they will always find out. But I can’t help how I feel i don’t know what to do, I feel like such a bad person even though all my guy friend are saying that I should just fuck them both.
I need some advise to sort my head out lol
I wasn’t and still am not convinced that her roommate does have a crush on me, but I am starting to wonder. She found out that when were not living on campus we actually live really close to each other and shes always asking to meet up for drinks; she gave me her home and cell numbers; also were always play fighting on her bed in a very physical way, she goes out of her way to help me, when were chilling she uses any excuse to sit on my lap, comments on how good I smell and this weekend she called me up to go play strip poker with her and …. her boy friend, I say her boy friend although she denies it’s a serious relationship. Anyway she lost at poker and striped lol
These are reason I think she might like me, but there are confusing factors like she can sometime be a bitch to me also, and when ever I go around their room, she assumes im there to see her roommate and if she isn’t there, she will basically tell me she isn’t in, implying I should leave. And sometime when were play fighting she will randomly tell me to stop with an attitude in her voice that make me think I pushed her too far like she did that today, but it was right after her “boyfriend” had just messaged her on msn, so I don’t know if it was a guilt thing.
I’ve really started to like the roommate, but my girlfriend is such a nice person; I don’t want to hurt her and I took her virginity so i worried it might really hurt her; based on past experience if you cheat with someone who knows your gf they will always find out. But I can’t help how I feel i don’t know what to do, I feel like such a bad person even though all my guy friend are saying that I should just fuck them both.
I need some advise to sort my head out lol