- Looks matter, there is no debate
(to what extent is perhaps, arguable).
- Early game arose and was primarily used as a tool for beta men of average or below looks. Reasons may be varied, one theory perhaps may include early online game adopters, were, generally speaking, more nerdy/awkward/reclusive/computer orientated. With smart phones, T.V shows etc, game and game concepts are more widespread, reaching a far broader demographic of men, including good looking guys who didnt need game per se, but were still raised by single mothers, emasculated fathers and modern media resulting in a strong lack of correct male/female interaction.
-As game theory advances, it is becoming more apparent there are differences between average looking men and good looking men in terms of the dynamic with females.
Example:
1) IOD's (Indicators of disinterest) can be misconstrued based on traditional game theory, when in fact a woman is simply shy/intimidated.
Read this post on the matter: http://flyfreshandyoung.wordpress.com/20...s-act-shy/
2) From same blog, OVERGAMINg is real, and something good looking guys need to be more aware of. I hamstrung myself in the past by this. See this bloggers post: http://flyfreshandyoung.wordpress.com/20...vergaming/
As a good looking guy (although 5'9 barefoot) I am in incredible shape with a handsom face, well groomed, well dressed blah blah I've noticed a few incongruencies/difference with traditional game theories in addition to the ones above.
These include: Some girls are simply interested in banging (no problem with this, however this is particularly common with ones I meet at clubs), I am 'too much' for them to feel secure in a relationship. (Maybe I'm not aiming high enough) My leanness draws attention to their own physical insecurities , negs are not as effective , I get a better response from being nice (had a girl delete my off BBM recently after I ran into her while with other girls, I played nice guy game and clarified i'm not a player, despite how I look/dress/hangout with. Could not have worked out better).
Core concepts related to masculinity, non-neediness, kino, etc still apply, but there are some notable differences. What do you all think on this matter?
(to what extent is perhaps, arguable).
- Early game arose and was primarily used as a tool for beta men of average or below looks. Reasons may be varied, one theory perhaps may include early online game adopters, were, generally speaking, more nerdy/awkward/reclusive/computer orientated. With smart phones, T.V shows etc, game and game concepts are more widespread, reaching a far broader demographic of men, including good looking guys who didnt need game per se, but were still raised by single mothers, emasculated fathers and modern media resulting in a strong lack of correct male/female interaction.
-As game theory advances, it is becoming more apparent there are differences between average looking men and good looking men in terms of the dynamic with females.
Example:
1) IOD's (Indicators of disinterest) can be misconstrued based on traditional game theory, when in fact a woman is simply shy/intimidated.
Read this post on the matter: http://flyfreshandyoung.wordpress.com/20...s-act-shy/
2) From same blog, OVERGAMINg is real, and something good looking guys need to be more aware of. I hamstrung myself in the past by this. See this bloggers post: http://flyfreshandyoung.wordpress.com/20...vergaming/
As a good looking guy (although 5'9 barefoot) I am in incredible shape with a handsom face, well groomed, well dressed blah blah I've noticed a few incongruencies/difference with traditional game theories in addition to the ones above.
These include: Some girls are simply interested in banging (no problem with this, however this is particularly common with ones I meet at clubs), I am 'too much' for them to feel secure in a relationship. (Maybe I'm not aiming high enough) My leanness draws attention to their own physical insecurities , negs are not as effective , I get a better response from being nice (had a girl delete my off BBM recently after I ran into her while with other girls, I played nice guy game and clarified i'm not a player, despite how I look/dress/hangout with. Could not have worked out better).
Core concepts related to masculinity, non-neediness, kino, etc still apply, but there are some notable differences. What do you all think on this matter?