So my mother's god-daughter (I have no blood relation to her of any kind, she is the daughter of my mom's best friend from high school. I'm going to still get a salvo of Alabama jokes, that's cool)...
She's (MGD) about 10 years younger than me (legal, not by much). She has been into me since she has been old enough to know she was into men. She has been suggestive in the past. Not aggressive, but every time i go home from college she wanted to see me and the IOIs were obvious to everyone except (i think) my mother and her mother. Fast forward to my birthday a couple of weeks ago (Saturday). My mom came to town with MGD in tow. My mom decided to take a nap after my birthday lunch, but being young and energetic I took the MGD to the pool.
For some reason I decided to go HAM on the Kino. I pretty much did everything but kiss her at the pool. When it started getting dark I took her back to my place, and finally made out with her for a very long time. She wasn't ready for anything more than kissing and me groping and grinding on her (I'm almost certain she is a virgin). In any case, we got dressed and went back to the hotel where my mom was. We continued the weekend as usual. Other than kissing a couple of times when my mother wasn't looking. As far as I know my mother still thinks she is like a little sister to me (and here come the Alabama jokes).
The reason this gets complicated is because she is playing in a soccer tournament this weekend, and has had some issues with the team and an ex boyfriend. My mother, the woman that raised me up to be the beta orbiter mangina feminist suck up that it has taken me a decade to transform from, decided to send MGD a big surprise bouquet of "good luck/atta girl" flowers on my behalf. They have not arrived yet. She wants me to take credit for this. It's a pretty beta thing to do, and I have a couple of worries:
(1) I actually want to bang this girl. My mom has done on my behalf something so anti-game I probably would have had the intuition to not do it even before I discovered game.
(2) I'm worried that MGD will see it the way most chicks would see such a gesture, and think I'm a creeper. I've done a pretty good job of establishing my alpha credentials, but this could be a big enough fail that she thinks I'm going creepy, oneitis stage 5 clinger. Everything we did in my apartment could go from something she wanted to do, to me acting inappropriately. Potential consequences include her telling my mom that I tried to take advantage of her and shit like that.
The good news: I have not done anything illegal, and even if I bang her I'm not doing anything illegal. No statutory rape or Chris Hansen jokes apply (a year ago they would have) However I am in a situation that I'm worried could cause all sorts of issues with my family (and MGDs family).
What should I do?
She's (MGD) about 10 years younger than me (legal, not by much). She has been into me since she has been old enough to know she was into men. She has been suggestive in the past. Not aggressive, but every time i go home from college she wanted to see me and the IOIs were obvious to everyone except (i think) my mother and her mother. Fast forward to my birthday a couple of weeks ago (Saturday). My mom came to town with MGD in tow. My mom decided to take a nap after my birthday lunch, but being young and energetic I took the MGD to the pool.
For some reason I decided to go HAM on the Kino. I pretty much did everything but kiss her at the pool. When it started getting dark I took her back to my place, and finally made out with her for a very long time. She wasn't ready for anything more than kissing and me groping and grinding on her (I'm almost certain she is a virgin). In any case, we got dressed and went back to the hotel where my mom was. We continued the weekend as usual. Other than kissing a couple of times when my mother wasn't looking. As far as I know my mother still thinks she is like a little sister to me (and here come the Alabama jokes).
The reason this gets complicated is because she is playing in a soccer tournament this weekend, and has had some issues with the team and an ex boyfriend. My mother, the woman that raised me up to be the beta orbiter mangina feminist suck up that it has taken me a decade to transform from, decided to send MGD a big surprise bouquet of "good luck/atta girl" flowers on my behalf. They have not arrived yet. She wants me to take credit for this. It's a pretty beta thing to do, and I have a couple of worries:
(1) I actually want to bang this girl. My mom has done on my behalf something so anti-game I probably would have had the intuition to not do it even before I discovered game.
(2) I'm worried that MGD will see it the way most chicks would see such a gesture, and think I'm a creeper. I've done a pretty good job of establishing my alpha credentials, but this could be a big enough fail that she thinks I'm going creepy, oneitis stage 5 clinger. Everything we did in my apartment could go from something she wanted to do, to me acting inappropriately. Potential consequences include her telling my mom that I tried to take advantage of her and shit like that.
The good news: I have not done anything illegal, and even if I bang her I'm not doing anything illegal. No statutory rape or Chris Hansen jokes apply (a year ago they would have) However I am in a situation that I'm worried could cause all sorts of issues with my family (and MGDs family).
What should I do?