Have any of you guys been involved in a legit open or polyamorous relationship, where you keep a main girl, who knows about your side pieces and is cool with it? Whether you have or not, I'm interested in your advice/opinion.
I have an ex-LTR who I'm considering reincorporating into my life, with the proviso that we're both allowed to pursue our own shit. I have a feeling she'd be down for this type of arrangement. The logic behind this is that she's in another city, and I'd like to assure myself consistent access to her when we see each other periodically. She's the rare chick who I genuinely enjoy hanging out with, in addition to banging. She's attractive, anti-feminist, domestic, supportive, has long hair, etc. (which is why I LTR'd her in the first place). Most of the calendar year, we'll be off doing other things, since we're prohibitively far, and have zero intentions of trying to have a long-distance thing (this has been stated repeatedly).
Being ignorant in these ways, I want to know the best game-centered practices on navigating this sort of arrangement are--particularly if you've pulled it off before. Needless to say, I'm accustomed to traditional rotation game. You have several girls, who don't know about each other--with maybe one bottom bitch you see more often. Or, alternatively, you park the game for a bit for a quality girl.
Is my arrangement even advisable? I would be calling the shots throughout, and not be limited in my access to new pussy in my current location. She wouldn't even be allowed to know my everyday dealings. Keep in mind that I don't mind her banging some beta dude while I'm away or having him buy her shit. There are no promises from either side, just two people agreeing that they'll make it a point to periodically hang out, stay in touch, and bang. Assume that without this explicit arrangement in place, she'd not be down for any of this. At the same time, she's likely to be amenable to something more formalized, even if it means that I'm banging left and right, or even having another LTR in my permanent location.
If your advice is, "What's the point, Tuth? Just move on to new pussy," go ahead and say it, but realize that's not point of this exercise. Assume that that's my leaning anyway, but that I'm considering this because of the factors I've mentioned above.
Please advise. (Was this beta?)
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I have an ex-LTR who I'm considering reincorporating into my life, with the proviso that we're both allowed to pursue our own shit. I have a feeling she'd be down for this type of arrangement. The logic behind this is that she's in another city, and I'd like to assure myself consistent access to her when we see each other periodically. She's the rare chick who I genuinely enjoy hanging out with, in addition to banging. She's attractive, anti-feminist, domestic, supportive, has long hair, etc. (which is why I LTR'd her in the first place). Most of the calendar year, we'll be off doing other things, since we're prohibitively far, and have zero intentions of trying to have a long-distance thing (this has been stated repeatedly).
Being ignorant in these ways, I want to know the best game-centered practices on navigating this sort of arrangement are--particularly if you've pulled it off before. Needless to say, I'm accustomed to traditional rotation game. You have several girls, who don't know about each other--with maybe one bottom bitch you see more often. Or, alternatively, you park the game for a bit for a quality girl.
Is my arrangement even advisable? I would be calling the shots throughout, and not be limited in my access to new pussy in my current location. She wouldn't even be allowed to know my everyday dealings. Keep in mind that I don't mind her banging some beta dude while I'm away or having him buy her shit. There are no promises from either side, just two people agreeing that they'll make it a point to periodically hang out, stay in touch, and bang. Assume that without this explicit arrangement in place, she'd not be down for any of this. At the same time, she's likely to be amenable to something more formalized, even if it means that I'm banging left and right, or even having another LTR in my permanent location.
If your advice is, "What's the point, Tuth? Just move on to new pussy," go ahead and say it, but realize that's not point of this exercise. Assume that that's my leaning anyway, but that I'm considering this because of the factors I've mentioned above.
Please advise. (Was this beta?)
(Paging Oldnem)