Quote: (06-04-2012 10:53 AM)j r Wrote:
I am, but I want kids. I have a girl in mind. I think it will work out, but the key for me is that, if it doesn't, "oh well." More importantly she knows how I feel. I used to think that divorce was "not an option," but eff that, everything is an option. The idea of being 40 or 45 and newly single doesn't scare me at all. If I keep in shape and stay on my present financial track, it should be fairly easy to pick up women 10 or 15 years younger.
This is the key.
If you find the right girl and keep the right mindset, you'll be fine.
The women you guys describe I wouldnt even talk to much less bang much less have a LTR with.
my girl cooks amazing new dishes 3-4 nights a week. she looks hot and fucks me whenever I want. if i want to go do something without her she says no problem. she never schedules shit with her sister unless i'm busy. she has few friends because she knows that women are retarded. she defers to me on every major issue. i run the house and she does what i instruct her to do.
i'm out of town right now and she just texted me that she is cleaning out the fridge, home alone. no friends, no orbiters, no nothing. straight home from work, to the gym, home to clean out the fridge while i'm away on business. the girls you guys describe sound like they would be out partying with their girl friends.
if you treat women like slightly older children that you have to guide and coach, its no problem.
i think a significant age difference is helpful. its no problem to create the frame that you are older, wiser, more successful and in charge if you are...well...older, wiser, more successful and in charge. its just structural. virtually every situation that comes up in life, you'll know more and be better equipped to handle.
my girl is 26 i'm 36. she is pregnant. i'm thrilled. i showed her the light in terms of fertility and then erasing her feminist brainwashing. she is as red pill of a woman as there is. it is possible.
but the key as stated above is to not be afraid to dump her ass.