She found out guy read Art of Seduction after he left
She takes this to be psychopathic:
So remember guys let women take advantage of you, cling to you and be bitches to you or else you are narcissist or psychopath. I think this is a classical case of what psychologists call projection. You should note how many women comment on this blog.
Oh yea and she calls Borderline Personality Disorder -- by all means a female psychosis in most cases, a myth. Feminists are saying it should not be a disorder because statisically it affects more women than men. This makes sense since women with BPD are by all means excessively clingy and emotionally damaged, and not putting up with this garbage is the bane of their existence.
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I did not know I was seduced, except in retrospect. Did you know? He was charming, but I knew it and resisted it. He got to me with purity, though, this psychoGAYguy.
Did you know there are many ways to seduce that are not obvious and not always romantic? Seducers aren't always "bad boys". They can also represent themselves as "saints" or "healers" or "helpers"; they can be a man or a woman who is indifferent to your gender, and it doesn't even have to be a romantic relationship. Some are charismatic, some are "wounded", or a melange. All make you feel a singular object of concern and care,so special.
And before you know it , you feel all warm and fuzzy (that's the power of charm), full of fire and desire -it doesn't matter what the object is- they give us dreams and for a while, reflect them. Meanwhile, your most cherished beliefs become challenges, and the awful dissonance creeps in and begins to settle.
But by then they have hard-wired you to them- as those words of grace and warm gesture and song, all great knowledge and spirit turn to sharp, convoluted sheaths of steel. You have learned to exist in a camp that concentrates only on them, for your heart, psyche, spirit, have become barb-wired.
She takes this to be psychopathic:
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"If you are to stay in a relationship ....a second seduction is required. Never let the other person take you for granted- use absence, create pain and conflict, to keep the seduced on tenterhooks."
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[Her -- emphasis mine] This brief but scary excerpt was brought to you by Robert Greene from his new book, "The Art of Seduction". It seems that many people are grateful for all the great tips the book provides. For more tantalising and shocking excerpts, go here:
So remember guys let women take advantage of you, cling to you and be bitches to you or else you are narcissist or psychopath. I think this is a classical case of what psychologists call projection. You should note how many women comment on this blog.
Oh yea and she calls Borderline Personality Disorder -- by all means a female psychosis in most cases, a myth. Feminists are saying it should not be a disorder because statisically it affects more women than men. This makes sense since women with BPD are by all means excessively clingy and emotionally damaged, and not putting up with this garbage is the bane of their existence.