[LostSoul]

Statistically speaking even if someone is the worst beta of all time, if that person does enough approaches he will eventually get lucky and succeed. Eventually you can start seeing patterns and what works best and become more successful.
So without including high status, big money and model looks,,,if a person says he all of a sudden has "game" its just that he goes out there and approaches more often than the average??

[WanderingSoul]

Numbers is a huge part of it, but not all of it. Just like fishing. If you are a shitty fisherman, but fish every day for hours on end, you will catch some fish. However, if you improve your technique, knowledge and equipment necessary to be a good fishermen, and combine that with fishing for hours per day, you will land more fish, and of a bigger size.

[j r]

The difference is in quality. If you just approach everything that moves with no effort to improve your game, you will hook chicks that are already attracted to you. And that generally means chicks who are a couple notches below you.

Game is what allows you to create attraction with chicks that were indifferent to you in the first place.

[Veloce]

I would liken it to learning an instrument or a sport. Mileage is certainly a large part of it. In game this means approaches. In music it means playing your scales. It's the mundane, everyday exercise that you MUST do. However, in music, there are some pieces that a music student could potentially play after 2 years of practice, that another student might be able to play after 4 years of practice, assuming they both practice the same amount every day. The difference? The quality of their practice and how much they apply themselves. If you are mindful and aware of your shortcomings during practice, and you apply yourself in identifying the areas of improvement, it will increase the effectiveness of your practice greatly. Any fool can go out and approach hundreds of girls. There is nothing keeping them back. But it's only the individual that takes notes, researches, learns, conspires, strategizes to overcome the failures that will truly succeed.

[travolta]

(05-20-2012 09:04 AM)j r Wrote:  

Game is what allows you to create attraction with chicks that were indifferent to you in the first place.

This is true, but game is also recognizing when a girl IS into you in the first place, but knowing how to close the deal. In the past I've blown SO many easy opportunities with girls who were literally throwing themselves at me. I had zero game, so it didn't matter how into me these girls were.

Knowing how to handle logistics is one of the most important aspects of game too.. a girl might be into you, but if you don't know how to go about getting her back to your place, her place, or a public place where you can realistically fuck, you aren't fucking her.

Yes, numbers is a huge part of game. The guy I know who fucks the most girls approaches A LOT of girls. He fucks a lot of ugly/average chicks, but he also bangs plenty of hot chicks too. Don't listen to anyone who tells you that numbers isn't a part of game. Life is all a numbers game

[el mechanico]

Game is like the lotto..You can't win if you don't play