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Getting 'hooked up' through a friend
04-29-2012, 07:24 PM
So I went to a dog park with my buddy and his gf, and this pretty french girl who knows the GF started talking to us for about 30 mins. I made small talk with her but nothing major.
That's the first time I ever go to that park, and I don't see my buddy's GF too often. How do I go about getting to see the girl again? She was showing signs of interest and she's my exactly type.
The park is pretty close to where I live but I don't have a dog to take to that park. If I did, I wouldn't be asking this question, I'd be at that park every week!
BTW for all you pimps living in Toronto, this dog park was in downtown tdot and had alot of potential. Never been to a dog park in mississauga/brampton/oakville/vaughan/etc but if they are anything like this one, I highly recommend them!
So any advice/recommendations? I don't want to come off as creepy or needy, or desperate...
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Getting 'hooked up' through a friend
04-29-2012, 07:36 PM
Ask your buddy to tell his gf to set you up with her because you really enjoyed your conversation with her. Simple enough.
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Getting 'hooked up' through a friend
04-30-2012, 01:21 AM
I don't like to be hooked up because the GF is going to say some stupid shit to make you look like a chump. She won't do it on purpose, but she will be like "Hey, my BF's friend from the dog park really likes you. He want's to go on a double date sometime. OMG! IT'LL BE SO MUCH FUN! He's super sweet and really nice. He will treat you so good! Blah blah girl shit blah blah!"
If you go this route I would tell the GF to invite her out for drinks some night, but not to say anything about you really. Make it clear so she doesn't fuck it up and say something stupid.
Good luck.
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Getting 'hooked up' through a friend
04-30-2012, 09:57 PM
Tell your friend to arrange a night/day out with his gf and the other girl and possibly some other girls to make it much more Social Circle. Game as normal, but don't forget to stay with the Circle as well.
Also, might want to go out for a jog someday to the park.
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Getting 'hooked up' through a friend
05-02-2012, 08:04 PM
So my buddy told me him and his GF saw the her again at the dog park, this time her BF was there with her. Supposedly, they're pretty serious. Oh well, right?...
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Getting 'hooked up' through a friend
05-02-2012, 08:22 PM
I've always avoided hookups through other females because it puts them in the middle of your business. She may put in a good word for you, but she may also say something wrong. Or the two of them will be talking about you behind your back, period. If you say or do anything, she'll be sharing it with her girl. Your boy's girl already knows now, but I would have tried my best to cut her out of the loop and find a way to get at her through your boy.
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Getting 'hooked up' through a friend
05-02-2012, 10:38 PM
Why do you need your buddy's girlfriend's permission to bang this chick....? You should have just gotten her number when you first met her. And why do you care about coming across as creepy/weird? Being creepy/weird comes with the territory... Asking for her number through her friend seems a bit weak (though I've never gotten a number through a friend, so I can't really say).
My friend's gf recently hooked me up with her room mate. I made extremely ballsy, "creepy" moves right in front of anyone. I hooked up with her that night, and my friend's GF respected me more after that.. (as if I need her respect anyway...). If she would have rejected me it wouldn't have mattered. Obviously my friend wouldn't have judged me, and I'm not trying to hook up with my friend's gf so I don't care if she thinks I'm a creep.
From the tone of your question, it sounds like you were just too shy to pull the trigger on this one
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Getting 'hooked up' through a friend
05-02-2012, 11:11 PM
VK nearly hooked me up with his sister's friend last weekend. I had the in (they were undressing me in the cab 1 minute after meeting me), but she was a huge slore going through a black/asian phase (apparently). She didn't like it when I smacked her ass on the dance floor either. Good riddance I say.
If I really wanted to see her again, I'd ask VK for her number and he'd find a way to get it for me because he's my boy. Freaking duh.
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