Quote: (04-29-2012 01:09 PM)Klasmatic Wrote:
Quote: (04-29-2012 09:28 AM)elabayarde Wrote:
Wait Wait Wait....What is all this its over BS. Now I am not hyping myself, but I have banged several celebrities girlfriends during the celebs hay day.... and at that time I was a COMPLETELY broke college student. Why is everyone saying this throw in the towel BS. THis is where you have to pull advice from the "long game pros here". I know we have better resources than this.
The one advice I can give you, for dealing with your girl is... If you get the opportunity, to see him and her in the same vicinity. Force her on him like you are trying to hook her up, or broker her out. THis Kills every ounce of self worth to a girl when the person she is supposed to be dating tries to sell her to another guy. Its just mentally screws them. Also, it creates a sort of repulsion sub-conciencely, because they will remember backing away from that guy. (just be advised that it is a ballsy move, and be prepared to loose her, thought it hasn't happened to me yet).
I would do this with my ex that I actually banged and started dating while she was with someone who, everyone watched in the Superbowl. So, I naturally felt threatened around these types of guys(football players). But I learned this game of pushing them towards another guy. Even when they are interested, they will push back(away from that guy). This works figuratively and physically. She is normally so focused on the fact that you are doing it, that no matter what he says, she can't focus on them. In the sort term.
Take this concept and apply it to your situation. I whole-heartedly don't believe that there status over-rides pure solid game and mind Fucking. Unless she is a bucket head. Well, those ones are only for a quick bang anyway.
Another example is a model, who is pretty accomplished that I was dating. I would be in DC on the phone with her as guys would hit on her in NYC. I could literally, hear them yelling out to her as she walked home. "So, I would laugh and say to her, stop walking away and talk to them. I think he wants to tell you something important, or he could have money... then we can split the profit". She would start laughing and yell about how much she hates me... and walk off faster. Women are naturally counter-intuitive for us, or at least me.
Another thing you can say... to cockblock any game the celeb has and take an alpha roll. "Tell her that maybe you guys can basically whore her out, to him." Say you don't mind as long as she gives you a proper cut. You 75% and her 25%, for all your hard work. She will hit you. This is good. Attach crazy mental visions to any possible sexual attraction she has to him.
Like tell her maybe she would be willing to bang him while you watch. Anything that will creep her out with respects to him. Unless you guys have some already pretty freaky stuff going on, then I think thats the wrong direction to go. LOL
This is great advice.
My problem with this girl is that she thinks too highly of herself. I negged the shit out of her before I banged her and took an attitude of "unimpressed" whenever she would try and make herself sound amazing. I think that is the main reason why I got the bang in the first place.
I also found out, when we were at dinner the other night, that this athlete didn't even ask her directly for her number. She helped him find some stuff he was looking for, left for lunch, and came back to find out that he asked one of her co-workers for her number...pretty fucking lame if you ask me.
Last night, I went out to the bars without her and ended up getting some girl's number and her friend snapped a picture of us together out front of the bar. Naturally, she tagged the pic on Facebook and my girl saw it. This morning she asked me about it and came over for a fuck session.
I'm learning now more than ever that a relationship is a constant battle of gaining hand.
This thread has good advice and given that this scenario will most certainly arise again, I will keep this bookmarked.
But with the LTR thing its hard:
I think you have to do a balancing act of showing u get other girls, without breaking her loyalty to you. But, most importantly keep emotional discipline. This is the hardest thing, at least for me.
But It's better to seem like an cold hearted A-hole who couldn't see her worth. Than a Beta who folded and became emotional.(jealous, angry ect). Women just don't respect male emotions at all, from my experience.
Yeah, he just put himself in beta middles school status, by asking her friend for her number. I have been in very similar shoes as you at this point. Another, way you can neg, if you haven't already use this stratagy... is make fun of whatever she brags about. I literally used this on a model I ended up dating.
For instance:
She says:
I'm a model, or I get offered modeling contracts all the time.
Me:
Yeahhhh, I used to be an ass model, but it caused me to have alot of insecurities. I always have the feeling now when i'm in public, that people are staring at my ass. That's why I wear flats now instead of heels. Heels make it stick out more and everyone stares.
Just Make it match your style.
Another example. I have had before. We were talking about social economic class. Never do this... I had to end this fast.
Her: Well, I am a doctor. (But she said it with a bunch of arrogance)
Me: Really
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You know If I had a bag of skittles I'd give you one.
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Her: She actually starts cussing and yelling at me in front of everyone.
Me: You know what... don't yell at me like that. Because it makes me look into your eyes and I may loose myself.
Her: WTF you are crazy.
Me: I'm just loosing my self in your eyes, forgive me. Should i give you my wallet, or my social security number or maybe my credit cards. IDK i'm soooo lost right now.
She starts asking me all these questions and throwing IOI's immediately.
Everyone around her was laughing and within a week.. this same chick was calling and screaming at me to bang her. She was a real bitch and I kept a real alpha/aloof attitude. So it worked
Hopefully that expands your tools alittle, sound like you will have to employ a few.
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