[Giovonny]

"Yo Gio, can you give examples of your approach to the Whole Foods honeys? They always seem like they're in their own organic grass fed world."

First of all, I agree with "Ugslayer" 100%......"fearless" is the key word in all of this. I don't even do this shit for the pussy anymore, I do it for the "fearlessness", seriously....The more fearless i am, the more girls approach me, the more jobs i get offered, the more respect and power i get in my local community....which of course leads to more girls. But the girls are a "by-product" of me being fearless. I don't care about girls....I only care about conquering my fear...When a woman looks at your body langauge, tone of voice, style of dress, etc. AND SHE SENSES A TOTAL ABSENSE OF FEAR...SHE BECOMES INTERESTED IN YOU...CAUSE THERE ARE NOT MANY MEN LIKE THIS...YOU ARE VERY UNIQUE AND POWERFUL...HOW DID YOU BECOME LIKE THIS??? SHE WANTS THE ANSWER...AND SHE WILL FUCK YOU TO FIND HER ANSWER.
That being said, My typical "Whole Foods" approach usually goes something like this: My FRAME is that i am a handsome strong young alpha male who happens to be at "Whole Foods" getting my lunch....I am aggressive, confrontational, even combative. That is key for me. I never walk around empty handed, I always have a basket or i have a few things in my hands like organic coconut oil, exotic fruits and veges, fresh sushi, and something really healthy and expensive plus something bad for you, like ice cream or salami...(these are just props, for when she looks at my basket, i usually don't buy anything, once i have a # or 2 i put most of the shit back).....I walk around like i "own the joint"...but not to fast cause im "shopping"....I say hi to my buddies who work behind the counter....I see a girl i like...I let her observe me in action so its not a big surprise when i say hi...i speak loudly in spanish to the guys behind the counter, i talk to them about the food, i don't wait around like the regular schmucks...I playfully yell at the workers...."can we get some service over here"..."is this the steak from texas that i like".....as soon as we make eye contact or she gets into my personal space...I DON'T HESITATE...i say things like...."you eat that crap" , "that looks good" , "Which one is the tri-tip" , "how do you stay in shape if you eat like that" , "are these any good" , "ooh, foccicia bread " , but its all very playful and based in humor...not to serious...i don't really care, i'm just flirting...and she knows that. (usually) ......Or if she is in the isles looking at something...i casually stroll right to where she is and grab like 5 of whatever she is looking at...then i say something like..."how are the cheese flavored ones" , "these are the best ha" or whatever comes natural to YOU. I just get a little light-hearted convo going. Sometimes i just say "Hi how are you" , after a minute i look at her repsonse ....is she giving me a good response???...if she seems interested in me and starts asking me ?'s and stuff then i know i will probably get her #.....if she seems like she is uninterested and trying to walk away then of course i just say "cool , thanks" and walk away. I don't chit chat and small talk to much unless she wants to...i like to keep it more direct cause i hate wasting my time. If things are going well, i might say things like "do you workout around here" , "whats your winter workout like" , "hows your yoga game" , "hows your salsa game"....My parents are health freaks so i can really talk about the health/fitness stuff .....sometimes i take it a step further and say things like " you look nice today" , "whats your workout secret" ...or i NEG and say "you know what exercise would really help you" , or "your body type doesn't handle that kind of stuff well"....that stuff works great also. It just depends on how the girl is responding....if i get "IOI's", smiles, and laughing...then i say things like " im almost thinking that maybe i should ask you for your #", or " look me up on facebook" , or whatever your "number close" style is....i guess thats it.....my success rate is like this...approach 10 girls....get 2-3 #'s on average....out of those 2-3 girls....i usually will only have a "date" with 1-2 of them....hopefully bang one of those 2 in the first few dates...on average i would say that i have to approach 20-40 girls to get a bang....you just never know....i gotten 2 bangs in the same week from day gaming and i have gone months without any luck...you know how this shit is!

[Mrs. Chocolate]

(10-26-2009 11:34 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  

By direct game I don't mean, "wussup gurl, where you get a ass like that, holla back atcha boy..." or any of that crap. I mean something like this:

Let's say you're walking down the street, see a girl you want, come up to her and say, "I couldn't help but notice you and I had to come over and tell you that I think you're really cute. I'd like to meet you for coffee[or substitute a bar for alcohol], can I have your number?"

What do you guys think of just a direct approach like that without warming her up with conversation or techniques? Should you or should you not say something about her looks? Or should you comment on something unique about her instead, like her style of dress?

I'm trying to come up with a universal opener. Something I don't have to put any thought into, that can be used in any situation, especially one where time may be limited.

Yesterday a guy used this line to me and probably another dozens of girls. I was leaving the club (around 6am) and he asked to a friend of mine who was coming first in the line for my name. Then, when I was close to the door he said my name and I got very surprised how he knew it because I thought to never seen him in life. (I can remember a face), and the said
- You know, I saw u during the night, but u were been with your friends in the hole scene and I couldn't say "hello". Could u give me your phone, MSN whatever...
He was soooo kind that I couldn't spoilt everything saying the ugly truth, 1. he was colecting phones doing that. and two: If he was that into, he would go in my group. third and the last: He was my 1 in the new roosh rate (check the blog if u still don't know)
In the end, i smiled and gave him my (right) number and he called in front of me to check (beta). I won't go out on a date with him, but I can say this later, can't I? LOL
What do u think about that?

[speakeasy]

(12-19-2009 02:53 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

(10-26-2009 11:34 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  

By direct game I don't mean, "wussup gurl, where you get a ass like that, holla back atcha boy..." or any of that crap. I mean something like this:

Let's say you're walking down the street, see a girl you want, come up to her and say, "I couldn't help but notice you and I had to come over and tell you that I think you're really cute. I'd like to meet you for coffee[or substitute a bar for alcohol], can I have your number?"

What do you guys think of just a direct approach like that without warming her up with conversation or techniques? Should you or should you not say something about her looks? Or should you comment on something unique about her instead, like her style of dress?

I'm trying to come up with a universal opener. Something I don't have to put any thought into, that can be used in any situation, especially one where time may be limited.

Yesterday a guy used this line to me and probably another dozens of girls. I was leaving the club (around 6am) and he asked to a friend of mine who was coming first in the line for my name. Then, when I was close to the door he said my name and I got very surprised how he knew it because I thought to never seen him in life. (I can remember a face), and the said
- You know, I saw u during the night, but u were been with your friends in the hole scene and I couldn't say "hello". Could u give me your phone, MSN whatever...
He was soooo kind that I couldn't spoilt everything saying the ugly truth, 1. he was colecting phones doing that. and two: If he was that into, he would go in my group. third and the last: He was my 1 in the new roosh rate (check the blog if u still don't know)
In the end, i smiled and gave him my (right) number and he called in front of me to check (beta). I won't go out on a date with him, but I can say this later, can't I? LOL
What do u think about that?

Well, saying something is better than saying nothing, but I think almost any number you get from a girl where you didn't spend even a few minutes building interest and attraction, she's probably not going to answer your call or return the call if you leave her a message. Unless you are very socially proofed or you get lucky and happen to be her type and she's instantly attracted, then she may call back. Or if she's a girl who gets little attention from men and just has nothing better going on.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

You are right, Chris... If he was a 3+, I would call him back, but he is not. Also, he got my number, no my attention. About the second part, the night was good, I had a nice time wth GF (birthday party) and a pre date is always good.