I learned a lot from the "Your top 3 personal qualities that contribute to bangs " thread. Everyone has different specialties, different ways they work the game and as a guy still working on mastering my game I can apply most of those points to myself. However, before success there is failure. Sometimes it is hard to pinpoint where one went wrong. What are ways that you guys fuck up on a regular basis, or what do you do sometimes that prevents you from getting laid? Bad habits etc.
1. Failing to plan this is a huge one for me, I'm never thinking about logistics: where to go, when to bring her home, how to get there etc. I catch myself approaching without a gameplan. I say something, ramble for a bit and realize I have no idea where I'm going with the interaction so I say lets dance or just keep talking. As a beginner I should be allotting a specific time to read material, to go out and practice, to have dates etc. I've failed with a few girls because I got their number and never planned a date. I would be busy with school or another girl.
2. Haven't optimized my looks I just got my tax return back so I'm planning on having that be "game money" for the summer. It will go towards building my wardrobe, gym stuff, etc. I don't get haircuts as often as I should. I need a beard trimmer to keep a constant level of scruff, don't plan my outfit or general style, I don't take care of my skin. Still need to lose more weight. The list goes on. I think this contributes to not getting bangs because it inhibits my confidence, some days I look like crap and I want to be more fit. looks do have something to do with success.
3. I'm not decisive enough/too persistent in the wrong ways I don't give a girl the boot if shes acting badly, I don't cut girls off if they flake, I'm not as aggressive when pushing for sex as I should be. I still talk to old bangs when I don't plan on banging them again. I kind of just say whatever and either talk to them less or Ill talk to them when they talk to me. Bad because it slows down things and either one of us lose interest. I also have a problem with wanting to bang all girls I've gotten a makeout with even if the process is taking too long. I'll be persistent like I have to conquer that pussy. Recently over a 6month span I was talking/going on dates with a girl on/off. Maybe 1 or two a month at most. I made myself keep going until I banged her (it was great), its like I have to finish what I started or I'll keep thinking about the failure (not the girl). I also have a girl I've known for a year I'm hanging out with soon, we've only hungout 3 times or so, but each time logistics have fucked us (her having a boyfriend, her living really far away etc), but we made out all of those times. Again I feel like I have to finish what I started. I think this indirectly affects my bangs because I should be focusing on other girls instead of them. In my defense I have been banging other girls and will not hesitate in doing so. It is not oneitis its a compelling need to finish something that I've started.
1. Failing to plan this is a huge one for me, I'm never thinking about logistics: where to go, when to bring her home, how to get there etc. I catch myself approaching without a gameplan. I say something, ramble for a bit and realize I have no idea where I'm going with the interaction so I say lets dance or just keep talking. As a beginner I should be allotting a specific time to read material, to go out and practice, to have dates etc. I've failed with a few girls because I got their number and never planned a date. I would be busy with school or another girl.
2. Haven't optimized my looks I just got my tax return back so I'm planning on having that be "game money" for the summer. It will go towards building my wardrobe, gym stuff, etc. I don't get haircuts as often as I should. I need a beard trimmer to keep a constant level of scruff, don't plan my outfit or general style, I don't take care of my skin. Still need to lose more weight. The list goes on. I think this contributes to not getting bangs because it inhibits my confidence, some days I look like crap and I want to be more fit. looks do have something to do with success.
3. I'm not decisive enough/too persistent in the wrong ways I don't give a girl the boot if shes acting badly, I don't cut girls off if they flake, I'm not as aggressive when pushing for sex as I should be. I still talk to old bangs when I don't plan on banging them again. I kind of just say whatever and either talk to them less or Ill talk to them when they talk to me. Bad because it slows down things and either one of us lose interest. I also have a problem with wanting to bang all girls I've gotten a makeout with even if the process is taking too long. I'll be persistent like I have to conquer that pussy. Recently over a 6month span I was talking/going on dates with a girl on/off. Maybe 1 or two a month at most. I made myself keep going until I banged her (it was great), its like I have to finish what I started or I'll keep thinking about the failure (not the girl). I also have a girl I've known for a year I'm hanging out with soon, we've only hungout 3 times or so, but each time logistics have fucked us (her having a boyfriend, her living really far away etc), but we made out all of those times. Again I feel like I have to finish what I started. I think this indirectly affects my bangs because I should be focusing on other girls instead of them. In my defense I have been banging other girls and will not hesitate in doing so. It is not oneitis its a compelling need to finish something that I've started.