Now that everyone's had a chance to contribute to the top 3 bad qualities post
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-12129.html , I've gone back and noticed that there are several things that came up the most. Here's a breakdown in order:
1 )
Fear - this is most obvious and manifests as approach anxiety (excuses/rationalizations for not approaching, hesitating), ejecting too early / not ejecting soon enough*, drinking too much, talking too much (this could be fear related.. sometimes we can fear silence in a conversation, and there can be good reasons for this), not feeling confident, over-thinking things (possible fear of not being prepared).
2)
Logisitics - this one came up a lot. Includes: having a bad living situation (parents, too far from location), low funds, not having a pad set for bang, no back-up plan.
3)
Laziness : Not looking your best, Not putting in the time, spending too much time on other leisure pursuits (like gambling), getting in the harem mindset.
3)
Impatience can come in the form of being too much of an asshole, going with the easy thing (booty calling instead of going out), ejecting too early.
4) Not being able to
read girls properly: disregarding signs (IOIs, IODs) or having no idea how to interepret body language. Essentially, just not communicating with women (because almost everything with women is subcommunicated).
5)
Body Language (self): not moving with confidence, weak vocal tone, pecking, etc. (check out these threads for more
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-11...y+language
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-11877....y+language )
5)
Timing This overlaps with a few of the other categories but includes, ejecting too soon or not soon enough, not knowing when to escalate (hesitating, or pushing too far too soon). On another level this is not gaming during the day, not going out at night. I'd also texting too soon, and setting up dates for awkward days/times.