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04-09-2012, 01:57 AM
Is it only me or have you noticed very young Colombian women (18-21 year olds) seem to have no problem dating 35-40 year old men? I'm not talking about prepagos but regular girls from the barrios, some of them are college students.
Why are they attracted to men that could almost be their dads? Is it because the young guys don't treat them well? By the way, Colombia seems to be one of the countries where some degree of beta is acceptable.
Please let me know if you have observed their interest in older guys.
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04-09-2012, 04:37 AM
For the same reason you see girls in their 20's here dating guys in their 40's-50's in the US. The older guys have money. Simple as that. I know a lot of Colombian girls (non-prepagos), especially college girls, that have older boyfriends. I can't think of a single Colombian college girl that is dating a guy in his late 30's to 40's who is as broke as the average Colombian dude in his 20's.
In a lot of cases, the older guy is buying her shit and taking her places that she could never afford on her own. There is also the additional benefit of marrying an older, wealthier guy in terms of giving her an IMMEDIATE boost in her social status. The woman gives the man her youth and beauty in exchange for his money and social status.
The fact is that your financial means has a huge effect on your social status and is one of the things that ALMOST ALL WOMEN use to evaluate you. In less developed countries, where the masses (particularly women) have VASTLY less perceived opportunities for social mobility, dating/marrying a man of means becomes much much more appealing, thus financial resources has an even greater influence on the overall attraction package. It becomes a reliable way for a woman to rise in social status.
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04-09-2012, 05:54 AM
in colombia it is all about money... the women are interested in $$$$$$$
colombian women see the older man as more stable, financially better off, more likely to be a provider and less likely to fuck around on them
gringos go down there and all of a sudden think they are studs because for the first time in their lives girls are showing them interest...in the meantime the gringo is paying for everything....
guys who women REALLY want for their looks and game etc pull beautiful women in western countries...
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04-09-2012, 07:50 AM
Observed from female Cupid and Badoo profiles in Colombia:
Around 18-20, they prefer guys their own age
Around 21-24, they prefer guys the same age or a few years older, never older than 30.
25 and older, they consider over 30s. Usually they list an age range 10 years older. For example, a 26 year old girl will look for a guy 26-36.
The majority of Colombians are short term thinkers. If an older guy is interested right now, she won't rule it out. She may go out with him a couple of times and see what happens.
Gringos tend to go after girls that Colombians reject. Girls that are the local version of trailer trash. They'll always get passed over, or played, by the high status Colombian guy. These girls entertain the gringo approach since the gringo is often blind to indicators of social class.
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04-09-2012, 10:04 AM
Seems to be the case of most countries in or near Central America. One of my out-of-town regulars is 21 this year and we've been hanging since she was 18 and I was 35.
In Chicago (my most common home town), I see the same case with Costa Ricans, El Salvadorans and Guatemalans -- especially the hotter, slimmer Spanish descent ones.
Latinas love a gangster, and practically no 20-something guy can pull it off having such a pretty face.
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04-09-2012, 11:12 AM
Because they like stablished men with a fat wallet. You always want what you dont have.
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04-09-2012, 12:20 PM
Compare apples to apples then. Try dating women from the same social class as you, or education down there. See how well you do. In certain cultures it is common to see a significant age difference. The middle east is quite common.
I was chatting up with a gal around 3years my junior, I am early 30s. This was on CC. Now she had a decent job (engineer) was working full time and making decent money down there. Point is you can meet all kinds down there.
As for Colombian men passing on certain girls, good for them. More availability for me. As Mixx put it, the top notch are unavailable to non locals unless you meet certain criteria. See his many posts. But, are the top notch really available to you in your home town???? Yes and no.
I see sex bombs in Toronto dating these thug type guys. I ask myself how the hell did he get her whe you are brainwashed into thinking get a degree, good job and all will fall into place i.e. women too. Well, that is not necessarily the case. I have indeed scored some cuties, but none of the sex bombs as of yet. As for Colombian young ones preferring a man of my stature and status. Great.
Life is short. Either way you will pay for it $$$$$$$. In Canada, USA, you will pay. Look at how much these famous people paid for divorcing their wives. I will rather try my luck in colombia paying for a measly dinner for two that would cost the equivalent of an appetizer in a toronto restaurant if I fed myself.
There are pluses and minuses of course. You don't want to be taken for a sucker, that is why you buy the food and get her to cook it in your place. If you choose to go for a broke ass gal anywhere, expect to foot the bill.
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04-09-2012, 08:33 PM
A very cute 20 year-old Colombian has told me she wants to marry me and I have no doubt she means it. I'm 49, so technically I'm old enough to be her great-grandfather. She would probably marry a reggaeton star if she had the choice, but she's a single mother (at age 16) from the hood with a brother in prison, divorced parents, no way of making a decent living other than as a prepago, and I'm sure sees me as a good catch. I have a really good resume as far as chicks considering the tools I have to work with, and am very good at this point in life discerning sincerity from absence of it. I have no doubt her perceiving me as having more money than the average Colombian guy her age (which is true though I'm not exactly moneybags and don't know if I can make a decent living down there) is a big plus. A Colombian security guard typically makes $15/day - I often make that in 6 minutes, though being down there would make it more difficult for me to do that.
That all having been said, Colombian women also have far less of a feminist influence, so they often date and marry older guys, which is perfectly normal and natural and has been recognized as such throughout the entire history of mankind and in virtually, if not every, species in the animal kingdom. They also don't hate men the way so many American women do, and are horny and sexualized as hell, so from what I have seen, they can get off and have a nice sex life with just about any guy that doesn't stink to high hell and can get it up. In the interest of full disclosure, I also look a lot younger than my age (I even frequently get carded going into clubs, causing the bouncers to raise their eyebrows when they see my ID), keep up with new music, and I found that showing this girl some of the porn I'm in was a DHV cuz she's a lil freak.
So, yes, Colombia is great for older guys. I could elaborate in a lot more detail some of the evidence in that regard.
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04-09-2012, 08:51 PM
Dirk - I hope you're not being serious.
I have seen this same issue brought up a lot. It is not just Colombia. Many places around the world (Especially Southern Asia, South America and some European countries) it is very very common to see a girl with a guy 10-15 years her senior. Despite what feminazi's tell you, I do believe in most of these cases the girls do sincerely love the men. Even here the majority of women will still date a man much older than them though not as frequently as other places.
In most cultures men get more interesting and handsome with age. They can wow women in more and different ways that the young broke guy who might have more looks, but that is it.
You have to remember one important thing here and when you have DHV in these countries it really means something. Much like the USA back in the day part of being a real man was having some dough, the fact that you are the hunter/provider is hot to women. A man with a job and some stability in his life is seen much more attractive. In a place like Colombia choosing a dude based on his muscles or "swag" and not paying attention to if he can feed you might leave you pregnant , broke and sleeping under a bridge.
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04-10-2012, 03:29 AM
Quote: (04-10-2012 03:18 AM)RioNomad Wrote:
Quote: (04-09-2012 01:57 AM)encanto Wrote:
Why are they attracted to men that could almost be their dads? Is it because the young guys don't treat them well?
Man, you already have a Colombian girlfriend that you plan to move to her barrio for and you honestly can't answer this question? How much time have you spent in Colombia in total?
Again, you continue having problems understanding my posts. I CLEARLY provided my opinion on the subject. All I wanted to know was other people's opinions. So, my answer is there. Stop harassing people and contribute if you can.
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04-10-2012, 07:06 PM
Quote: (04-10-2012 03:55 AM)RioNomad Wrote:
Quote: (04-10-2012 03:29 AM)encanto Wrote:
I CLEARLY provided my opinion on the subject.
Can you please quote where you gave your opinion in this thread?
I would love to stop harassing you, but your threads are all ridiculous and I just can't bring myself to stop. Someone who is moving to Colombia to live in a barrio to be close this girlfriend wants to know if it's safe, and then want's to know why young barrio girls like older guys? I just can't believe that these are serious questions.
Go back and read the OP and hopefully you will realize that I already have an opinion/answer and I was just interested in finding out what other people had to say about it. If you think my threads are ridiculous, just ignore them and move on. I am getting lots of views and replies to my threads so I'm sure as hell they're valuable and many people are benefiting from them. I've yet to see a post by you that contributes useful information.
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04-10-2012, 07:31 PM
[quote='Rocco81' pid='192302' dateline='1334022678']
Dirk - I hope you're not being serious.
I'm actually being kinda serious. I've been with a lot of chicks, and I like the idea of having one that's my main girl and a bit of an in to really feel like I belong there, I anticipate that we would be swapping with other couples and or girls for some variety, and I would keep most of my money in the states so I couldn't get hurt too bad in a divorce.
Anyway, just kinda serious, and the likelihood of my actually making the move feels like its dropping.
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04-10-2012, 07:35 PM
Quote: (04-10-2012 04:42 AM)Lukey Wrote:
But to address the question, I am yet to buy into the notion that Colombianas are more attracted to 'older guys'. From the time I spent there, I found it to be even pickings. That said, I wasn't offering long term solutions for them, so maybe that is the difference; girls who are seeking marriage primarily will gravitate toward older men as they are more likely to commit and settle down (in their eyes). There are plenty of University girls though who are happier having fun with young gringos/colombianos who are on the same wavelength.
Unfortunately if the age gap in relationships continue to increase between foreign men and young Colombianas, Colombia is going to garner a reputation as the Philippines of Latin America for everyone in the next 5-10 years as the locals will continue to become suspicious of any single men travelling there. That said, I suppose this has already begun...
I wish I was around to find Colombia in the late 90's-early 2000's. It would of been a riot.
In my experience, it is not that they are more attracted to older men but many of them are open to having relationships with older men. I think it has to do with many of them lacking a father figure.
Also, they see older men as more mature and financially stable. Some of them have told me younger men treat them poorly and are usually "perros". I know older Colombian men are perros too but for some reason they believe or hope they could be less perro than younger ones.
These are the main things Colombian women look for in a guy they want to fuck or marry:
1) Physical strength - She wants a guy that can protect her
2) Status - She wants to know other people respect him
3) Resources - money, intelligence, skills, career, talents, etc.
4) Emotional sensitivity - She wants a guy that listens to her and understands her.
When you start improving yourself and have most or all of the above, you will notice you will attract great quality sincere girls with a genuine interest in you as a person, the type that will cook for you, have great sex with you, and do everything to please you. The problem is she will end up wanting to marry you.
One thing I've noticed is that many gringos in Colombia just throw money around and expect to get great girls. If the only thing you have going on for you is money then you will only attract materialistic girls. I wonder why most gringos complain about Colombianas being gold-diggers.
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04-11-2012, 05:13 AM
Quote: (04-11-2012 05:04 AM)RioNomad Wrote:
Quote: (04-10-2012 07:06 PM)encanto Wrote:
I've yet to see a post by you that contributes useful information.
Check my Chiang Mai or Chico data sheets.
Where is yours on Colombia, anyways?
I've yet to see a post of yours
on any of my threads that contributes useful information. You're reading one of my very appreciated threads. Again, all of my threads are getting tons of views and replies so people must be finding them quite useful. I do not care about Chiang Mai or Chico, this is a Colombia thread, please stay on topic. Thank you.
