[encanto]

(04-11-2012 10:07 AM)scotian Wrote:  

I'm one person who isn't finding anything you've written about Colombia thus far very useful and I agree with Rionomad for calling you out. So far all I've seen are a couple very pedestrian questions pertaining to Colombia that have been answered many times over in this forum, which leads me to believe that you haven't read Roosh's Colombia book, haven't taken the time to read through the Colombia threads and data sheets and quite frankly, I have my doubts you've ever been here.

But hey, what would I know, I'm a just a silly gringo who only hangs out in estrata 6 hoods and throws money around like a drunken sailor!

I never said everyone would find my threads useful but tons of people will.

I recently purchased Bang Colombia and I found it outdated but useful specially for those that have never been to Colombia or aren't familiar with Latin culture.

I am from Latin America, native Spanish speaker, fascinated by South American culture, I know a lot about it but still want to learn as much as I can.

I have read some of the Colombia threads on this forum, they were great! Most of the gringos I have met in Colombia stay in El Poblado or other upscale neighborhoods, I've yet to meet one that lives or stays in lower strata. Most of the gringos, if not all, throw money around like crazy, not only in Colombia but everywhere I've been.

Many things have changed since Bang Colombia was published. I would have included more information on what Colombian women really want from men. It's still a good guide obviously written from a very American perspective and created for the guy that wants quick fucks (If banging 1 out of every 60 girls you approach can be considered "quick"). While I would probably never approach a Colombian girl like the book teaches, the rest of the information is useful but not that great either.

[encanto]

(04-09-2012 05:54 AM)garygroundwork Wrote:  

in colombia it is all about money... the women are interested in $$$$$$$

colombian women see the older man as more stable, financially better off, more likely to be a provider and less likely to fuck around on them

One thing I've noticed is that Colombian men don't treat them very well. A little bit of beta in Colombia will get you better results than being 100% alpha.

Most American men treat American women like princesses and give them money, expensive gifts, cook for them, repair things for them and let themselves be abused by them. So, an alpha male is less common and attracts their attention.

On the other hand, Colombian women are surrounded by abusive thugs and they might confuse an alpha male with one of them. They will fall for beta guys that treat them well though a degree of alpha should also be maintained.

Of course, throwing money around like crazy is just insane. It will get you laid but no real GF experience as you will only attract materialistic girls. I'm sure many don't care but some of us actually prefer to have GF experiences.

[garygroundwork]

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(04-12-2012 08:20 PM)encanto Wrote:  

(04-09-2012 05:54 AM)garygroundwork Wrote:  

in colombia it is all about money... the women are interested in $$$$$$$

colombian women see the older man as more stable, financially better off, more likely to be a provider and less likely to fuck around on them

One thing I've noticed is that Colombian men don't treat them very well. A little bit of beta in Colombia will get you better results than being 100% alpha.

[b]Most American men treat women like princesses and give them money, expensive gifts, cook for them, repair things for them and let themselves be abused by them. So, an alpha male is less common and attracts their attention.

On the other hand, Colombian women are surrounded by abusive thugs and they might confuse an alpha male with one of them. They will fall for beta guys that treat them well though a degree of alpha should also be maintained.

Of course, throwing money around like crazy is just insane. It will get you laid but no real GF experience as you will only attract materialistic girls. I'm sure many don't care but some of us actually prefer to have GF experiences.

this is the most accurate thing u have said...

it's a joke watching all these amrican guys roll in to medellin and see a beautiful girl (who wouldn't spit ont hem back int he states) get some attention and start acting like fucking puppy dogs... these guys get taken to the cleaners..for what? a piece of ass

colombian girls smell them coming from a mile a way...[/b][/b]

[Lukey]

(04-12-2012 08:20 PM)encanto Wrote:  

One thing I've noticed is that Colombian men don't treat them very well. A little bit of beta in Colombia will get you better results than being 100% alpha.

Most American men treat women like princesses and give them money, expensive gifts, cook for them, repair things for them and let themselves be abused by them. So, an alpha male is less common and attracts their attention.

On the other hand, Colombian women are surrounded by abusive thugs and they might confuse an alpha male with one of them. They will fall for beta guys that treat them well though a degree of alpha should also be maintained.

Of course, throwing money around like crazy is just insane. It will get you laid but no real GF experience as you will only attract materialistic girls. I'm sure many don't care but some of us actually prefer to have GF experiences.

This is interesting and I think you make a good point.

I think you are spot on in saying that you must retain an element of alpha, although you may be on to something by appealing to their romantic side as its abundantly clear that Colombianas are suckers for romance and the guys dont give a damn.

[DirkJohanson]

(04-12-2012 08:20 PM)encanto Wrote:  

(04-09-2012 05:54 AM)garygroundwork Wrote:  

in colombia it is all about money... the women are interested in $$$$$$$

colombian women see the older man as more stable, financially better off, more likely to be a provider and less likely to fuck around on them

One thing I've noticed is that Colombian men don't treat them very well. A little bit of beta in Colombia will get you better results than being 100% alpha.

Most American men treat American women like princesses and give them money, expensive gifts, cook for them, repair things for them and let themselves be abused by them. So, an alpha male is less common and attracts their attention.

On the other hand, Colombian women are surrounded by abusive thugs and they might confuse an alpha male with one of them. They will fall for beta guys that treat them well though a degree of alpha should also be maintained.

Of course, throwing money around like crazy is just insane. It will get you laid but no real GF experience as you will only attract materialistic girls. I'm sure many don't care but some of us actually prefer to have GF experiences.

Throwing money around and getting GF experience are not mutually exclusive in either the United States or in Colombia. If you have game, throwing money is an enhancing factor.

It is true some women will assume that if you throw money around, that you have to do so in order to get girls and will get turned off by that. However, in Colombia I'm confident they assume that all Americans down there have a lot of money by the standards of Colombia - because just about any American who can afford international travel does have a lot of money by the standards of Colombia - so I doubt throwing money around hurts much. I'm quite confident it hasn't hurt me in my visits there - I wish I was on the receiving end of as many IOIs in a year in the states as I am in a week in Colombia.

[scotian]

It is true some women will assume that if you throw money around, that you have to do so in order to get girls and will get turned off by that. However, in Colombia I'm confident they assume that all Americans down there have a lot of money by the standards of Colombia - because just about any American who can afford international travel does have a lot of money by the standards of Colombia - so I doubt throwing money around hurts much. I'm quite confident it hasn't hurt me in my visits there - I wish I was on the receiving end of as many IOIs in a year in the states as I am in a week in Colombia.
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Dirk, I agree with you on that one, but my experience differed from yours, when in your previous comment you say that Colombian women are horny and sexualized as hell, I didn`t find that so much in relation to your typical North American woman. Sure they were relatively easy to bed but, once in the sack they weren`t as freaky (which is ok with me since I`m a fairly vanilla guy), and although they were very feminine, I didn`t find them to be overly skanky/slutty. As an example, you won`t see pre-teen/teen girls dressed liked prostitutes in shopping malls like you do in states and Canada.

Encanto: I look forward to your future contributions to this forum, especially in relation to Colombia, I just found that your posts were a bit condescending and unbecoming of a new member, you were temporarily suspended with 25 posts, after all.

[encanto]

(04-12-2012 09:28 PM)DirkJohanson Wrote:  

(04-12-2012 08:20 PM)encanto Wrote:  

(04-09-2012 05:54 AM)garygroundwork Wrote:  

in colombia it is all about money... the women are interested in $$$$$$$

colombian women see the older man as more stable, financially better off, more likely to be a provider and less likely to fuck around on them

One thing I've noticed is that Colombian men don't treat them very well. A little bit of beta in Colombia will get you better results than being 100% alpha.

Most American men treat American women like princesses and give them money, expensive gifts, cook for them, repair things for them and let themselves be abused by them. So, an alpha male is less common and attracts their attention.

On the other hand, Colombian women are surrounded by abusive thugs and they might confuse an alpha male with one of them. They will fall for beta guys that treat them well though a degree of alpha should also be maintained.

Of course, throwing money around like crazy is just insane. It will get you laid but no real GF experience as you will only attract materialistic girls. I'm sure many don't care but some of us actually prefer to have GF experiences.

Throwing money around and getting GF experience are not mutually exclusive in either the United States or in Colombia. If you have game, throwing money is an enhancing factor.

It is true some women will assume that if you throw money around, that you have to do so in order to get girls and will get turned off by that. However, in Colombia I'm confident they assume that all Americans down there have a lot of money by the standards of Colombia - because just about any American who can afford international travel does have a lot of money by the standards of Colombia - so I doubt throwing money around hurts much. I'm quite confident it hasn't hurt me in my visits there - I wish I was on the receiving end of as many IOIs in a year in the states as I am in a week in Colombia.

Well, what I meant to say was that the gringos I have seen in Colombia don't have game, they just have money to throw around so they end up getting laid with beautiful girls which are only with them for the $$$. As I mentioned in my post, I am sure many guys don't care about being seen as ATM's as long as they get laid.

However, I personally prefer a girl that is with me because of my game. Then I have no problem spending some money on having fun with her or inexpensive gifts. Money is definitely one of the things women look for in a man and it's a good thing to have just like looks, intelligence, status, manners, etc.

The problem is when girls only want you for your money. That's when you realize there is something wrong with you. Most often the reason is that you don't have anything else going on for you. I am sure this is not the case for most of the guys that frequent this forum though.

[DirkJohanson]

(04-12-2012 09:41 PM)scotian Wrote:  

It is true some women will assume that if you throw money around, that you have to do so in order to get girls and will get turned off by that. However, in Colombia I'm confident they assume that all Americans down there have a lot of money by the standards of Colombia - because just about any American who can afford international travel does have a lot of money by the standards of Colombia - so I doubt throwing money around hurts much. I'm quite confident it hasn't hurt me in my visits there - I wish I was on the receiving end of as many IOIs in a year in the states as I am in a week in Colombia.

Dirk, I agree with you on that one, but my experience differed from yours, when in your previous comment you say that Colombian women are horny and sexualized as hell, I didn`t find that so much in relation to your typical North American woman. Sure they were relatively easy to bed but, once in the sack they weren`t as freaky (which is ok with me since I`m a fairly vanilla guy), and although they were very feminine, I didn`t find them to be overly skanky/slutty. As an example, you won`t see pre-teen/teen girls dressed liked prostitutes in shopping malls like you do in states and Canada.


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Scotian, In my last trip to Medellin in December, I saw a couple of pre-teens so dressed up like hookers that it felt weird to me even to see them for a second and turn away, and I'm no prude. It was in some neighborhood between Santo Domingo and Manrique. They weren't on a mall, but on the street, but it seems to me that the malls there are skewed more toward the high end, unlike in North America where the proles are in the mall more than anyone.

Anyway, I have run into a lot of freaky girls down there in the sack. My first night ever in Colombia (Cartagena) in '07 (I think), I had two. When one asked for my load on the tits, I turned to the other and asked if she wanted in on it, she pierced what had been a very quiet room with and exclamation "si! leche! leche!" and leaned in to share it.

I had a crazy threesome last January with these two chicks that do each other a lot on their own. One started eating the other's pussy while the other one was standing, so I had her sit on my cock and fcuk me while I licked the other's ass. They loved it.

Last trip, in addition to my first 3-on-1, I went to see Paul Van Dyk spinning in El Centro, making out with one on the way in cab, and then when we were rolling balls at the show, she was literally pushing me to make out with her lifelong best friend (who we picked up before the show).

My main girl down there fingers her clit virtually non-stop during sex.

Anyway, enough detail for now. I think maybe I just stack up better down there relative to up here cuz I'm only 5'9", almost 50, and don't make big money. Not that I haven't had my share of freaks here, but my SMV probably grows down there more than it does for guys who are tall here anyway, have abs, and/or make more money.

[chyamor]

http://news.yahoo.com/misconduct-alleged...05257.html

Secret service got in on some of that fun

[jergens007]

Its money, status and stability!!! Its more acceptable in Latin America. You see a hot ass girl dating a fat overweight older colombian man. Its still a male dominiated society. They would rather flirt and give the time of the day for the older, fat colombian dude who knows how to salsa dance than a young looking colombian pretty boy who cant dance.

Either way, if it comes down to it, all women prefer older established well off men regardsless of race.