I don't understand why some guys laugh at a guy who gets into serious relationship and label him as a 'beta'
(what about your Dad then? LOL)
anyways, I've been going to bars, clubs at least twice a week.
I think, average good girls (GF material) go there to have fun as well but I know I won't find a GF at the bar.
(maybe my game is not tight enough, girls label me as 'the guy who hit on me at the bar', girls can't get into serious relationship from a bar etc)
I've been going out just to have fun (bangs) and improve my skills for other social situations. I don't expect to find a GF from the bar but sometimes when I see a very good girl, I feel like I can find a girl like that at the bar.
In my opinion, going to a bar to find a GF is like trying to make $$$ quick by gambling or investing at high risk items. You feel like it will take a forever by saving money and investing in stocks that yields
only 10% a year.
Before going to the bar, I feel like I can find a girl if I play my cards right that night and I walk away with couple numbers a week. Those numbers end up far from the relationship. Although I never found a GF at the bar, I still go out and do the same thing. I think I don't have a dedication and patience to invest my time in social meetings.
On the other hand, going to social meeting is like building wealth slowly. it will take a time, will be frustrating but you will eventually have it at the end. I have tried some groups and classes.
If I don't see a potential girl within a month, I become impatient and leave.
I realized there is no quick method to find a GF (we already all know but we don't have dedications to attend social meetings I guess)
I think I should go to
-Church (casual christian church, nothing crazy)
-Cross Fit (nobody cares each other at regular gym but they all know each members)
-Salsa class (you get to dance with all women in class as they ask you to rotate)
-Kickball or dodge ball (this is silly sports but I think people are there just to hangout with people)
-Cooking class (not sure if it's worth to pay $30~50 for a single session and hope to meet a chick there)
what other things do you recommend?
If you show up and don't see any girls you like, do you still stay? (become friends with her and get to know her friend? get to know guys and hang out with his groups?)
Let me ask you this. Let's say you have a good game. you are on a mission to find a GF soon. so you cold approach 100s girls like a missionary. what do you think? how was the result if you have tried?
(what about your Dad then? LOL)
anyways, I've been going to bars, clubs at least twice a week.
I think, average good girls (GF material) go there to have fun as well but I know I won't find a GF at the bar.
(maybe my game is not tight enough, girls label me as 'the guy who hit on me at the bar', girls can't get into serious relationship from a bar etc)
I've been going out just to have fun (bangs) and improve my skills for other social situations. I don't expect to find a GF from the bar but sometimes when I see a very good girl, I feel like I can find a girl like that at the bar.
In my opinion, going to a bar to find a GF is like trying to make $$$ quick by gambling or investing at high risk items. You feel like it will take a forever by saving money and investing in stocks that yields
only 10% a year.
Before going to the bar, I feel like I can find a girl if I play my cards right that night and I walk away with couple numbers a week. Those numbers end up far from the relationship. Although I never found a GF at the bar, I still go out and do the same thing. I think I don't have a dedication and patience to invest my time in social meetings.
On the other hand, going to social meeting is like building wealth slowly. it will take a time, will be frustrating but you will eventually have it at the end. I have tried some groups and classes.
If I don't see a potential girl within a month, I become impatient and leave.
I realized there is no quick method to find a GF (we already all know but we don't have dedications to attend social meetings I guess)
I think I should go to
-Church (casual christian church, nothing crazy)
-Cross Fit (nobody cares each other at regular gym but they all know each members)
-Salsa class (you get to dance with all women in class as they ask you to rotate)
-Kickball or dodge ball (this is silly sports but I think people are there just to hangout with people)
-Cooking class (not sure if it's worth to pay $30~50 for a single session and hope to meet a chick there)
what other things do you recommend?
If you show up and don't see any girls you like, do you still stay? (become friends with her and get to know her friend? get to know guys and hang out with his groups?)
Let me ask you this. Let's say you have a good game. you are on a mission to find a GF soon. so you cold approach 100s girls like a missionary. what do you think? how was the result if you have tried?