[Place into newbie forum after. I posted it here first to get some responses from the veterans]
I don’t normally ask for advice on this forum with matters concerning a specific girl because I am a believer in the mantra that if you do that then you are putting too much value on her, and you have already lost her. But I feel like I have lost easy lays because of my weak followup texts.
Anyway, I met this girl at the bar several weeks ago. We hit it off pretty well. I got her number (because her drunken friend actually fell asleep and the bartender kicked her out, so she had to take her friend home). I text her the next day, no response. Come several weeks later, I popped out GMAC’s line.
Sunday Evening
Me: Good. Don’t forget the red heels.
Her: (many hours later) Who is this?
Monday Evening
Me: Oh hey you. Do you always forget new ppl u meet so fast
Her: (few minutes later) Lol, perhaps…so who is this??
Tuesday Morning
Her: Are ya gunna tell me who you are?
Response ideas??? As I said we hit it pretty well in that bar and I was all suited up. I didn’t talk much because I wanted to keep a mysterious aura. I did hint that I travel around the world. Anyway I got a lot more info out of her (which she willingly gave me – where she studies, what her dreams are, etc) than she got out of me. So should I go for logistics and a meetup right away, or should I bring up a topic from our bar discussion to build some comfort since it’s been a while now.
I don’t normally ask for advice on this forum with matters concerning a specific girl because I am a believer in the mantra that if you do that then you are putting too much value on her, and you have already lost her. But I feel like I have lost easy lays because of my weak followup texts.
Anyway, I met this girl at the bar several weeks ago. We hit it off pretty well. I got her number (because her drunken friend actually fell asleep and the bartender kicked her out, so she had to take her friend home). I text her the next day, no response. Come several weeks later, I popped out GMAC’s line.
Sunday Evening
Me: Good. Don’t forget the red heels.
Her: (many hours later) Who is this?
Monday Evening
Me: Oh hey you. Do you always forget new ppl u meet so fast
Her: (few minutes later) Lol, perhaps…so who is this??
Tuesday Morning
Her: Are ya gunna tell me who you are?
Response ideas??? As I said we hit it pretty well in that bar and I was all suited up. I didn’t talk much because I wanted to keep a mysterious aura. I did hint that I travel around the world. Anyway I got a lot more info out of her (which she willingly gave me – where she studies, what her dreams are, etc) than she got out of me. So should I go for logistics and a meetup right away, or should I bring up a topic from our bar discussion to build some comfort since it’s been a while now.