It appears to me that a lot of men get into the game community so they can learn how to get more women, but that doesn't always translate to better women.
The thing is men pursue whatever they believe they can actually get.
Although we have a high number of individuals who claim to only go for dimepieces, the reality is, most men are intimidated by beautiful women.
When you go to a club, you'll often see the most attractive women with no one talking to them. It's not that no one is noticing them, it's that the men don't feel they can bag them, and in the course of going through that they excuse their behavior by saying, "well she's probably here with someone anyway" or "she's not dancing with anybody so she just must be on some girl's night out shit".
I don't believe just studying game is what leads a guy to getting better women. For guys who are not accustomed to bagging highly attractive women, it's simply because they continue to pursue what they feel they can bag.
To change this pattern, you first have to get accustomed to being around attractive women. The more you do this, the more you will decrease the intimidation factor that their beauty creates because you will be more comfortable being around them.
How does one go about it?
I suggest putting yourself in close, personal situations with attractive women who will be completely disarmed even though they are in a situation with a man who is more likely than not conscious of their attractiveness.
So if you're learning a language, hire an attractive tutor.
If you want to learn salsa, take private lessons because most female teachers are 7s and above.
This will put you in private places, i.e. your home or theirs, and it will allow you to have personal interaction with them -- and physical interaction if we're talking dance lessons -- and you'll see your level of comfort around them will increase and your discomfort will decrease.
I don't honestly believe a man who's used to being with average and below average women graduates to more attractive women without first becoming more comfortable around them, as it stands, you can't bang them, if you can't even talk to them.
The thing is men pursue whatever they believe they can actually get.
Although we have a high number of individuals who claim to only go for dimepieces, the reality is, most men are intimidated by beautiful women.
When you go to a club, you'll often see the most attractive women with no one talking to them. It's not that no one is noticing them, it's that the men don't feel they can bag them, and in the course of going through that they excuse their behavior by saying, "well she's probably here with someone anyway" or "she's not dancing with anybody so she just must be on some girl's night out shit".
I don't believe just studying game is what leads a guy to getting better women. For guys who are not accustomed to bagging highly attractive women, it's simply because they continue to pursue what they feel they can bag.
To change this pattern, you first have to get accustomed to being around attractive women. The more you do this, the more you will decrease the intimidation factor that their beauty creates because you will be more comfortable being around them.
How does one go about it?
I suggest putting yourself in close, personal situations with attractive women who will be completely disarmed even though they are in a situation with a man who is more likely than not conscious of their attractiveness.
So if you're learning a language, hire an attractive tutor.
If you want to learn salsa, take private lessons because most female teachers are 7s and above.
This will put you in private places, i.e. your home or theirs, and it will allow you to have personal interaction with them -- and physical interaction if we're talking dance lessons -- and you'll see your level of comfort around them will increase and your discomfort will decrease.
I don't honestly believe a man who's used to being with average and below average women graduates to more attractive women without first becoming more comfortable around them, as it stands, you can't bang them, if you can't even talk to them.