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This Mindset is Blowing My Mind
04-02-2012, 06:53 PM
So, I was reading 60 Years of Challenge's book earlier. One mindset in the book blew my mind. It's in two parts and I'm paraphasing here:
1) There's an undercurrent of sexual energy so strong throughout society, that if social inhibitions were removed we'd have a complete fuck-fest orgy. When I read that, I instantly felt that it was true. I also instantly got an image in my mind of what the world would be like if those barriers were removed.
2) Change out "assume attraction" to "assume she wants your cock." If she's attracted to you, it's not just a tingly feeling in her body, it means she wants your cock. I also vividly understood how when I'm attracted to a woman, that doesn't just mean I like her. I means I want to fuck her. Realizing the flip side was true was big.
Here's how it all tied together.
I made a mental exercise out of it. I wrote "SNMC" on my hand, short for "She Needs My Cock."
I then went to work (co-working space.) Any woman I saw that day, I said to myself: She needs my cock. I also started feeling, really feeling that deep undercurrent of sexual energy that's present through society at all times. I'd get flashes of what kind of orgy would be happening at the bus stop, on the side walks, etc if inhibitions were suddenly released. I walked through life with that sexual-undercurrent-awareness all day. I'd feel my own horniness, then realize that everyone else is feeling the same thing. This is different than conceptually realizing human beings are sexual. It's FEELING how horny society as a whole is.
I'd look at a woman and tell myself: She needs my cock. Then I'll look at her body and I could actually feel her horniness eminating from her.
By the end of the day, I felt completely different. I feel like my entire perception of the world has changed. I don't feel like I'm hornier or want sex more than other people now. I feel like we're all part of the same club of people who badly want to fuck, we just don't know it. I feel less afraid to approach or show interest, as I *GENUINELY* feel like I've tapped into how badly women want dick.
Anyway - Just wanted to share a perspective shift that blew my mind.
Cheers,
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This Mindset is Blowing My Mind
04-02-2012, 07:21 PM
Very interesting. Do you have a link to a download of the book. I'd like to give it a read when time presents itself.
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This Mindset is Blowing My Mind
04-02-2012, 07:29 PM
Interesting thinking. Thinking that she is super horny means you will be more teasing towards her. And thats always worked for me.
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This Mindset is Blowing My Mind
04-02-2012, 08:12 PM
Did you find yourself approaching more girls because of this? Significantly more?
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This Mindset is Blowing My Mind
04-02-2012, 08:27 PM
Interesting. Do you bang more girls with this mindset?
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04-02-2012, 10:56 PM
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04-02-2012, 10:59 PM
Fast forward five years. You see a guy glimpsing his at his wrist between approaches, except he has no watch there. You make out the lettering 'SMNC' and you say to yourself, "ahh, a forum member."
I do like writing SMNC on your hand. And this style of game is a cornerstone of my online IM game. You can spot the real freaky chicks quick, because they love it when you tell them that they can't get too grabby, etc.
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This Mindset is Blowing My Mind
04-05-2012, 08:24 PM
Update: Just went out for the first time tonight since doing that exercise. The next was very different, much more sexual. It wasn't just the mindset of course, I was implementing a few new things as well, such as escalating really early as well as asking her to come home with me within the first 5 minutes of the interaction. I'm learning to push the escalation side quickly right now.
The night was fantastic. Kissed two girls, got one date with a super cutie and another number from a girl who, if she responds, would be a casual hookup. The whole night just felt sexual, which was a feeling that I often felt was lacking before.
Still integrating and experimenting with this.
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09-21-2012, 06:35 PM
Any updates after several months?
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This Mindset is Blowing My Mind
09-21-2012, 11:44 PM
The link was pulled down too. Perhaps that's why drymarro was banned?
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This Mindset is Blowing My Mind
09-22-2012, 12:20 AM
This is a great mindset to have. I always assume attraction and I'm beginning to view most talking as just as a formality before fucking. It kind of hit me at the start of this year when I overheard this group of girls saying how hot these guys were (they were in a group nearby) and how one of the chicks should go talk to them. Girls are just begging to be approached, yearning for a knowledgeable man to sweep them off their feet and fuck the everloving shit out of them. Why do you think they dress nice, make eye contact with you. Why else would they brush their thigh across you when moving through a tight area why else would they accidentally touch their hand to yours when you hand them something. They are begging to be fucked by someone like us, someone who isn't a pussy or socially retarded. They want dick but are equivalent to beta males; they will never approach unless drunk. It's up to you to go and take what you want.
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09-22-2012, 03:27 AM
Quote: (09-21-2012 11:44 PM)kbell Wrote:
The link was pulled down too. Perhaps that's why drymarro was banned?
Drymarro was banned for being a forum wrecking cunt.
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09-22-2012, 03:28 AM
Quote: (09-22-2012 12:20 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:
This is a great mindset to have. I always assume attraction and I'm beginning to view most talking as just as a formality before fucking. It kind of hit me at the start of this year when I overheard this group of girls saying how hot these guys were (they were in a group nearby) and how one of the chicks should go talk to them. Girls are just begging to be approached, yearning for a knowledgeable man to sweep them off their feet and fuck the everloving shit out of them. Why do you think they dress nice, make eye contact with you. Why else would they brush their thigh across you when moving through a tight area why else would they accidentally touch their hand to yours when you hand them something. They are begging to be fucked by someone like us, someone who isn't a pussy or socially retarded. They want dick but are equivalent to beta males; they will never approach unless drunk. It's up to you to go and take what you want.
I think i'm gonna experiment with this mindset too.
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09-22-2012, 06:26 PM
Yeah, I love it. Through self-hypnosis, NLP, Neuro-Semantics, etc., I installed this mindset when I was about 20 years old; I'm now 37. I therefore have no problem talking to women within a sexual frame. I KNOW they want to be fucked. Whether it's "true" or not, before I start talking, is totally irrelevent...as long as it becomes "true" upon my arrival, the instant utterances exit my mouth. Specifically, the belief I walk through life with is that "ALL WOMEN WANT TO FUCK ME, IT IS UP TO ME TO SCREEN FOR THOSE WORTHY OF THE PRIVILEGE." This acts as a propulsion system on steroids.
The authors of "A Billion Wicked Things: What the World's Largest Experiment Reveals About Human Desire" talk about women's subcortical, primal, psychological need to feel sexually irresistible. They call it "the magic hoo hoo." This represents that "something" that women wish to have that makes their "romantic hero" incapable of escaping her wished-for, sexual irresistibility.
So fuck it...become that "romantic hero"--the one that makes romance novels more profitable than porn--by being unapologetic about you finding her sexually irresistible. Doing this, you hijack their mammalian limbic system of the brain...and the pussies will throb.
Be the Rake (without the rape) who is compelled by her irresistible sexuality. This frame has given me an abundance of hot & cold pussy on tap.
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09-23-2012, 12:07 AM
Quote: (09-22-2012 12:20 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:
This is a great mindset to have. I always assume attraction and I'm beginning to view most talking as just as a formality before fucking. It kind of hit me at the start of this year when I overheard this group of girls saying how hot these guys were (they were in a group nearby) and how one of the chicks should go talk to them. Girls are just begging to be approached, yearning for a knowledgeable man to sweep them off their feet and fuck the everloving shit out of them. Why do you think they dress nice, make eye contact with you. Why else would they brush their thigh across you when moving through a tight area why else would they accidentally touch their hand to yours when you hand them something. They are begging to be fucked by someone like us, someone who isn't a pussy or socially retarded. They want dick but are equivalent to beta males; they will never approach unless drunk. It's up to you to go and take what you want.
This is inspiring and 100% true.
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09-23-2012, 10:41 AM
Who wrote this book? I was looking it up on amazon and couldn't find it.
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This Mindset is Blowing My Mind
09-23-2012, 05:36 PM
I think this is the book...
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