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04-02-2012, 02:42 PM
I came from a men-only family (more guys than girls as cousins, in fact I have just one girl cousin and my sister as girl company) and I could see my male cousins doing whatever they wanted to with girls and my uncle several ladies and kids (and he still does so, cheating his wife and she knows it).
Anyway, this is not what I want to talk about it. My cousin K. is 18 years-old boy who dates a stunning 16 years-old girl crazy about him. He is not living here SP, he just pass by during weekends and she lives here. So, she spends the entire week waiting for him and wanting a valentine experience when comes to friday.
However, this weekend he let her at home gone with his friends at a party where he hooked up with a beautiful (according to him, and I believe it, because his dates are incredible, and he does not hide things from me and my other female cousin) 16 years old girl who had just aborted a kid, he told that later she searched his pocket for cigarrets and she was a hell of a drinker.
During sunday, the last day here in SP, she kept calling him to visit her and he didn't go at her place. He said: I won't treat her well. I could, but I won't, because women don't value it. If you treat them nice, they will disrespect you. I told her we are over already because she is going to Ireland in the end of the year (he might go to Belgium, too).
Any thoughts?
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04-02-2012, 02:52 PM
I thought you were pregnant.
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04-02-2012, 03:29 PM
No, no, no...! No little bombons running over!
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04-02-2012, 03:32 PM
The logic of women. Treat them bad, they go crazy or you. Simple motto playas!!!
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04-03-2012, 03:19 AM
Off topic, but what's the back story with Ms. Chocolate? I believe she is the only girl on the forum?
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04-03-2012, 09:35 AM
I wish I had that level of common sense when I was 18. Unfortunately I believed treating females well, giving them compliments, listening to their problems.. was worth my time.
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04-03-2012, 09:53 AM
So, Mrs. C, how do you deal with guys when/if they treat you nice? Do you know how to appreciate it?
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04-03-2012, 02:06 PM
Never had such a guy. No doors opened, no fancy dinners, I paid for my movie ticked most of the times.
The nearest thing that I had of a "nice guy" was my 1st boyfriend. But he was such a beta + nerd that his mom commanded him and he lost his own will ( he does not know what to do at all, he used to ask me what he should do to follow the "date protocol" ). Until today I think that she made him stop seeing me because I am black.
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04-03-2012, 02:11 PM
The pussy responds to violence because for most of human history violence was necessary for survival. Rolling with a violent guy meant staying alive. Many times, the only guys available were the violent ones, bacause they killed everyone else. (and took their women)
Its all evolutionary right?
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04-03-2012, 03:23 PM
Never met Mrs. Chocolate but she's the only girl who registered here who hasn't tried to fuck up discussions. After she registered I implemented a "no girls" rule, but exempted her.
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04-04-2012, 09:09 AM
@Moma: No, my ex wasn't black, his family was from (south) Italy. Many Europeans came to SA during the 1st and 2nd World Wars running from nazism and poverty. The weirdest part was that the only one who ever liked me in his family was his best friend, the grandpa - who cut his hair while made him questions about our relationship was going in a nice way.
@speakeasy: What would I do if I met a nice guy? I don't know, but from my experience (my friends) said that at first they thought that it wasn't happening, it was like a dream and they started to question themselves if they could deserve and appreciate it all, and give it all back.
I think it may occur to me, but I am no sure if will I meet such a person one day. Life can be just a sequence of crappy dates.
How do brazilian girls respond to nice guys? Well, it depends how damage their heads after years of humping and dumping/ amount of LTR they had in past, there is no formula for that.
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04-04-2012, 09:31 AM
@speakeasy: Sorry, I just forgot. In past, I dated more white guys than black (social circle), but now it seems that I am in a black men phase. In fact, since I had my hair natural, more black guys are interested than white guys, but I am not so sure... Alternative/artsy white guys seem not to care, while white guys with a regular profession as lawer are less willing to look at.
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