[Mrs. Chocolate]

I came from a men-only family (more guys than girls as cousins, in fact I have just one girl cousin and my sister as girl company) and I could see my male cousins doing whatever they wanted to with girls and my uncle several ladies and kids (and he still does so, cheating his wife and she knows it).

Anyway, this is not what I want to talk about it. My cousin K. is 18 years-old boy who dates a stunning 16 years-old girl crazy about him. He is not living here SP, he just pass by during weekends and she lives here. So, she spends the entire week waiting for him and wanting a valentine experience when comes to friday.

However, this weekend he let her at home gone with his friends at a party where he hooked up with a beautiful (according to him, and I believe it, because his dates are incredible, and he does not hide things from me and my other female cousin) 16 years old girl who had just aborted a kid, he told that later she searched his pocket for cigarrets and she was a hell of a drinker.

During sunday, the last day here in SP, she kept calling him to visit her and he didn't go at her place. He said: I won't treat her well. I could, but I won't, because women don't value it. If you treat them nice, they will disrespect you. I told her we are over already because she is going to Ireland in the end of the year (he might go to Belgium, too).

Any thoughts?

[Roosh]

I thought you were pregnant.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

No, no, no...! No little bombons running over!

[tomtud]

The logic of women. Treat them bad, they go crazy or you. Simple motto playas!!!

[Moma]

(04-02-2012 03:29 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

No, no, no...! No little bombons running over!

Mrs Chocolate is saving her eggs for me. I need a Brazillian connect hence...

[WanderingSoul]

Off topic, but what's the back story with Ms. Chocolate? I believe she is the only girl on the forum?

[Moma]

(04-03-2012 03:19 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Off topic, but what's the back story with Ms. Chocolate? I believe she is the only girl on the forum?

I think Roosh met her in Brazil and she was extra cool so he had to make her a part of the empire..or..he sniffed out her font style on the forum as female and since she was cool and sent a pic, he allowed her to stay.

[rozayINTL]

I wish I had that level of common sense when I was 18. Unfortunately I believed treating females well, giving them compliments, listening to their problems.. was worth my time.

[speakeasy]

So, Mrs. C, how do you deal with guys when/if they treat you nice? Do you know how to appreciate it?

[Mrs. Chocolate]

Never had such a guy. No doors opened, no fancy dinners, I paid for my movie ticked most of the times.
The nearest thing that I had of a "nice guy" was my 1st boyfriend. But he was such a beta + nerd that his mom commanded him and he lost his own will ( he does not know what to do at all, he used to ask me what he should do to follow the "date protocol" ). Until today I think that she made him stop seeing me because I am black.

[Giovonny]

The pussy responds to violence because for most of human history violence was necessary for survival. Rolling with a violent guy meant staying alive. Many times, the only guys available were the violent ones, bacause they killed everyone else. (and took their women)

Its all evolutionary right?

[Moma]

(04-03-2012 02:06 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

Never had such a guy. No doors opened, no fancy dinners, I paid for my movie ticked most of the times.
The nearest thing that I had of a "nice guy" was my 1st boyfriend. But he was such a beta + nerd that his mom commanded him and he lost his own will ( he does not know what to do at all, he used to ask me what he should do to follow the "date protocol" ). Until today I think that she made him stop seeing me because I am black.

Was this guy black? Do you date black guys in Brazil? I am a bit intrigued at the racial dynamics in South America. Not wanting to make this a race thread but it seems like the same core dynamics exist that do in many Western countries.

Do black guys date black women a lot in Brazil or do they hardly date them?

For the non black guys who DO date black women, what kind of black women do they date? Light skinned or regular skin tone?

Does a huge black middle class exist in Brazil or not at all? If your reports are the norm, for a cat like me who enjoys chocolate, I might slaughter when I go down there.

[JoyStick]

(04-03-2012 03:19 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Off topic, but what's the back story with Ms. Chocolate? I believe she is the only girl on the forum?

there's another girl name Kay. she only have around 5 posts on the forum, but i see her post comments on roosh's blog and she seem pretty logical and sane too. it's crazy that it's weird when girls actually seem normal.

[Roosh]

Never met Mrs. Chocolate but she's the only girl who registered here who hasn't tried to fuck up discussions. After she registered I implemented a "no girls" rule, but exempted her.

[speakeasy]

(04-03-2012 02:06 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

Never had such a guy. No doors opened, no fancy dinners, I paid for my movie ticked most of the times.
The nearest thing that I had of a "nice guy" was my 1st boyfriend. But he was such a beta + nerd that his mom commanded him and he lost his own will ( he does not know what to do at all, he used to ask me what he should do to follow the "date protocol" ). Until today I think that she made him stop seeing me because I am black.

And what would you do if you met a nice guy that held the door open for you and bought you dinner and gave compliments and such? Would you take him for granted or would you long for the bad boy and wish he was edgier?

I'm just curious. How do most Brazilian girls respond to a "nice" guy? For example, European women are much more appreciative of nicer guys from what I observe. But I'm not sure about S. American women.

I also think that the women(at least here in the US) that most appreciate a nicer or good guy are the ones that have a good relationship with their father and come from intact homes. I think a lot of that is having a strong father in her life, he isn't going to let her go slutting around with bad boys. I know if I had a teen daughter, I'd never be letting her go out dressed like a ho with mysterious guys always coming around. I'd put an end to that shit quick. I'm willing to bet a strong father is the biggest deterrent to a girl growing up to be a whore. This is why single motherhood pisses me off. Mothers are best at nurturing, father's best at setting boundaries. This is the way it's supposed to be and feminism is fucking with that natural evolution by insisting women need a man like a fish needs a bicycle.

[Moma]

(04-03-2012 05:07 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

And what would you do if you met a nice guy that held the door open for you and bought you dinner and gave compliments and such? Would you take him for granted or would you long for the bad boy and wish he was edgier?

I'm just curious. How do most Brazilian girls respond to a "nice" guy? For example, European women are much more appreciative of nicer guys from what I observe. But I'm not sure about S. American women.

I also think that the women(at least here in the US) that most appreciate a nicer or good guy are the ones that have a good relationship with their father and come from intact homes. I think a lot of that is having a strong father in her life, he isn't going to let her go slutting around with bad boys. I know if I had a teen daughter, I'd never be letting her go out dressed like a ho with mysterious guys always coming around. I'd put an end to that shit quick. I'm willing to bet a strong father is the biggest deterrent to a girl growing up to be a whore. This is why single motherhood pisses me off. Mothers are best at nurturing, father's best at setting boundaries. This is the way it's supposed to be and feminism is fucking with that natural evolution by insisting women need a man like a fish needs a bicycle.

That's it. In fact, as I get older, women who do not come from a household with a strong male figure in there cannot be considered for anything serious beyond a cum receptacle. The patterns repeat themselves over and over again.

If a cat were to get married and he was to scope a lizard that came from a single mother household, he is gambling with loaded dice (against him).

[speakeasy]

(04-03-2012 02:15 PM)Moma Wrote:  

(04-03-2012 02:06 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

Never had such a guy. No doors opened, no fancy dinners, I paid for my movie ticked most of the times.
The nearest thing that I had of a "nice guy" was my 1st boyfriend. But he was such a beta + nerd that his mom commanded him and he lost his own will ( he does not know what to do at all, he used to ask me what he should do to follow the "date protocol" ). Until today I think that she made him stop seeing me because I am black.

Was this guy black? Do you date black guys in Brazil? I am a bit intrigued at the racial dynamics in South America. Not wanting to make this a race thread but it seems like the same core dynamics exist that do in many Western countries.

Do black guys date black women a lot in Brazil or do they hardly date them?

For the non black guys who DO date black women, what kind of black women do they date? Light skinned or regular skin tone?

Does a huge black middle class exist in Brazil or not at all? If your reports are the norm, for a cat like me who enjoys chocolate, I might slaughter when I go down there.

Watch the short video in the article: http://deepbrazil.com/2009/11/22/daily-dose-of-racism/

Racism in Brazil is a different animal than what we're used to in Anglo countries. Most people have some mix, but will still look down on their mixed brethren if they are darker.

[Yams]

(04-03-2012 05:26 PM)Moma Wrote:  

That's it. In fact, as I get older, women who do not come from a household with a strong male figure in there cannot be considered for anything serious beyond a cum receptacle. The patterns repeat themselves over and over again.

If a cat were to get married and he was to scope a lizard that came from a single mother household, he is gambling with loaded dice (against him).

Sadly I've come to this conclusion as well. Even a shitty relationship with a step dad is enough to cause a chick to be a closet whore. Its important to keep your ears open when they are talking about their upbringing because they are more than willing to tell you (indirectly) what kind of women they are.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

@Moma: No, my ex wasn't black, his family was from (south) Italy. Many Europeans came to SA during the 1st and 2nd World Wars running from nazism and poverty. The weirdest part was that the only one who ever liked me in his family was his best friend, the grandpa - who cut his hair while made him questions about our relationship was going in a nice way.

@speakeasy: What would I do if I met a nice guy? I don't know, but from my experience (my friends) said that at first they thought that it wasn't happening, it was like a dream and they started to question themselves if they could deserve and appreciate it all, and give it all back.
I think it may occur to me, but I am no sure if will I meet such a person one day. Life can be just a sequence of crappy dates.
How do brazilian girls respond to nice guys? Well, it depends how damage their heads after years of humping and dumping/ amount of LTR they had in past, there is no formula for that.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

@speakeasy: Sorry, I just forgot. In past, I dated more white guys than black (social circle), but now it seems that I am in a black men phase. In fact, since I had my hair natural, more black guys are interested than white guys, but I am not so sure... Alternative/artsy white guys seem not to care, while white guys with a regular profession as lawer are less willing to look at.