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Finding The Right Type Of Girl Through Game
10-04-2009, 09:23 PM
This is sort of an inquiry to see, of those of you who are pretty good at getting girls at this point, how many of you have come across the type of girl that you could see yourself settling down with. I'm not talking so much marriage material, because I'm sure most of you aren't interested in settling down that long term at this point (and why would you?) but more like finding a cool girl that you wouldn't mind calling your girlfriend.
Of those of you who have found this type of girl, where did you find her? Was it based on commonalities or differences?
The reason being, I have an image of the type of girl I want, and she's like this:
- Good looking, educated, not-spoiled, and has a positive outlook on life.
So far, I have been able to find a mix-match of those qualities, but not one girl who has all of these qualities.
Who here has had better luck?
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10-04-2009, 11:25 PM
I am in this situation as we speak, she is sleeping soundly next to me.
She is one of my 'regulars' so to speak, but I really just started rolling with her much more than the others. She fits the bill as for your criteria, but dynamite in the sack can be added as well. I realized that it meant something because I started caring, covering up, and lying that I was/am sleeping around with other girls.
It has hurt my game, but in reality I have transitioned it to our interactions, and the results can be seen in similar to the pick up. It is a lot like George Castanza's "hand" in the relationship analogy.
As my motto goes though, be careful, sex can lead to STDs, but even worse, it can lead to relationships.
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10-04-2009, 11:26 PM
I have a feeling though it is like Sal and his Mexican broad in On the Road, it will end as we part ways in the next few months.
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Finding The Right Type Of Girl Through Game
10-04-2009, 11:36 PM
its something similar to my recent post ''the thing you called chemistry''.
finding 'right' girl in PUA is almost impossible...you go for better and better,in my case,whenever i thougth that she is a 'right' girl for me...i fallen head down on the earth while gaming her.
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Finding The Right Type Of Girl Through Game
10-06-2009, 12:21 AM
I am in the same boat mate, the stakes are just getting higher for me when I fuck around.
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Finding The Right Type Of Girl Through Game
10-07-2009, 08:05 AM
That's the key Kona, "try it for awhile" there's nothing that says this would be permanent, and if you like the girl, what is wrong with dating her? It's not as though you're getting married. Plus, who knows maybe Mr. Japanese hot-shot business man will throw a bone your way, in the form of a sweet job or use of his condo when he's on business trips! Course, those additional perks may not interest you, but I sure know I'd be hoping for them.
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Finding The Right Type Of Girl Through Game
10-09-2009, 12:36 PM
Like the topic... personally I always think I can do better and better... If I'm dating some girl I actually start to care about, it'll take 2-3 months before they start harping on the relationship topic, and by that time I'm dating 1, 2, 3, 4? other chicks as well so in my head I'm use to seeing her and others so I can't see myself committing because in my head all I know is dating her along w/ others... Another part of this is probably that all my boys back from school, we grad in '04, are all either engaged or married and I can't help but feel like they turned themselves in to the system and just 'settled.' Because of this I've had to go out and make new guy friends in the area since I never see them.
At this point while I think the idea of having a real gf would be nice after years of not having one, I'm having too much fun not having one....
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10-11-2009, 02:32 AM
Hi guys
I haven't logged onto the board for around 6 months now. Part of that is that I have a 'girlfriend' in my life, and my game has scaled back naturally. Its a question of where your sexual energy gets used. If a girl comes along and she fits you're criteria, she's a great girl, then you end up in a relationship naturally and you go out less and you don't take the trouble to do all that initiative/escalation. Now I 'game' or flirt, because thats me, I like the live that way. I like to play. Its actually, I believe, the purest form of game, where you don't come from a place of neediness or wanting.
Can I say one thing that Gmanifesto said: great girls do not come by everyday. Neither do great guys, so you should work also at being a great guy. If you're 'there' too then it will work with a great girl, even its for a few months. At some point to have deep experiences you have to surrender and love someone. DOn't be stingy - it takes more than being 'alpha' to be happy.
I still log on occasionally to see what you guys are up to, because people who are trying to get excellent social skills are to be admired - and because I enjoy seeing what people are trying.
Life is too short. Regardless of what you're doing - make it fun.
The Twig
"For the true meaning of victory ask the defeated warrior"
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Finding The Right Type Of Girl Through Game
10-11-2009, 09:17 AM
Aloha,
I am engaged to be married.
Mahalo!
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10-13-2009, 06:48 AM
It took me 8 days to ruin this.
This chick will never speak to me again.
Aloha!