[DeepGreen]

The fat guy in question is still fat(most likely fatter) after waiting 6 years while the girl of his dreams got plowed by 3 different dudes and then ends up a single mother and has fattie-fat-fat-fat sucked into a relationship so she has someone to leach off of.

No, you should not wait her out. The poor sod is trapped in a relationship with a woman and someone else's child. If anything this anecdote is the perfect example of why you should not wait it out.

Utlimately with a woman there are only 2 possible views she can have of you. That of someone too timid to make a move(a beta) or someone she knows she shouldn't be alone with unless she's DTF. Its that simple. There is a lot of talk about how not giving up your power to women, and always having the upper hand and whatnot. There is a very simple way to do this. Always be escalating. Either she will reject you and you know not to waste anymore time on her, or she accepts it on some level and you escalate further.

[iknowexactly]

(04-06-2012 04:44 PM)Urban Renaissance Man Wrote:  

(04-05-2012 05:23 PM)Zee Wrote:  

It can work, as it did for me, but its not effective at all.

Very interesting. Care to explain how it worked for you, yet you feel it doesn't work?

STOP KIDDING YOURSELF and wasting your life.

This is the thinking of an adolescent who thinks there's some GOD that's going to pay him back for being stupid. Or even an infantile person who remembers his MOMMY eventually came

She's not your mother, she's your PREY.

AND FURTHERMORE, even if you want to keep crushing on her the best way to do it is while you bang a steady stream of new snatch.

Does the STUPID wildebeest get "paid back" -- NO, it gets ripped to shreds while still alive.

And no one cares. And no one cares about you, or me except our mothers.

Sum total of reasons for celibate wait: "Negative zero."

[Hotwheels]

The only way I have seen to get out of the friendzone is to fuck other broads and make sure she knows about it.

Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.

But at least you're still getting laid.

[sylo]

(04-08-2012 03:12 AM)DeepGreen Wrote:  

Utlimately with a woman there are only 2 possible views she can have of you. That of someone too timid to make a move(a beta) or someone she knows she shouldn't be alone with unless she's DTF. Its that simple. There is a lot of talk about how not giving up your power to women, and always having the upper hand and whatnot. There is a very simple way to do this. Always be escalating. Either she will reject you and you know not to waste anymore time on her, or she accepts it on some level and you escalate further.

Nicely said Mr Green, agree 110%