[CynicalContrarian]

Re: the previous bald headed freak on page 142.

Better for them to actively display their derangement as opposed to some poor schmuck finding out the hard way I suppose...?

[Vladimir Poontang]

70 Women Ages 5-75 Answer: What Advice Do You Have for Men?

https://video.glamour.com/watch/70-women...ve-for-men

[spokepoker]

What's it say?

[monsquid]

Trash. Don't watch it. Time I will never get back. Basically women bitching about men without offering anything practical.

[godfather dust]

I saw the first 1 or 2 5 year olds say "always be nice to girls" and shut it off (15 seconds or whatever.)

[Simeon_Strangelight]

   

Instagram vs Reality - I met some Instagram hotties - some were the real deal, many were highly over-valued.

[Vill@in]

I'm at the point now where every picture I see of a female on Social Media I just assume that it's filtered.

Just like how make-up became socially acceptable way back in the day, now these filters are being socially accepted. Beta faggots don't care, they just want pretty pics of girls so they can rub their dicks and dream; other girls love it because they can get away with it like the other fake whores.

It's a lie. And these girls filter their pics so much they probably actually think others see them like that. "Repeat a lie often enough and it becomes truth"

I strongly advocate fat shaming and filter shaming.

[The Catalyst]

Has to be a different girl right? I can't see it being any other way...

[blck]

There is no better way to explain the word: NUANCE

[Rhyme or Reason]

(07-23-2018 03:22 PM)Vladimir Poontang Wrote:  

70 Women Ages 5-75 Answer: What Advice Do You Have for Men?

https://video.glamour.com/watch/70-women...ve-for-men

Imagine how much of a SoyFag a guy's gotta be to take that shit seriously

[DJ-Matt]

Jesus you think that dumb cunt would have airbrushed off that shitty tattoo, who does that to their arm and expects to be taken seriously by anyone (especially employers). You basically are saying to the world "The best job I'll ever get is barista".

[Vladimir Poontang]

Old Poontang strikes again with another city beta thread :

http://www.city-data.com/forum/relations...y-not.html

They banned me after 11 pages and 13 posts. But the show goes on, at least for now.

Enjoy.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

(08-12-2018 06:57 PM)Vladimir Poontang Wrote:  

Old Poontang strikes again with another city beta thread :

http://www.city-data.com/forum/relations...y-not.html

They banned me after 11 pages and 13 posts. But the show goes on, at least for now.

Enjoy.

^^^^^
Very amusing. And now for a completely different perspective.

Age and experience have altered my views about this subject. When you're in your teens and twenties, single mothers are a must to avoid. They're usually the irresponsible party girls who want Alpha Fux/Beta Bux.

But...a funny thing happens on the way to your forties. Child-rearing humbles women. It forces them to confront the real world and think about someone other than themselves. By contrast, spending decades single and childless allows women to become selfish, self-important, and often irresponsible.

Excluding welfare queens, the single (or divorced) mother spends her prime years dealing with schools and teachers, learning to be a neighbor and/or homeowner, being responsible at work, and becoming an integral part of the larger society.

The childless woman, on the other hand, indulges herself with fake tans, endless vacations, too much alcohol, and idiotic "classes" about flaky bullshit. Whereas most single mothers choose men who will be good for their kids, the childless woman dates bad boy after bad boy and has no qualms about completely mistreating everyone else. (And if you think *you're* the bad boy, chances are, she'll already know someone badder and try to emasculate you with that. Whenever you think these women can't get any lower, they find another basement -- to paraphrase F. Scott Fitzgerald.)

As such, the eternally childless woman becomes the center of her own universe, the star in her own soap opera, and the martyr in her own self-made bible. If you meet up with her at 48 (as I just did -- don't ask), it's as if she's still mentally and emotionally 18. That's not pretty. In fact, it's sort of grotesque. But what did we expect?! She never really had to grow up.

The single mother, though, had to grow up -- and fast. At 40 (or even 30), she's likely to have little patience with games or general stupidity. If you're a hardworking, honest man, she'll more than likely treat you respectfully in return. Life forced her to appreciate good things, not take them for granted.

This type of reflexive reciprocity is what makes society work. Without it, we'd have the law of the jungle. This is what a society of single, childless women would lead us to: No one treating anyone good and honest with any respect and everyone sucking the (metaphorical or real) dicks of criminals and troublemakers. This might seems amusing when you're 18 and sort of a badass yourself, but it really doesn't work when you become an actual adult.

So, to wrap this all up, once you hit age 40 or so, it's single mothers or divorced women with kids who are most likely to be decent women. It's the eternally childless wench you'll want to avoid.

I should really write an article expounding on the details of this. At 23, I wouldn't have believed it myself. But since all of you will be older someday, keep this in the back of your mind.

This forum is now ten years old, and I think it's time we step back and try to get a wider-screen view on some subjects we've long discussed. So, while Vladimir might be right to call out single mothers from his perspective, we need to acknowledge there are other points-of-view from men with other experiences.

[Rhyme or Reason]

DOBA I see what you're saying but I have got to say it's a tough sell you're attempting.

Single mothers are more grateful for the cock they get from higher value guys, as they see it. They have less free time on their hands and therefore want to get straight to it which can be a good thing when you're exactly what they're looking for.

Doesn't make them any better as far as dating prospects go, however.

They're as fickle and unreliable as any childless woman, just with an extra burden to carry. Which she will have no qualms about dropping said burden on whomever is dumb enough to take her seriously.

That being said if we're talking 40+ I really don't see what difference it makes if she's got kids or not...because it's a non starter for serious relationship at that point either way.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

One of my cousins became pregnant with a real Bad Boy Alpha at age 18. He is an intelligent but crazy occasional criminal (rare combo since most criminals with impulse control issues are dumb). Still - after the inevitable split she still kept on looking for Alpha cock until age 30.

And keep in mind that she is above average in intelligence. Only past 30 did she try to get a more sensible man. It took her another 5 years to strike luck and find a well-off bloke aged 37 who had enough Game to satisfy her Alpha-widow-state.

She is lucky that she looks good for her age, but you know that she is super-desperate to make this relationship worth his while. I agree with Days that women after a certain age are super-desperate to keep that bloke - especially because they have been single for so long and high-value men for her don't come along that often - at least those that want to settle down with them.

I even told her 37yo boyfriend, that he could get a 22yo girl easily enough. It's good that they have a good sexual chemistry and I think that she would let it slide if he bangs a hottie on the side, so long as he does not leave her.

However - I am not so sure how old you would need to get to really go that way. Maybe if you are 60, still bangable as a man, and want to get a woman who is sort of attractive, but does not want to have any more children. Then the 30yo single mother with a 10yo kid may be an option.

It probably depends on your raw sexual market value, wealth at that age (this becomes more important the older we get unless you are the clear fuckboi hardcore biker over 50), genetics and how you held up in terms of looks etc. Because a good-looking wealthy 50yo man should rather pick the 25yo hottie from a less feminist country -in fact he can pick two and live in a hard harem.

[questor70]

(08-13-2018 12:55 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

...once you hit age 40 or so, it's single mothers or divorced women with kids who are most likely to be decent women.

Divorced single moms come with their own problems, though. For instance, moms may be able to handle household responsibility but they also tend to want to live vicariously through their children. Their own sense of identity dissolves in favor of the kids. These are the factors that probably led to the marital breakdown in the first place. So they're not as self-centered, but in its place they are parenting-centered. They might be exhausted and frustrated by not having me-time, but their sense of obligation to parenting (pretty much the only sense of duty a woman's instinct gives her) means they'll be at the little league game or chaufferring the kids around on a weekend instead of giving you sex. That might make for a "decent" woman but not one who is in a position to give a guy what he values most.

[CynicalContrarian]

(08-10-2018 02:09 PM)Vill@in Wrote:  

I'm at the point now where every picture I see of a female on Social Media I just assume that it's filtered.

Just like how make-up became socially acceptable way back in the day, now these filters are being socially accepted. Beta faggots don't care, they just want pretty pics of girls so they can rub their dicks and dream; other girls love it because they can get away with it like the other fake whores.

It's a lie. And these girls filter their pics so much they probably actually think others see them like that. "Repeat a lie often enough and it becomes truth"

I strongly advocate fat shaming and filter shaming.

So "strong". So "brave". Yet they hide behind make-up (masks) & filters...

Imagine if Trump outlawed make-up for environmental reasons & filters for false advertising reasons.
There'd be levels of reee-steria previously unheard of...

[CRR]

(08-10-2018 10:08 AM)Simeon_Strangelight Wrote:  

Instagram vs Reality - I met some Instagram hotties - some were the real deal, many were highly over-valued.

That happened to me. A friend's wife wanted to introduce me to her friend, showed me her instagram. 99% of the pictures looked like the one on the left, one looked the like the picture on the right. Guess which one she looked like in real life? That her personality was both vapid and entitled certainly didn't help.

This is the result of insisting on irrational confidence for women. Women confuse appearing hot with being attractive. A vast majority of women can't get away with a pose like that. Yet so many women post ridiculous pictures of themselves trying to appear 'hot'. There are many women who if they dropped the attitude and just posted normal, nice looking pictures of themselves and they'd have decent guys asking them out. Instead, they try to be 'hot', get pumped-n-dumped by men out of their league, and are left wondering where all the good men went.

Speaking of irrational confidence, a friend of mine who just got out of a relationship started internet dating. I made the mistake of asking my girlfriend if we can introduce him to one of her attractive friends. She knew why I was asking about some of her friends and not others, so she gave me the "why, do you think they're hot". Me "they just seem nice". Of course I'd bang them if the opportunity arises. Anyway, his profile basically shows who he is. 6'1, makes good money, looking for a fit, pleasant woman who is a few years younger than him. I'd say a third of his matches are what he is looking for, the rest are of women who are 39-going-on-60 and overweight women trying to appear 'hot'. The same women who have written countless articles how they can't find a 'good man' and can't figure out why, since they choose to believe feminist propaganda about self-love, everyone is beautiful, etc. Confidence is good, but often times it has to be earned and comes from within and from accomplishments. Being an entitled, highly opinionated, chubby cubicle jocky does not cut it.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(08-16-2018 01:08 PM)CRR Wrote:  

(08-10-2018 10:08 AM)Simeon_Strangelight Wrote:  

Instagram vs Reality - I met some Instagram hotties - some were the real deal, many were highly over-valued.

That happened to me. A friend's wife wanted to introduce me to her friend, showed me her instagram. 99% of the pictures looked like the one on the left, one looked the like the picture on the right. Guess which one she looked like in real life? That her personality was both vapid and entitled certainly didn't help.

This is the result of insisting on irrational confidence for women. Women confuse appearing hot with being attractive. A vast majority of women can't get away with a pose like that. Yet so many women post ridiculous pictures of themselves trying to appear 'hot'. There are many women who if they dropped the attitude and just posted normal, nice looking pictures of themselves and they'd have decent guys asking them out. Instead, they try to be 'hot', get pumped-n-dumped by men out of their league, and are left wondering where all the good men went.

Speaking of irrational confidence, a friend of mine who just got out of a relationship started internet dating. I made the mistake of asking my girlfriend if we can introduce him to one of her attractive friends. She knew why I was asking about some of her friends and not others, so she gave me the "why, do you think they're hot". Me "they just seem nice". Of course I'd bang them if the opportunity arises. Anyway, his profile basically shows who he is. 6'1, makes good money, looking for a fit, pleasant woman who is a few years younger than him. I'd say a third of his matches are what he is looking for, the rest are of women who are 39-going-on-60 and overweight women trying to appear 'hot'. The same women who have written countless articles how they can't find a 'good man' and can't figure out why, since they choose to believe feminist propaganda about self-love, everyone is beautiful, etc. Confidence is good, but often times it has to be earned and comes from within and from accomplishments. Being an entitled, highly opinionated, chubby cubicle jocky does not cut it.

This hypergamy instinct is part of their nature.
But in our society it gets reinforced with feminist upbringing and constant propaganda everywhere and also online dating and Instagram. A 5-6 can easily get 7-8 looks men to fuck her. In addition she gets constant matches and comments so she assumes that she super-hot shit.

https://fabiusmaximus.com/2018/08/14/wom...s-america/

This is a good article on why women divorce?
In short - because they can and it's in their nature to do so!

Quote:

There are indications that women rate most men (roughly 80%) as below average in physical attractiveness, and hence lower than them. It is another example of the Pareto principle. The best known is a study by the dating ap company OkCupid of their internal data. They deleted it (very un-PC), but fragments remain (e.g., here). The most detailed explanation is in Dataclysm: Love, Sex, Race, and Identity–What Our Online Lives Tell Us about Our Offline Selves by OkCupid co-founder Christian Rudder. Others have replicated its findings on small scales (e.g., here). So many women will feel that they have married down, vs. their hypergamous “instinct” to “marry up.” This makes them more willing to divorce.

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This is the world we live in. The women of Generation X came as close as humanly possible to having it all — careers, children, marriage on their terms, divorce on their terms. Since the incentives for divorce are so high, many wives divorced. People are rational.

The women of Generation Y are repeating this playbook. Most are succeeding, but they find fewer men are willing to marry. Men are condemned for this, as they are condemned for so many things these days. That does not make them more interested in marriage.

My guess is that Millennial women (Gen Y) will find far fewer men willing to marry. I believe that in the next ten or twenty years this evolution will pass a tipping point. Beyond that marriage will still exist, but not in its present form for most people. Nor will it serve the same function as it does in our society today. We will better understood what traditional marriage did for American when its gone.

Easy divorce, child-support and other means just beckon to female nature like a heroin syringe to a drug addict - they cannot resist it.

The male equivalent would be a system where the top 10% of men are allowed to take 10 wives each. Why shouldn't they do it? Most men would not be able to help themselves even if they understood that over the long term it would destroy society and leave the bottom 90% of men without women, without much incentive to work their asses of. But it would be good for a time and those men would not care. That is when the Spaniards met upon the Aztecs who just had created a system coming quite close to that. 60% of their men were all virgins without access to women. Good luck fighting a few dozen men when your system is shit - men don't fight for shit.

[Vladimir Poontang]

Poontang is at it again.

http://www.city-data.com/forum/relations...ts-me.html

Girl I liked from school contacts me out of the blue

"I was on Facebook recently and I saw a message from a girl from school (well, I mean woman. We're both 43 now). Now back in the day I really liked her and she knew it, well pretty much everybody in our class knew it.

I was confused because I knew she was married and had kids and all of that, so I was wondering why she'd contact me out of the blue, especially considering she wasn't interested in me when we were younger.

Well I quickly found out that she got divorced about 6 months ago. Then I found out that she had been with some other guy for a few years previous to her marriage, and had a kid with him too. She still looks pretty good but I'm really wondering why she would suddenly show an interest in me after all these years.

I remember at school she once told me that I'd be a great boyfriend and a good husband but that she's just not into someone like me but I'd be perfect for someone else. I also remember the guys she went out with and they weren't exactly upstanding members of society.

But now she's sending me messages talking about how I'm a great catch and how she feels that maybe it's time for her to settle with someone like me. I've had a few conversations with her and she's very complimentary and it makes me think why didn't she just go with me back then and why would she now, after all this time, show an interest?"

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(08-16-2018 03:04 PM)Vladimir Poontang Wrote:  

Poontang is at it again.

http://www.city-data.com/forum/relations...ts-me.html

Girl I liked from school contacts me out of the blue

"I was on Facebook recently and I saw a message from a girl from school (well, I mean woman. We're both 43 now). Now back in the day I really liked her and she knew it, well pretty much everybody in our class knew it.

I was confused because I knew she was married and had kids and all of that, so I was wondering why she'd contact me out of the blue, especially considering she wasn't interested in me when we were younger.

Well I quickly found out that she got divorced about 6 months ago. Then I found out that she had been with some other guy for a few years previous to her marriage, and had a kid with him too. She still looks pretty good but I'm really wondering why she would suddenly show an interest in me after all these years.

I remember at school she once told me that I'd be a great boyfriend and a good husband but that she's just not into someone like me but I'd be perfect for someone else. I also remember the guys she went out with and they weren't exactly upstanding members of society.

But now she's sending me messages talking about how I'm a great catch and how she feels that maybe it's time for her to settle with someone like me. I've had a few conversations with her and she's very complimentary and it makes me think why didn't she just go with me back then and why would she now, after all this time, show an interest?"

God - those poor Blue Pill shmucks - I feel like society sends out those men into the dating market comparable as if you were to give a GI a sharp stick and then told him to attack that ISIS compound on the hill.

They are literally cannon fodder for the women sent out to die - with only a few making it and picking up skills and weapons.

[Vladimir Poontang]

(08-16-2018 03:11 PM)Simeon_Strangelight Wrote:  

God - those poor Blue Pill shmucks - I feel like society sends out those men into the dating market comparable as if you were to give a GI a sharp stick and then told him to attack that ISIS compound on the hill.

They are literally cannon fodder for the women sent out to die - with only a few making it and picking up skills and weapons.

Just so you know, I started that thread.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

< Your attempt of Red Pilling them slowly? Seems like a lot of work.

[Vladimir Poontang]

(08-16-2018 03:31 PM)Simeon_Strangelight Wrote:  

< Your attempt of Red Pilling them slowly? Seems like a lot of work.

Oh no. Just trolling. They're unredpillable.

[joost]

(08-16-2018 03:24 PM)Vladimir Poontang Wrote:  

Just so you know, I started that thread.

I can't go thru 10 pages but would be nice if you put something like "she put on some weight but her face still looks nice"...