Quote: (03-05-2012 05:30 PM)Gmac Wrote:
There are tons of guys out there who DO shell out cash for these bitches. She could ask every guy she knows, all she needs is for one to say yes.
Very true. I just heard back from her. Still has her old car, which means she couldn't find a cosigner. I wonder if she'll go make nice with her former orbiter and get him to cosign, but I think she has too much pride and/or integrity to do that - I give her credit on the integrity front for breaking things off with the orbiter even though he was very helpful to her and despite my urging her to keep him around.
Quote: (03-05-2012 06:19 PM)j r Wrote:
Quote: (03-05-2012 05:22 PM)assman Wrote:
LOL, can't make this shit up, just got a text from another chick (college student) I've fooled around with (no bang) telling me that her phone is getting cut off. Bitches be trippin. If you want a man to pay for your car, your cellphone, etc., save your pussy for a serious boyfriend or husband.
I'm curious. In what part of the country are you? The only time I've experienced girls like this was the time I spent in Army towns.
Raleigh NC. I get the sense that guys paying for things for girls is more common and expected down here than it is in, say, NYC, where women tend to be more independent (of course NYC girls give it up for cash too, but I've found they don't expect guys to pay for things as much as they do down here, but too small a data sample down here to know for sure).
Quote: (03-05-2012 06:20 PM)j r Wrote:
Also, how long where you hanging out with this chick. For me, FWB situations tend to only last about three or four months. After that, they either find someone willing to commit or it becomes obvious that they want more and I end it.
About 2.5 months, averaging 1x/week. You're right, these FWB relationships are unstable and have a very short half-life. Should've made a cast of her ass while I had the chance.
Quote: (03-05-2012 08:34 PM)Timoteo Wrote:
My guess is no, you can't salvage. Nor should you want to. This is the shit they do - pussy is almost never free. She felt it was okay to ask you to co-sign her auto lease because YOU were getting something from her. In her mind, she probably felt you owed it to her. The moment you said no, she felt used and hurt, and her pussy dried right up. She knows you're not under the spell of the pussy deep enough to manipulate you into committing in any significant way, so she's done.
I think you're right - this refusal may have crystallized for her that she has been giving her body to a man who will not be there when she really needs him, while she could have been securing herself a white knight who would be there. Plus the prior point about the age of the relationship; take these two together, and yeah, it's probably finished.
Thanks guys. Lesson learned: when a woman seems open to the possibility of threesomes or couples swaps, jump on that shit right away and don't wait assuming that she will be there a month from now.
Still, I'll leave the door open for her if she wants to come back. I've seen that happen before where the girl decides that a FWB situation is not an even trade and then goes on a few dates with needy boys and finds herself in need of some man cum to wash the beta drool off her.