[el mechanico]

(03-05-2012 08:25 PM)txbeachbum Wrote:  

My motto "treat bitches like red lights and run right through em"

I agree with Mixx, no matter how fine they are after you smash they all get on your nerves eventually, some 1 week, 3 weeks 6 months all the same.

True dat! When you get older it gets worse. You will get sick of them so best to keep the ball rolling otherwise you'll regret it.

I've been at this since 6th grade and my only female oriented regrets are turning down a very few bangs while in relationships and the relationships themselves.

Don't waste your time.

[babelfish669]

(03-05-2012 09:25 AM)chyamor Wrote:  

Ive been thinking about this from time to time, and after reading some of the senior members and how their always banging 8, 9 , 10's it makes me wonder. How do you guys walk away from those? Do you guys ever look back and say man I should have kept that one? Do you guys ever think of getting married?

Your making a big mistake if you get married for any other reason but to have kids. Women age, fast.

[oldnemesis]

(03-05-2012 09:25 AM)chyamor Wrote:  

Ive been thinking about this from time to time, and after reading some of the senior members and how their always banging 8, 9 , 10's it makes me wonder.

I doubt there is a single person living in this world who's always banging 8,9,10s. But nevertheless.

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Do you guys ever look back and say man I should have kept that one? Do you guys ever think of getting married?

Getting married doesn't stop that. You can get married and still fuck chicks. It is just the different way of doing things.

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You guys are teaching us how to fish instead of giving us a fish which is great, I am asking how can I teach myself I have had enough fish and should go home to the wife.

You can have both. It does come with a price though.

[oldnemesis]

(03-05-2012 05:32 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

It amazes me how may men do not know that pre-nups, no matter how rock solid, and bulletproof you make one, ONLY PROTECTS ASSETS BEFORE MARRIAGE!!!!

Mixx, are you sure about this? How could a spouse access your assets acquired before marriage? Sure there are things like interest on your bank account or property appreciation - if both are happened during marriage she's entitled to half of the interest/appreciation. But I don't see any way how she can get your assets which you had before marriage.

[WestIndianArchie]

(03-05-2012 10:31 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

(03-05-2012 05:32 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

It amazes me how may men do not know that pre-nups, no matter how rock solid, and bulletproof you make one, ONLY PROTECTS ASSETS BEFORE MARRIAGE!!!!

Mixx, are you sure about this? How could a spouse access your assets acquired before marriage? Sure there are things like interest on your bank account or property appreciation - if both are happened during marriage she's entitled to half of the interest/appreciation. But I don't see any way how she can get your assets which you had before marriage.

Case by case basis, but what usually happens is husband has a house or has a business before marriage. During marriage, he continues to pay off the house and build his business.

In both common law states (41) and community property states (9), the wife is entitled to a portion of the value created during the marriage.

Well how do you give a woman 38% of your business or a house?

you don't.

You have to liquidate the asset. Selling a house is not an easy thing, and you won't get top dollar nowadays, and if it was a divorce sale, you still wouldn't get it in the good old days.

With a business, you either have to wind it down, or hand your ex wife a check for X # of years as alimony.

And children?

Don't try and put an asset in your family's name. (one sales can be undone by a court, as can transfers, and family members and biz partners can get greedy)

And hiding your money overseas? a problem if you live here in the states and have access to it.

There are no perfect solutions to this problem. You'll read stories in the press where business man hubby adopts his lover in order to not pass money over to his wife.

Tis crazy.

Even poor guys get fucked over for child support.

[Screwston]

Personally, I get bored with one girl after a while and you got me fucked up if you think I'm letting a girl walk all over me. Houston don't play that! Most guys aren't built for this lifestyle man. Do whatever will make you happy but PLEASE listen to our advice first.

[Cr33pin]

When i was in my 8 year LTR i missed gaming chicks an getting strange (i was still doing it just had to be super DL about it)

When me an my GF would break up i would not be having as much fun as i thought gaming an banging sluts an miss her

For me its like a dammed if you do, dammed if you dont type thing

But fuck it now im single an starting to get my grove back an traveling the world collecting flags

[Giovonny]

(03-05-2012 05:32 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(03-05-2012 04:12 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Just get a pre-nup if you do it!!!

There it is boys!!! The magic word that men think will save their sad asses from a failed marriage, and the vice-grip on your balls of a female divorce lawyer.

It amazes me how may men do not know that pre-nups, no matter how rock solid, and bulletproof you make one, ONLY PROTECTS ASSETS BEFORE MARRIAGE!!!!

Well, shit, what do you expect when you ask a player a question about marriage!!

wtf do I know!!

[Neo]

Marriage? No. But I've dated girls and had long term girlfriends after entering the game. For me it's really a question of where I am in life at that specfic time. Sometimes I want to work on other things and don't have the motivation to go full steam ahead every night and day chasing new ass. Those times I'll date girls and go for the repeat.

But marriage? Hell no. You may ask yourself these questions because people around you are settling down and you wonder if you should do it yourself. You wonder if in the future you'll feel like you've 'missed out.'

One of the biggest issues I have with the game, is the low number of guys I know who are interested in having this lifestyle and pursuing it. You can't always introduce it to your friends and hope they take it on, because most times I've done that haven't worked out. The game is not for everyone, and your friends can be detrimental to your development. They don't want to see you change, and some will actually resent you when you do. I've found no choice but to leave some of them behind. If someone's only interested in watching football, playing video games, and being stagnant I don't want to be around them.

But my point is to analyze and ask yourself why you are having these feelings. Do you really want to get married or are you just following the people around you? And listen to the older guys on this forum and in your life. Let me say this. I have asked many guys in their 40s or 50s who were married if they recommended it. The vast majority said if they could go back in time they wouldn't do it. Very few said they were happy with their decision. Take that for what it's worth.

[oldnemesis]

(03-05-2012 11:02 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

In both common law states (41) and community property states (9), the wife is entitled to a portion of the value created during the marriage.
Well how do you give a woman 38% of your business or a house?

Let's cover the business first. The things are changing now. From here:

However, the latest decisions in this area are refocusing on requiring ”some nexus between the titled spouse’s active efforts and the appreciation in the separate property”, when a nontitled spouse’s claim to appreciation and the other spouse’s separate property is predicated solely on the nontitled spouse’s indirect contributions. See Hartog v. Hartog, 85 N.Y.2d 36, 46 (1995).

So the business appreciation is not automatic marital income and depends on how much effort the non-owning spouse put into it to make it successful. Still, I don't get what you said. Surely you can give someone a 38% share of your business, this happens all the time.

Now about the house. The case law seem to depend on state; in NY the "passive" (market) appreciation is not marital property. In FL it is but only when you use marital funds to pay off the mortgage on that property. So the house appreciation (again, if acquired before marriage) is only considered marital property when marital funds have been used on it.

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With a business, you either have to wind it down, or hand your ex wife a check for X # of years as alimony.

What about good old profit sharing? Why would anyone want to wind down a profitable business?

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There are no perfect solutions to this problem.

There is, and I stated it long time ago. Marry someone who's doing at least as good as you do. Which means if you're a brain surgeon making 1M a year, don't marry a customer support assistant. Even an attractive one. If you do, then you'll pay the price.

[Belize King]

(03-06-2012 03:45 PM)Neo Wrote:  

One of the biggest issues I have with the game, is the low number of guys I know who are interested in having this lifestyle and pursuing it. You can't always introduce it to your friends and hope they take it on, because most times I've done that haven't worked out. The game is not for everyone, and your friends can be detrimental to your development. They don't want to see you change, and some will actually resent you when you do. I've found no choice but to leave some of them behind. If someone's only interested in watching football, playing video games, and being stagnant I don't want to be around them.

That is exactly my problem in Brownsville. It's one of those things that matters but doesn't. My buddies chilled at the house and drank. I went out and pulled. My boy now is stoked he has somebody to run with now. He's been running around Brazil and DR by himself. He loves it but if he had a wingman the trips would be alot better. I can't wait to get back to the states and start schemin again.

[michelin]

As a beginner, I didn't have any tight game AT ALL so yes, I kept thinking I was a lucky guy when I got her in bed. She just broke up with her BF and I catched her on the right spot (timing & logistics were on my side). The weird thing is she didn't allow me for the 2nd bang when she looked through my game, repeating over and over that I only wanted sex bla bla bla. My game was, as I said, not tight at all. While she kept texting me to take her out her out (wine, movies etc) again, she allowed for new make outs but nothing more. Worst shit is she constantly switched her conversation between "just being friends" and "getting married" one day....it drove me nuts....talking of an awkward and hysterical situation. But no 2nd bang. After six months or so I got fed up with her and decided to drop this shit. I learned from this experience, though, and my game got tighter. Lesson learned: as a beginner in Game, things will go wrong and mistakes will be made. Just don't waste your time with the same chick after banging her (like I did), whatever she is (a 5, 7 or 9), just improve your game and pass on to the next opportunity.

[michelin]

LOL, great MEME smitty !

thx

[garygroundwork]

Interesting thread.

I am almost 37 and at this point have zero desire to ever get married. in fact im sure i never will. the longest relationship i have been in was about a year...other than that usually a few weeks. i have never lived with a chick and never want to.

having said all that i am worried that it is going to get harder and harder to pull chicks the older i get. i am also over night clubs and alchol....

marriage suits some people. i think as an individual u should never rule anything out and do what makes u happy. if u find a girl that makes u happy and she actually contributes something (financially) to the relationship then u mighh want to think about it.

[Clearwaterkid]

Before I really got into the game, I almost got married...twice. Seeing how everything turned out with both of those girls and it would have been much worse had I been married. I made a decision a while back that I really dont want or need that in my life. Especially after reading the misandry bubble.

http://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/t...ubble.html

I wouldn't mind keeping things going with a cool girl for a while, but marriage? no.

[WestCoast]

I stated in an earlier post that the only reason I can see for someone to marry is for kids. After reading up even more I feel that I may even be wrong on that front. Just adopt a kid, you'll change his/her life. Every day it gets tougher for me to justify commitment of any kind, let alone for the rest of my life. To older people worried about being "alone", just hang out at an urgent care hospital, tearing up my Achilles actually made me realize everyone is alone at the end anyway.

The white picket fence isn't reality, besides you have to live with this person. I don't know any girl who is funny/interesting enough to hang out with beyond a couple hours here and there. You'd have to Marry the equivalent of a hilarious, Jennifer Anniston looking girl with high numbers of life experiences. Not to mention have $$ and not use sex as a bartering tool. God speed on that 1.

[Belize King]

(03-12-2012 11:39 AM)WestCoast Wrote:  

I don't know any girl who is funny/interesting enough to hang out with beyond a couple hours here and there. You'd have to Marry the equivalent of a hilarious, Jennifer Anniston looking girl with high numbers of life experiences. Not to mention have $$ and not use sex as a bartering tool. God speed on that 1.

Is that the perfect woman?

That's what sex seems like after marriage and especially after kids. A bartering tool haha.

Any members been down that road to attest to that?

[Sushifan]

The "perfect lady" simply does not exist.

All of them will get older, uglier, and less physically attractive.

And the second that you give them the security of marriage, they lose all incentive to go out of their way to take care of you, please you, etc.

Admit it, the perfect woman would be perpetually hot and beautiful, elegant and feminine, loving and caring, and will love you as much as your dog, right? Hahaha, good luck finding her!

BTW, I got lucky: married young, had two kids, divorced young. And my exwife is a professional who makes good money, so no alimony and minimal child support. And my kids will be off to college while I'm mid 40s.

Get married again? Hell no!!