Quote: (02-14-2012 05:27 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:
Quote: (02-14-2012 02:26 PM)Nonpareil Wrote:
Why am I thankful for game? Because it showed me one of the more crucial truths about relationships; Girls like fancy dinners. Girls like jewels. Girls like flowers...basically if it costs money, girls like it, but if you don't fuck her right, it doesn't matter how many of these things you get her, she's going to find someone who will (and often she'll do so while still accepting your dinners, jewels and flowers).
This is so true. A few years back, I banged this girl I knew on Players' Holiday (February 14). She'd been bugging for an LTR for a while, but I resolutely kept her in FB status. She'd try to drop hints that if I didn't take her out for "Valentine's Day" she'd go out with some other guy who'd been trying to game her. I was like whatever about it.
It was despicable what this girl ended up doing. She went out to a nice dinner with this unsuspecting cat. I don't know where they went, but the place was fancy enough that she sat next to Kirsten Dunst. He bought her a fancy bouquet of flowers, and, at the end of the night, he dropped her home. No sooner had he left that she called my-ass to come over. I drove over there and did the night shift. She showed up at her door wearing nothing but a long t-shirt. I literally closed her door while undressing her.
At a certain point, while I was tagging it hard from behind, we were both facing this large, expensive-looking arrangement of flowers (sitting on her kitchen table). It had to have cost $150, at least. It doesn't get any more symbolic than that. She tried bitching me out later when the guilt got to be too much for her. The guy, she later told me, "didn't even get a kiss," and here I was getting pussy for no commitment or effort. Whose fault was that?
I never, ever forgot this lesson.
Oh yeah, it's horrible, and it's not just fucking them improper; it's not making a move, it's not making your intentions known, it's not being someone she can respect, it's not being a leader...if you fail at any of these things she's always peering over the horizon for someone who will.
Good story. The girl I fucked yesterday (She currently gets my dick most often because of proximity, but I'd only call her my #2 because while the body is bangin', the face could be better) has been with her boyfriend for two years (proving another theory of mine; all relationships have a best-before date). She lives a fifteen minute walk from me, he lives in the next town. The kicker? I met them last year at a bar (with another girl) and we were playing pool and he decides it's intelligent to put me and her on the same team because I was the best player and she was the worst, and I zipped her number when he went to the bathroom and my girl went to scoop a next round and fucked her that week.
Anyways, a month back when I went over there, she let me in, poured me wine and told me to wait on the couch. Twenty minutes later she exited from her room in a sapphire babydoll that should have been illegal, came over to me, unzipped my pants and jumped right on. After I blasted all over her face she told me she couldn't feel her legs.
Turns out, her boyfriend, being that he's such a nice guy, bought her the outfit a few weeks earlier and like a typical beta (5'7, no muscle mass, a weak chin and glasses) had been pressing her to wear it for him, but here I am, getting the first screening before he does, and not only that, he took her out for lunch earlier that day (she let me eat the leftover salmon).
She is not pressing me for an LTR because she's in one, but I do get a clear and obvious vibe that she's monkey branching me, even though whenever the topic comes up, I say 'I wouldn't date you...why would I commit to someone who is using me to cheat on their boyfriend?'