Quote: (11-19-2018 11:59 AM)Jefferson Wrote:
Yes, it can be exhausting, PT.
Dangerous even, at times when she lived with me she attacked me physically several times and I was forced to take defensive action.
These are intermittent blow ups, and the good, fun, pleasant times do outnumber the arguments still.
If it were to get too much I would certainly walk away and find someone new.
Incidentally I had a girl who had the happy gene before. But she changed a lot after the years went by. I do not believe frustrations can be avoided altogether in life.
Thank you, and again your advice has been consistently excellent. I much appreciate it.
Of course some level of frustrations and conflicts in life and relationships are inevitable.
But there's difference between occasional minor conflicts that keep the boundaries visible and living a life thats likely to end up on The Jerry Springer show or even an episode of Cops
Yikes
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