Quote: (12-02-2018 11:49 AM)TigerMandingo Wrote:
Zatara, that's the thing. I've confronted her about this and she says it's hard for her because she came to the US in her her late 20s, at an age when it's harder to pick up a new language. I can understand that. At the same time, I'm not sure I have the patience to be an ESL teacher at this point in my life.
I mean, sure, its hard
er, but if she really wanted to she easily could reach at least a functional level. Millions of people the world over learn languages in their late 20s or older, its not rocket science. Especially when completely immersed in the language, in a country where its native, dating a native speaker.
Either way though, it doesn't matter
why her English is terrible, it just matters that it is, it has been for a while, and its likely to continue to be so for the foreseeable future. Theres no reason to stay dating a girl that you can't have any sort sort of conversation with. Its just not a good investment of your time, unless you're abhorrently ugly you can almost certainly do better for yourself. There are always more women out there, and almost all of the ones you meet in America will have enough English to actually have a conversation with you on your dates.
edit: ^^ yeah if this was just a fuckbuddy situation that would be fine. If she was hot, the sex was good, and it was a fuck 'em and chuck 'em a couple times a week. But from the sounds of things TigerMandingo is actually in a relationship with this girl, so hes spending considerable amounts of time in her company. Which just seems a waste of time. Better to invest that time into other girls.