You’re desperate and very likely in love. You’ve lost the initiative, your position is very weak, and she knows it. She may very well love you sincerely too though.
Your question is a bit ironic. You wonder how to control her, but you realize that she is actually completely out of control.
There is only one way to regain the initiative. You should decree a pragmatic sanction. What is a pragmatic sanction? You call her when you need sex only, and you ignore what she does the rest of the time, as long as she provides good sex.
Your question is a bit ironic. You wonder how to control her, but you realize that she is actually completely out of control.
There is only one way to regain the initiative. You should decree a pragmatic sanction. What is a pragmatic sanction? You call her when you need sex only, and you ignore what she does the rest of the time, as long as she provides good sex.