So when is a rule a step too far?
I suppose the first thing is to consider what you want to achieve. This has to be tailored to the girl. If the girl is very hot and has a strong social media addiction the goal may be to curtail the social media addiction and to limit the chances of her having contact with exes or other guys.
In the end we all want a compliant girlfriend who wants to please only us, is focused on us.
So you need to be careful not to antagonise her with rules that would impede that goal. That are a step too far. But equally there have to be some rules in place, surely? All this 'love them so they feel free' can't work in real life, surely?
I suppose the first thing is to consider what you want to achieve. This has to be tailored to the girl. If the girl is very hot and has a strong social media addiction the goal may be to curtail the social media addiction and to limit the chances of her having contact with exes or other guys.
In the end we all want a compliant girlfriend who wants to please only us, is focused on us.
So you need to be careful not to antagonise her with rules that would impede that goal. That are a step too far. But equally there have to be some rules in place, surely? All this 'love them so they feel free' can't work in real life, surely?