Quote: (10-28-2018 10:06 AM)Anchor Man Wrote:
1- I am 5'6"
2- Average face
3- Fit : I look like I go to gym but I am not muscular
4- For the style, I have outstanding style. I got compliments from women all the time and guys too.
There's not much you can do about height, at least, not until scientists have figured out a way. I guess you could wear shoes that increase your height by an inch or two but you'll eventually be found out.
Quote: (10-28-2018 10:06 AM)Anchor Man Wrote:
Here my struggle, I had girls turn their heads to check me out multiple times when I dress well.Sometimes those girls/ women were with their boyfriends/ husbands who are way better looking than me an even taller.
Don't compare yourself to other men, and what I mean by that is, we all have a limitation on how much we can improve our appearance (short of plastic surgery but don't do that it, you'll likely come out ugly). You don't need to be ripped or huge but having definition and some mass to those muscles really makes a difference. Take up a martial art (I recommend Jiu Jitsu) it will build your confidence and you'll be fearless in a confrontation, and girls take notice of a guy that commands respect.
Quote: (10-28-2018 10:06 AM)Anchor Man Wrote:
Not just this , a coworker has big crush on me . She blushes when I talk to her , breathes fast, plays with her earlobe and touches me very often. When I saw her boyfriend, he is not handsome but he is better looking than me .
I wouldn't invest in this coworker she's likely to get you into a #metoo sticky wicket that'll cost you your job. Deal with her cautiously
Quote: (10-28-2018 10:06 AM)Anchor Man Wrote:
All this happens when I dress well.
Since I have low self-confidence when it comes to women due to past experiences , I still can't believe they are checking me out.
Away from assuming attraction mindset which I try to maintain .
Do you think making those stylish change increased my SMV?
You should always continually try to improve yourself. With that said, there are some limitations in the realm of self-improvement, such as: height and skin color. In your case, dressing better has caused the women around you to have 'gina tingles because it's like seeing color added to a black and white film, it adds something new and fresh.
Girls are acutely aware of when a man changes his appearance. A man that doesn't take care of his hygiene, hair, clothes, and health is seen as lazy, lacking confidence, and devoid of reasonable sexual attraction. So, yes, your SMV has gone up and gone up by quite a bit judging from those women's reactions.
Having dressed better will always get you ahead of the rest in the crowd but know what you're dressing for because walking on the beach in a tailored suit is certainly out of place, unless, you're at a wedding hosted on the beach.
- If you want to maximize your appearance then continue to improve your style and any necessary tweaks to help you capitalize with girls you go after.
- Keep going to the gym. Your goal when you're at the gym is to put on more muscle and get definition, consider doing 'Intermittent Fasting' to get rid of any excess body fat and increase your testosterone. An increase in testosterone will naturally make you more dominant and give you the chiseled look girls would kill others just to be with you.
- Again, take up a martial art. You'll build natural confidence in the face of enemies who wish to break you both mentally and physically.
- Follow Roosh's '100 approaches' program to learn the basics of male-female interactions and to overcome approach anxiety. Following this program will actually help you when talking to others out in public. You'll learn how 'game' can be used for more than just getting laid that it's a mindset.