^ Same in principle...but remember: The dread (fear) component only works to the same level as the girl, or slightly higher*, has emotionally invested (desire).
Being "aloof" to a new girl you just met wont work to create attraction...unless she's already interested, but can enhance if she is
*The human ego self defense mechanism can create a slightly higher fear to desire response.
This is why girls can get pissed or upset that a guy they were not even interested in rejects them first.
Its also why showing higher interest in a really hot chick's lesser looking friend(s) can be very effective if the hot chick has always been hot.
But if she's a late bloomer / ugly duckling this will back fire. If there is such a thing as a "unicorn" personality wise its the insanely hot chick who developed her looks relatively late rather than having been "pretty" all her life
Being "aloof" to a new girl you just met wont work to create attraction...unless she's already interested, but can enhance if she is
*The human ego self defense mechanism can create a slightly higher fear to desire response.
This is why girls can get pissed or upset that a guy they were not even interested in rejects them first.
Its also why showing higher interest in a really hot chick's lesser looking friend(s) can be very effective if the hot chick has always been hot.
But if she's a late bloomer / ugly duckling this will back fire. If there is such a thing as a "unicorn" personality wise its the insanely hot chick who developed her looks relatively late rather than having been "pretty" all her life
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- Does She Have The "Happy Gene" ?
-Inversion Therapy
-Let's lead by example
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