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Do you ever put your girls on ice?
#1

Do you ever put your girls on ice?

I've been sort of dating a girl out here. Not a live in situation but a see each other 2-3 times a week sort of thing.

It started off with her basically worshiping the ground I walk on. But a couple months in, I've noticed she was less responsive with texts. A lot of one word brief answers,etc. Maybe I thought too much of it as she does apparently have a busy schedule. But I dunno I think a girl should always make time for me.

So anyway, I decided to put her on ice a bit and not message her for a couple days. Just got a message from her saying wondering I'm not talking to her lol.

Probably basic game for a lot of you, but it seems like an effective way to regain the upper hand in a relationship.
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#2

Do you ever put your girls on ice?

Let her think you're busy banging other plates.

Better yet, be banging other plates.

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#3

Do you ever put your girls on ice?

That's dread game my friend.

Jetset's right, let her hamster go into overdrive.


Keep in mind sounds like after a couple of months the honeymoon phase is over with you guys.


Dread game is a double edged sword:

-It can bring her back into the fold and make her show she wants you more
-It can make her see you really aren't "that" interested in her and she'll move to another dick whose more into her.

Use dread game wisely and only when you think things are drifting away from the situation you like.
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#4

Do you ever put your girls on ice?

^So we kind of started off as FWBs and she knew I had other plates. She was the one that wanted something more serious. So aside from a couple discrete ONS, I've stuck to that. So it was weird for her to get all distant. And now we're having a convo, and she says she feels like im always ignoring her texts. What lol. Women are nuts.
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Use dread game wisely and only when you think things are drifting away from the situation you like.

Yea, I realize it's something to be used sparingly. But if you're confident in your status as a high value male (which I am), then I think you can count on her to break the silence. And that totally changes the dynamic. It's subconsciously saying she needs you. In fact, she just told me that lol.
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#5

Do you ever put your girls on ice?

Quote: (10-24-2018 11:39 AM)Trumpian Wrote:  

^So we kind of started off as FWBs and she knew I had other plates. She was the one that wanted something more serious. So aside from a couple discrete ONS, I've stuck to that. So it was weird for her to get all distant. And now we're having a convo, and she says she feels like im always ignoring her texts. What lol. Women are nuts.

It's times like these that we are reminded not to take women seriously .. on any level whatsoever.
Despite the exact situation happening to me many times, I still don't have an answer for you homie. I would probably mentally shrug her off as a "crazy" who won't find anything stable anyway and gravitate to other women.
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#6

Do you ever put your girls on ice?

Edit: Wrote this before I saw kaotic's post

What youre looking for is "dread game".


Yes it works. Withdrawing attention can work because it stimulates a girls "fears". A guy withdrawing attention from her triggers a self esteem response because it hits at the core of her "value" (attractiveness). And that "fear" level is only slightly higher than her "desire" level for the guy withdrawing the attention. You cant "dread" a chick that doesn't give a shit about you.

"Familiarity breeds contempt"...Anonymous

It sounds like this girl is getting a little too comfortable and taking your attention for granted. Her response indicates she still cares (desire) so some dread (fear) is exactly what you need to bring her back in.

Remember though its
-Push / Pull.
-Positive / negative
-Nice guy / asshole guy
-Fear / Desire


Too much of either and you lose her interest. You have to keep the emotional tides in constant motion. It never stops

The good news is that over the years and with enough experience it becomes built in to the point of being automatic /subconscious...effortless...even fun

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/

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« Hardest ChallengesGoing Sexual »
Dread


There are two ways to guarantee a healthy relationship. By healthy, I mean the girl is in love with you and there is no threat of her leaving; you have all the leverage you need to assure yourself peace of mind and a steady sexual outlet.

Meet your soulmate
If you are extremely lucky enough to cross paths with your soulmate this is the easiest way to live the kind of romantic bliss that Hollywood movies exalt. A soulmate connection is the Golden Ticket to happiness and a dreamlike existence. But it is rare. Don’t live as if it will happen to you. I estimate 1% of all men and 2% of all women meet their soulmates. The reason for the discrepancy is that male soulmates are in shorter supply than female soulmates. Male soulmates are shared amongst the women like a community hookah.

Instill dread
Women respond viscerally in their vagina area to unpredictability, mixed signals, danger, and drama in spite of their best efforts to convince themselves otherwise. Managing your relationship in such a way that she is left with a constant, gnawing feeling of impending doom will do more for your cause than all the Valentine’s Day cards and expertly performed tongue love in the world. Like it or not, the threat of a looming breakup, whether the facts justify it or not, will spin her into a paranoid estrogen-fueled tizzy, and she’ll spend every waking second thinking about you, thinking about the relationship, thinking about how to fix it. Her love for you will blossom under these conditions. Result: she works harder to please you.

The key for the man is to adopt a posture of blase emotional distance alternated with loving tenderness. Too much of either and she’ll run off.

Examples of effective doom inducement:

Turn off your cell phone twice a week. Alternate days. Don’t do this on a Friday or Saturday night unless the relationship is shaky and needs a high voltage jolt of dread.

Make a blatant but plausibly deniable move on one of her friends when she’s not around. The news will get back to her. Milk it.

Call her from a very busy place so that she can hear women’s voices laughing and shrieking in the background. Don’t tell her where you are when she asks. Just say you’ll see her soon.

Mention how skilled your Russian ex was at giving head. Bring it up again a few days later, pretending not to remember the first time you mentioned it. Bonus: Russians are very good at giving head, so this will have the ring of truth.

Be seen by your girlfriend flirting with other women in a social venue. Extra points if the women are attractive. Double extra points if you flirt without looking back at your girlfriend once to check her reaction.

Cook her a romantic candlelight dinner at home. Make it a memorable experience, complete with jazz, chocolate, and rose petals. Then, do not talk with her for four days afterwards.

Ignore her calls for a week. When you eventually answer and she reads you the riot act, act as if nothing was wrong and accuse her of sabotaging a perfectly good relationship, “just like all the other women in this stupid city. I thought you were different”. Hang up on her angrily.

When her best friend tells you how cute you and your girlfriend look together, shrug, put your hand to the back of your neck as if to scratch an itch there, look down slightly and with a mildly annoyed expression blandly sigh “Yeeeeah…”. Triple bonus points if your girlfriend is standing right there.

When she attempts the jealousy maneuver by flirting with another guy, act unfazed. Give her pickup tips.

Gaze longingly into her eyes, say how hot she looks, then immediately glance sidelong at the bosom of any strange woman in the vicinity.

Have a threesome. Spend an inordinate amount of time admiring the labia of the other woman. Be sure to moan louder with her. WARNING: If you cum on the other woman you will have to spend weeks consoling your girlfriend.

Say things like “I really value my independence and freedom” relevant to nothing in particular. It’s just a thought that popped in your head.

Thermonuclear Option:

Have an affair and make sure she finds out about it. Arrange the confrontation so that it does not happen at your place. When she confronts you, don’t get defensive. Don’t speak at all. Let her vent. Let her punch you in the chest and scream obscenities. When she takes a breather, tell her she’s never looked more beautiful and you will never stop loving her. Then without waiting for her response calmly walk out the door and break off all contact for two weeks. When she comes back to you… and she will… you will have a love slave for life.

_______________________________________
- Does She Have The "Happy Gene" ?
-Inversion Therapy
-Let's lead by example


"Leap, and the net will appear". John Burroughs

"The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty yes to your adventure."
Joseph Campbell
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#7

Do you ever put your girls on ice?

On occasion
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#8

Do you ever put your girls on ice?

Quote: (10-24-2018 11:58 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

Edit: Wrote this before I saw kaotic's post

What youre looking for is "dread game".


Yes it works. Withdrawing attention can work because it stimulates a girls "fears". A guy withdrawing attention from her triggers a self esteem response because it hits at the core of her "value" (attractiveness). And that "fear" level is only slightly higher than her "desire" level for the guy withdrawing the attention. You cant "dread" a chick that doesn't give a shit about you.

"Familiarity breeds contempt"...Anonymous

It sounds like this girl is getting a little too comfortable and taking your attention for granted. Her response indicates she still cares (desire) so some dread (fear) is exactly what you need to bring her back in.

Remember though its
-Push / Pull.
-Positive / negative
-Nice guy / asshole guy
-Fear / Desire


Too much of either and you lose her interest. You have to keep the emotional tides in constant motion. It never stops

The good news is that over the years and with enough experience it becomes built in to the point of being automatic /subconscious...effortless...even fun

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/

Quote:Quote:

« Hardest ChallengesGoing Sexual »
Dread


There are two ways to guarantee a healthy relationship. By healthy, I mean the girl is in love with you and there is no threat of her leaving; you have all the leverage you need to assure yourself peace of mind and a steady sexual outlet.

Meet your soulmate
If you are extremely lucky enough to cross paths with your soulmate this is the easiest way to live the kind of romantic bliss that Hollywood movies exalt. A soulmate connection is the Golden Ticket to happiness and a dreamlike existence. But it is rare. Don’t live as if it will happen to you. I estimate 1% of all men and 2% of all women meet their soulmates. The reason for the discrepancy is that male soulmates are in shorter supply than female soulmates. Male soulmates are shared amongst the women like a community hookah.

Instill dread
Women respond viscerally in their vagina area to unpredictability, mixed signals, danger, and drama in spite of their best efforts to convince themselves otherwise. Managing your relationship in such a way that she is left with a constant, gnawing feeling of impending doom will do more for your cause than all the Valentine’s Day cards and expertly performed tongue love in the world. Like it or not, the threat of a looming breakup, whether the facts justify it or not, will spin her into a paranoid estrogen-fueled tizzy, and she’ll spend every waking second thinking about you, thinking about the relationship, thinking about how to fix it. Her love for you will blossom under these conditions. Result: she works harder to please you.

The key for the man is to adopt a posture of blase emotional distance alternated with loving tenderness. Too much of either and she’ll run off.

Examples of effective doom inducement:

Turn off your cell phone twice a week. Alternate days. Don’t do this on a Friday or Saturday night unless the relationship is shaky and needs a high voltage jolt of dread.

Make a blatant but plausibly deniable move on one of her friends when she’s not around. The news will get back to her. Milk it.

Call her from a very busy place so that she can hear women’s voices laughing and shrieking in the background. Don’t tell her where you are when she asks. Just say you’ll see her soon.

Mention how skilled your Russian ex was at giving head. Bring it up again a few days later, pretending not to remember the first time you mentioned it. Bonus: Russians are very good at giving head, so this will have the ring of truth.

Be seen by your girlfriend flirting with other women in a social venue. Extra points if the women are attractive. Double extra points if you flirt without looking back at your girlfriend once to check her reaction.

Cook her a romantic candlelight dinner at home. Make it a memorable experience, complete with jazz, chocolate, and rose petals. Then, do not talk with her for four days afterwards.

Ignore her calls for a week. When you eventually answer and she reads you the riot act, act as if nothing was wrong and accuse her of sabotaging a perfectly good relationship, “just like all the other women in this stupid city. I thought you were different”. Hang up on her angrily.

When her best friend tells you how cute you and your girlfriend look together, shrug, put your hand to the back of your neck as if to scratch an itch there, look down slightly and with a mildly annoyed expression blandly sigh “Yeeeeah…”. Triple bonus points if your girlfriend is standing right there.

When she attempts the jealousy maneuver by flirting with another guy, act unfazed. Give her pickup tips.

Gaze longingly into her eyes, say how hot she looks, then immediately glance sidelong at the bosom of any strange woman in the vicinity.

Have a threesome. Spend an inordinate amount of time admiring the labia of the other woman. Be sure to moan louder with her. WARNING: If you cum on the other woman you will have to spend weeks consoling your girlfriend.

Say things like “I really value my independence and freedom” relevant to nothing in particular. It’s just a thought that popped in your head.

Thermonuclear Option:

Have an affair and make sure she finds out about it. Arrange the confrontation so that it does not happen at your place. When she confronts you, don’t get defensive. Don’t speak at all. Let her vent. Let her punch you in the chest and scream obscenities. When she takes a breather, tell her she’s never looked more beautiful and you will never stop loving her. Then without waiting for her response calmly walk out the door and break off all contact for two weeks. When she comes back to you… and she will… you will have a love slave for life.



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What do you think about this ? Is this dread game too ?
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#9

Do you ever put your girls on ice?

^ Same in principle...but remember: The dread (fear) component only works to the same level as the girl, or slightly higher*, has emotionally invested (desire).

Being "aloof" to a new girl you just met wont work to create attraction...unless she's already interested, but can enhance if she is

*The human ego self defense mechanism can create a slightly higher fear to desire response.

This is why girls can get pissed or upset that a guy they were not even interested in rejects them first.

Its also why showing higher interest in a really hot chick's lesser looking friend(s) can be very effective if the hot chick has always been hot.

But if she's a late bloomer / ugly duckling this will back fire. If there is such a thing as a "unicorn" personality wise its the insanely hot chick who developed her looks relatively late rather than having been "pretty" all her life

_______________________________________
- Does She Have The "Happy Gene" ?
-Inversion Therapy
-Let's lead by example


"Leap, and the net will appear". John Burroughs

"The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty yes to your adventure."
Joseph Campbell
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#10

Do you ever put your girls on ice?

Everyone wants what they can't have, girls are no different. If you eat the same cake every day for a month you won't look forward to it as much.

Put her on ice, but be creative about it, don't just send back the same type of responses she's been giving you just to send a message. It has to be subtle.
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#11

Do you ever put your girls on ice?

Quote: (10-24-2018 11:58 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

Edit: Wrote this before I saw kaotic's post

What youre looking for is "dread game".


Yes it works. Withdrawing attention can work because it stimulates a girls "fears". A guy withdrawing attention from her triggers a self esteem response because it hits at the core of her "value" (attractiveness). And that "fear" level is only slightly higher than her "desire" level for the guy withdrawing the attention. You cant "dread" a chick that doesn't give a shit about you.

"Familiarity breeds contempt"...Anonymous

It sounds like this girl is getting a little too comfortable and taking your attention for granted. Her response indicates she still cares (desire) so some dread (fear) is exactly what you need to bring her back in.

Remember though its
-Push / Pull.
-Positive / negative
-Nice guy / asshole guy
-Fear / Desire


Too much of either and you lose her interest. You have to keep the emotional tides in constant motion. It never stops

The good news is that over the years and with enough experience it becomes built in to the point of being automatic /subconscious...effortless...even fun

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/

Quote:Quote:

« Hardest ChallengesGoing Sexual »
Dread


There are two ways to guarantee a healthy relationship. By healthy, I mean the girl is in love with you and there is no threat of her leaving; you have all the leverage you need to assure yourself peace of mind and a steady sexual outlet.

Meet your soulmate
If you are extremely lucky enough to cross paths with your soulmate this is the easiest way to live the kind of romantic bliss that Hollywood movies exalt. A soulmate connection is the Golden Ticket to happiness and a dreamlike existence. But it is rare. Don’t live as if it will happen to you. I estimate 1% of all men and 2% of all women meet their soulmates. The reason for the discrepancy is that male soulmates are in shorter supply than female soulmates. Male soulmates are shared amongst the women like a community hookah.

Instill dread
Women respond viscerally in their vagina area to unpredictability, mixed signals, danger, and drama in spite of their best efforts to convince themselves otherwise. Managing your relationship in such a way that she is left with a constant, gnawing feeling of impending doom will do more for your cause than all the Valentine’s Day cards and expertly performed tongue love in the world. Like it or not, the threat of a looming breakup, whether the facts justify it or not, will spin her into a paranoid estrogen-fueled tizzy, and she’ll spend every waking second thinking about you, thinking about the relationship, thinking about how to fix it. Her love for you will blossom under these conditions. Result: she works harder to please you.

The key for the man is to adopt a posture of blase emotional distance alternated with loving tenderness. Too much of either and she’ll run off.

Examples of effective doom inducement:

Turn off your cell phone twice a week. Alternate days. Don’t do this on a Friday or Saturday night unless the relationship is shaky and needs a high voltage jolt of dread.

Make a blatant but plausibly deniable move on one of her friends when she’s not around. The news will get back to her. Milk it.

Call her from a very busy place so that she can hear women’s voices laughing and shrieking in the background. Don’t tell her where you are when she asks. Just say you’ll see her soon.

Mention how skilled your Russian ex was at giving head. Bring it up again a few days later, pretending not to remember the first time you mentioned it. Bonus: Russians are very good at giving head, so this will have the ring of truth.

Be seen by your girlfriend flirting with other women in a social venue. Extra points if the women are attractive. Double extra points if you flirt without looking back at your girlfriend once to check her reaction.

Cook her a romantic candlelight dinner at home. Make it a memorable experience, complete with jazz, chocolate, and rose petals. Then, do not talk with her for four days afterwards.

Ignore her calls for a week. When you eventually answer and she reads you the riot act, act as if nothing was wrong and accuse her of sabotaging a perfectly good relationship, “just like all the other women in this stupid city. I thought you were different”. Hang up on her angrily.

When her best friend tells you how cute you and your girlfriend look together, shrug, put your hand to the back of your neck as if to scratch an itch there, look down slightly and with a mildly annoyed expression blandly sigh “Yeeeeah…”. Triple bonus points if your girlfriend is standing right there.

When she attempts the jealousy maneuver by flirting with another guy, act unfazed. Give her pickup tips.

Gaze longingly into her eyes, say how hot she looks, then immediately glance sidelong at the bosom of any strange woman in the vicinity.

Have a threesome. Spend an inordinate amount of time admiring the labia of the other woman. Be sure to moan louder with her. WARNING: If you cum on the other woman you will have to spend weeks consoling your girlfriend.

Say things like “I really value my independence and freedom” relevant to nothing in particular. It’s just a thought that popped in your head.

Thermonuclear Option:

Have an affair and make sure she finds out about it. Arrange the confrontation so that it does not happen at your place. When she confronts you, don’t get defensive. Don’t speak at all. Let her vent. Let her punch you in the chest and scream obscenities. When she takes a breather, tell her she’s never looked more beautiful and you will never stop loving her. Then without waiting for her response calmly walk out the door and break off all contact for two weeks. When she comes back to you… and she will… you will have a love slave for life.

The comment section on that article is gold. Bunch of chicks raging because the shit works lol.
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#12

Do you ever put your girls on ice?

After she sends you a few whiny demanding texts, wait 4 hours and send a pic of the birthday cat.

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