[DarkTriad]

A surprising number of colleges offer various kinds of social dance classes. They typically schedule at night, and involve 90% women. The women race to you to avoid being paired up with another woman. That's a great way to start any social environment IMHO. Don't be discouraged if it's something like basic ballroom stuff, it's still fun and helps a lot of ways. Look for any kind of social or physical environment that put you in contact with a lot of women (except for a gender studies class) or helps develop you physically in a way you might enjoy. Martial arts are great, and even if you hated one, you might love another. Life ain't fair, you've got to give yourself every opportunity to have and edge over the other guy.