Journalist who called me "rape apologist blogger" has been fired for sexual abuse
09-26-2018, 07:36 AM
Having read parts of that Jezebel article, my sense is that Smith is a weird fuck who ignores red flags who dates weird fucks who ignore red flags, and their mutual unmanaged de facto autisms inevitably collide.
His idea of "rape apologism" is overly informed by his own experiences of being rejected and the resulting suspicion that men who succeed with women must be doing something shady and immoral, as well as his lack of basic adult awareness that people have their own private lives and aren't fully transparent with people they've just met. Instead of walking away from a date who doesn't live up to his expectations, he sulks, whines, rages, and cajoles because another "the one" has let him down. Smith sounds like the kind of grievance-obsessed scarcity-mindset beta who eventually ends up taking the black pill when his frustrations boil over and making a shaky YouTube video before he murders an ex.
The women, on the other hand, are taking his nitpicking, pervasive sense of being wronged, and babyish entitlement and re-imagining this half-baked man-child that they could have laughed at and walked away from at any time, into a monster. His low-grade celebrity was enough to get his foot in the door, but he is so utterly gameless that they don't know how to react other than to be angry that they allowed him to play at all. They don't even really know how to describe what's wrong with it, just that it feels gross. They are left "disturbed".
This one quoted above started out receptive a third-date provider bang to keep him on the hook, until he totally mishandled her shit-test about Tinder and started acting like a creepy chump. Even at that point, he'd have had a chance of recovering if he'd just gone home and soft nexted her, leaving her to wonder if he's getting a blowjob elsewhere that night, but no. He has to have an hour-long argument in her apartment over whether she is 27 or 28, demonstrating, conclusively, that he is the lowest of low-value men with no other options and nothing better to do with his time. He was literally becoming less desirable by the minute.
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Later, they went to a fast food restaurant near her apartment in Bushwick, where, she says, she made a joke about Tinder dating. He responded that he thought she wasn’t dating that much and “sniped” at her before badgering her into telling him details about the last person she dated. As they walked back to her apartment, she says, she offered to call him a car, at which point his demeanor abruptly shifted, turning sullen and angry....At one point, she says, he demanded to see her state ID, took a photo of it without permission, and then implied that the ID was fake, saying the photo didn’t look like her.
His idea of "rape apologism" is overly informed by his own experiences of being rejected and the resulting suspicion that men who succeed with women must be doing something shady and immoral, as well as his lack of basic adult awareness that people have their own private lives and aren't fully transparent with people they've just met. Instead of walking away from a date who doesn't live up to his expectations, he sulks, whines, rages, and cajoles because another "the one" has let him down. Smith sounds like the kind of grievance-obsessed scarcity-mindset beta who eventually ends up taking the black pill when his frustrations boil over and making a shaky YouTube video before he murders an ex.
The women, on the other hand, are taking his nitpicking, pervasive sense of being wronged, and babyish entitlement and re-imagining this half-baked man-child that they could have laughed at and walked away from at any time, into a monster. His low-grade celebrity was enough to get his foot in the door, but he is so utterly gameless that they don't know how to react other than to be angry that they allowed him to play at all. They don't even really know how to describe what's wrong with it, just that it feels gross. They are left "disturbed".
This one quoted above started out receptive a third-date provider bang to keep him on the hook, until he totally mishandled her shit-test about Tinder and started acting like a creepy chump. Even at that point, he'd have had a chance of recovering if he'd just gone home and soft nexted her, leaving her to wonder if he's getting a blowjob elsewhere that night, but no. He has to have an hour-long argument in her apartment over whether she is 27 or 28, demonstrating, conclusively, that he is the lowest of low-value men with no other options and nothing better to do with his time. He was literally becoming less desirable by the minute.
Hidey-ho, RVFerinos!