Quote: (10-19-2017 04:18 AM)bgbusiness Wrote:
Quote: (10-18-2017 05:54 PM)Sam Malone Wrote:
There were a shit ton of signs that pointed me to my ex's infidelity. Tons.
Could you give us some of the signs that you have missed? if you have any chance...
Appreciate the story again, thanks a lot...
I don't want to derail OP's thread too much, so I'll try to keep this short.
Any one (or two) things by themselves might not have ticked the meter. Add a lot of those thing together, and it becomes plain as day what was going on.
Look at it like this... when you were reading my long diatribe above, at what point did you say to yourself, "Yep, she's fucking around on him." ? The 'out drinking' part ? The shielding of the phone ? The relative seeing the car ?
Truth be told, even from each of those points on, it wasn't (I think) so much that I ignored the signs, more that I didn't want to see the signs and admit anything could be going on.
So maybe I need to amend "missing the signs" to "didn't want to face the (eventual) reality".