The way society is going right now, I'm curious how people will tell the stories of how they met their wives.
Older generations, like my parents always tell their stories where they met their spouses "organically" or "by chance"
My parents met when they ran into each other by chance, because my mom had a bad since of direction and parked to ask my dad for information.. leading to their first date.
Today.. most people seem to meet their partners on Tinder.. or at Bars and Clubs.
At the same time.. everyone always says that they don't wanna meet their future husband or wife at a bar.
Ironically.. people congregate at bars every weekend with the intent to meet each other.
I personally, don't think that online dating is gonna go away.
A lot of people WILL end up meeting their future partners online, or through some sort of technology.
The difference to me is, If I intend to meet a wholesome girl, that down the road I will stay with for many years and raise a family with.
I can't continue to take girls out for "Drinks at this cool new bar near my place"
You can that history repeats itself. Before texting, you had to call a girls house.
Then you could call her cell phone.
After texting came about, no one makes phone calls anymore and everyone just sends text.
Game evolved again.. and a lot of take the bold route and make phone calls to set up dates. It shows confidence and breaks the mold of playing text games for hours or even days.
I slowly noticed that when I started taking girls on more traditional/Adventurous/anything outside of Drinks at the bar or Netflix and chill..... I built better more stress free relationships with girls.
It puts them more at ease, they were more comfortable and more than not, they fell into more traditional an feminine roles.
Date Idea Examples
When I lived in Hamburg. I had a genuine interest to learn the city and the culture.
I went on city tours and learned the cities monuments and history on my own.
Because German girls don't move so quick, I started taking girls on dates where we would explore the city.
I would walk them around the city with me and stop at monuments to talk to them. Hang out in parks and eat street food.
It actually became a routine..Where I knew the city so well that I could have been a tour guide myself.
It would usually end with either no first date bang.. but a genuine relationship and a better understanding of a chick outside of seeing how many drinks it too before I could finger her in a crowded club.
Many dates ended up with me going home with the girl or her coming to my place and us cooking a meal and eventually banging.
One date with a Lithuanian girl consisted of us going to Ikea for dinner ( Yes... Ikea ) and her buying plants for my apartment. She would often come over just to cook and water plants...and of course get the D.
Once I got bored of going to bars and clubs every weekend and killing my liver and wallet.. I enjoyed these slower relationships better and I didn't have to worry about the same chicks throwing ass at the club on a weekend.
In Hungary.. I used the same technique.
Of course, I still spent the majority of time club an bar hopping banging as many girls as I could squeeze into my apartment.
But I would often take girls on my "tour" through Budapest.
If the girl was more party oriented I would move towards a bar in the evening that wasn't horribly crowded or had a place where I could escalate without being in a crowded area.
If I felt like the girl was slower.. I would time the date where we would buy a couple bottles of wine and make out way up Gellert Hill to see the sunset.
A couple bottles of cheap wine never costed more than a couple dollars, but the date was much more romantic and brought out the feminine side to the women I was with.
Its unfortunate that a lot of cities in the states aren't as walkable nor do they have as interesting landmarks or history, but they are still completely doable with the right women.
The initial tourist interest in a city actually made me learn more about the city that the people that may have lived their their whole lives.
I lived in Atlanta for close to ten years.. and It wasn't until half a decade down the road, when I went to the aquarium.
I've still never been the the Coca Cola Museum.
In turn..when I take women on dates like this, they often comment that they learned things about their city that they never knew.
They now feel closer to me and my status is elevated as more than just a tourist, or and average chump in the city.
I may have mentioned this second idea before.
Indoor Rock Climbing.
I enjoy Rock climbing whether its indoor or outdoor.
Indoor is much safer and easier to convince people to do..its adventurous, but its comfortable.
Now only does it force girls to be at least a bit athletic, strip down their make up and not dress up like a slut I'm trying to bang at 2am on Saturday morning...But you get to show off your natural male athleticism, show off your ability to teach her and introduce the role that men are phsyically stronger and more able to do things. Its a DHV for women.
Assuming she has a decent ass.. you also get to see those cheeks pushed together.
And if you do a little workout and find out that she still looks great with a little sweat.. she'll look even better out on the town.
After the date.. Chicks would be down to meet up later in the evening.. either for drinks.. or again I would push for a house meet up.
We would get together and cook a meal, and end up banging the night away.
LMR was always much less because the girl felt much more comfortable even if it ended up being a first night bang.
There was also much less resistance to meet up again later.
At the end of the day, she is gonna have a better story to tell to her friends than you cat calling her and saying "Yo, dat ass is phat"
https://youtu.be/vmJf_E-1NcI?t=35
You're gonna end up with a much healthier relationship with women this way and if you shape the relationship like this from the start, there will be much less stress down the road.
Much less complaints about women being unfeminine or slutty.
Older generations, like my parents always tell their stories where they met their spouses "organically" or "by chance"
My parents met when they ran into each other by chance, because my mom had a bad since of direction and parked to ask my dad for information.. leading to their first date.
Today.. most people seem to meet their partners on Tinder.. or at Bars and Clubs.
At the same time.. everyone always says that they don't wanna meet their future husband or wife at a bar.
Ironically.. people congregate at bars every weekend with the intent to meet each other.
I personally, don't think that online dating is gonna go away.
A lot of people WILL end up meeting their future partners online, or through some sort of technology.
The difference to me is, If I intend to meet a wholesome girl, that down the road I will stay with for many years and raise a family with.
I can't continue to take girls out for "Drinks at this cool new bar near my place"
You can that history repeats itself. Before texting, you had to call a girls house.
Then you could call her cell phone.
After texting came about, no one makes phone calls anymore and everyone just sends text.
Game evolved again.. and a lot of take the bold route and make phone calls to set up dates. It shows confidence and breaks the mold of playing text games for hours or even days.
I slowly noticed that when I started taking girls on more traditional/Adventurous/anything outside of Drinks at the bar or Netflix and chill..... I built better more stress free relationships with girls.
It puts them more at ease, they were more comfortable and more than not, they fell into more traditional an feminine roles.
Date Idea Examples
When I lived in Hamburg. I had a genuine interest to learn the city and the culture.
I went on city tours and learned the cities monuments and history on my own.
Because German girls don't move so quick, I started taking girls on dates where we would explore the city.
I would walk them around the city with me and stop at monuments to talk to them. Hang out in parks and eat street food.
It actually became a routine..Where I knew the city so well that I could have been a tour guide myself.
It would usually end with either no first date bang.. but a genuine relationship and a better understanding of a chick outside of seeing how many drinks it too before I could finger her in a crowded club.
Many dates ended up with me going home with the girl or her coming to my place and us cooking a meal and eventually banging.
One date with a Lithuanian girl consisted of us going to Ikea for dinner ( Yes... Ikea ) and her buying plants for my apartment. She would often come over just to cook and water plants...and of course get the D.
Once I got bored of going to bars and clubs every weekend and killing my liver and wallet.. I enjoyed these slower relationships better and I didn't have to worry about the same chicks throwing ass at the club on a weekend.
In Hungary.. I used the same technique.
Of course, I still spent the majority of time club an bar hopping banging as many girls as I could squeeze into my apartment.
But I would often take girls on my "tour" through Budapest.
If the girl was more party oriented I would move towards a bar in the evening that wasn't horribly crowded or had a place where I could escalate without being in a crowded area.
If I felt like the girl was slower.. I would time the date where we would buy a couple bottles of wine and make out way up Gellert Hill to see the sunset.
A couple bottles of cheap wine never costed more than a couple dollars, but the date was much more romantic and brought out the feminine side to the women I was with.
Its unfortunate that a lot of cities in the states aren't as walkable nor do they have as interesting landmarks or history, but they are still completely doable with the right women.
The initial tourist interest in a city actually made me learn more about the city that the people that may have lived their their whole lives.
I lived in Atlanta for close to ten years.. and It wasn't until half a decade down the road, when I went to the aquarium.
I've still never been the the Coca Cola Museum.
In turn..when I take women on dates like this, they often comment that they learned things about their city that they never knew.
They now feel closer to me and my status is elevated as more than just a tourist, or and average chump in the city.
I may have mentioned this second idea before.
Indoor Rock Climbing.
I enjoy Rock climbing whether its indoor or outdoor.
Indoor is much safer and easier to convince people to do..its adventurous, but its comfortable.
Now only does it force girls to be at least a bit athletic, strip down their make up and not dress up like a slut I'm trying to bang at 2am on Saturday morning...But you get to show off your natural male athleticism, show off your ability to teach her and introduce the role that men are phsyically stronger and more able to do things. Its a DHV for women.
Assuming she has a decent ass.. you also get to see those cheeks pushed together.
And if you do a little workout and find out that she still looks great with a little sweat.. she'll look even better out on the town.
After the date.. Chicks would be down to meet up later in the evening.. either for drinks.. or again I would push for a house meet up.
We would get together and cook a meal, and end up banging the night away.
LMR was always much less because the girl felt much more comfortable even if it ended up being a first night bang.
There was also much less resistance to meet up again later.
At the end of the day, she is gonna have a better story to tell to her friends than you cat calling her and saying "Yo, dat ass is phat"
https://youtu.be/vmJf_E-1NcI?t=35
You're gonna end up with a much healthier relationship with women this way and if you shape the relationship like this from the start, there will be much less stress down the road.
Much less complaints about women being unfeminine or slutty.
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