2. Never really had a girlfriend. How would I get one?
06-30-2017, 05:07 PM
Rex need to act not to reflect!
Rex got some self-esteem/self-trust issues, most of the threads Rex created show constant need of approval and reassurance by peers, this can be inverted by taking actions only, any actions, even the slightest will shift the 1st gear.
No need to think, in fact deactivating the brain and giving the steering wheel back to the body (mostly balls) might be the only solution that could get Rex out of this messy spiral.
"The True Believer : Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements" written in 1951 by Eric Hoffer where Hoffer basically worries about the fact that the western contemporary society fills gradually with dangerous human material, very strongly suggestionnable (no strong will/need to belong and have their every thoughts approved by peers before taking action).
Nowadays, we keep living with safety nets and this make the passage from adolescence to adulthood, major element in the self-respect, delayed (if even finished) because no meaningful actions are taken (it gives young adults playing PS4, going in club to get wasted and not investing or failing tremendously in relationship and when fiction are made about people getting out of this "mode" they're made top10 movies of all times (into the wild, fight club)).
The proportion of people looking for answers and meanings outside of themselves is in constant increase.
Then, reading those patterns, everything make sense, you understand why RSD look like a cult and keep getting followers and why a great movie like "the wave" (where you learn how to create a devoted army) must stay hidden to the commoners.
Rex just need to do something and things will fall back in their places, you put your flaws out there for everyone to see so stop, take what they gave you and start acting, one at a time, and then only, report back.
My 02c
Rex got some self-esteem/self-trust issues, most of the threads Rex created show constant need of approval and reassurance by peers, this can be inverted by taking actions only, any actions, even the slightest will shift the 1st gear.
No need to think, in fact deactivating the brain and giving the steering wheel back to the body (mostly balls) might be the only solution that could get Rex out of this messy spiral.
"The True Believer : Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements" written in 1951 by Eric Hoffer where Hoffer basically worries about the fact that the western contemporary society fills gradually with dangerous human material, very strongly suggestionnable (no strong will/need to belong and have their every thoughts approved by peers before taking action).
Nowadays, we keep living with safety nets and this make the passage from adolescence to adulthood, major element in the self-respect, delayed (if even finished) because no meaningful actions are taken (it gives young adults playing PS4, going in club to get wasted and not investing or failing tremendously in relationship and when fiction are made about people getting out of this "mode" they're made top10 movies of all times (into the wild, fight club)).
The proportion of people looking for answers and meanings outside of themselves is in constant increase.
Then, reading those patterns, everything make sense, you understand why RSD look like a cult and keep getting followers and why a great movie like "the wave" (where you learn how to create a devoted army) must stay hidden to the commoners.
Rex just need to do something and things will fall back in their places, you put your flaws out there for everyone to see so stop, take what they gave you and start acting, one at a time, and then only, report back.
My 02c
Tell them too much, they wouldn't understand; tell them what they know, they would yawn.
They have to move up by responding to challenges, not too easy not too hard, until they paused at what they always think is the end of the road for all time instead of a momentary break in an endless upward spiral