[Samseau]

Three problems.

1. I don't know when, or if I'll call a girl back. My feelings on women may change in the days after I've seduced them. I lie all the time, but I try not to lie if I don't need to.

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I didn't say call her back. I said tell her you will call her at a later time.

Actually, you said

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Schedule a time that you say you'll call her.

If you didn't mean this the way you said it, I understand. This is the internet and sometimes we type things in a way we don't mean. I'm cool with that.

I think telling a girl when you'll call her back is anti-challenge. But, what you say here I have no issues with:

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"I'll call you later tonight."

This is fine, because she doesn't know when, or if.

However, I have quibbles with this:

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"I'll call you tomorrow after 8."

Now you're reducing some of the mystery to when or if. More acceptable to me, is to tell her you'll "call you tomorrow after 8" but then call two days later at 7:30. That's unpredictable and a better test of her interest in you.



3. Is this how you run your online-dating game? Or your day game? Or your night game? You need to be specific because different games require different strategies.

I'm a big night game guy. Flaking hasn't been too much of an issue for me, as of late, as I've been improving my same night lay game. There is something to the "no-dating challenge" after all.

I've never told girls when I'll call them; the only difference I've noticed in reducing flaking is how far along the seduction path I've gotten with them. The more genital action I've had with a girl, the less flaking. For any given girl I've at least fingered, I've yet to have her flake on me.

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Both increase the chance she will physically pick up the phone, trust me.

This is interesting if it works for you, but how much have you tried the alternative with the following conditions:

a. Gotten at least to second base with her (heavy sexual touching, not necessarily the pussy).
b. Gotten somewhere intimate with her.
c. Taken her number and NOT give her yours.


Then when you call out of the blue, she'll pick up. The last thing a girl wants is to be used as nothing more than sexual convenience, and so she'll want more validation from you in the form of dates.