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OK we have a winner.

WIA Wrote:

Basically the chick wants adventure from you, and stability from him.

Overall strategy - Push her towards that guy by extolling his great qualities.

1) Disqualify yourself - "you know it, and I know it, i'm bad news. We're going to fuck, and you're going to cry your eyes out"

2) Overqualify the other guy - "Derek? he's a great guy, he's got everything going for him. He's going to provide a good life for you, marriage, children babies. He's nice to you. He'll do everything for you...." Run down the list of stable beta provider traits that are socially approved - that are also proven to turn girls off.

3) She's either going to dis him, and say he's not that nice. Or she's going to entirely believe you, and realize that's not what she wants.

So...

Basically, it such situation the girl is playing every guy talking to her [including me] cause she enjoys the attention and wants to get a bit of everything. So as long as every guy continues to do what he's doing she's satisfied. That means that pattern has to broken. Fast.

To win the game is not to play.

However I cannot turn into fucking shmuck which means I gotta do what I do, but a bit differently. Instead of pumping her emotions in entertaining way I gotta go more cruel and push her buttons. Not playing here means to disqualify yourself hard to make her feel not wanted so she feels the need to chase the validation back. Then to use infamous boyfriend destroyers to put an idea in her head against her will [full inception mode] that she's actually put off by him.

How to disqualify:
+ We would fight like cats and dogs and I would always win
+ I'm looking for a sugar mommy, I'd spend all your cash and never do shit for you
+ You’re too much of a good girl for me….and you wouldn't take my shit I wouldn't take yours
+ I'm sure there are tons of guys dying to meet you on the internet…
+ Chill out I'm not for you, stop trying and just be cool
+ You’re really cute… Too bad your not my type
+ You can so help me pick up chicks…Get your ass over here I want a hug ….Ok get off me, you will scare away all the hot chicks.

Then we add Boyfriend destroyers. It's all about discrediting other guy's game [especially when he's playing the potential BF card] by pointing out his flaws in a very sneaky way, and those are jealousy, neediness, failure to commit, abusive behavior, lack of passion.

Tyler D. Wrote:

That being said, u should NEVER EVER speak badly about the BF that will only get the HB in a defensive and aggressive state and u will be bringing them closer together. Instead u speak highly of him describe him as being the most perfect man/BF in the world then something strange will happen she will start disqualifying him(don't worry if she only says one bad thing it's enough) that's when u resist the urge to Disqualify him again and u DEFEND him in a way making him the insecure person in the hole world, u need to go total AFC to do this.

Jealousy:
"You have to understand that this guy really appreciates you, because you're probably the best girl that he ever got, or ever will get. I know that... you care about this guy (maybe sp)... but there's just a certain equilibrium where if you've done this guy a favour by being with him and he's not equipped to handle it, since he knows that he'll never get a girl like you again if he walks out, that he's just constantly frustrated and panicked that you'll leave. It's not his fault.

Neediness:
"You've got to understand that for this guy you are his entire world. He cares about you so much, that everything else in the world is meaningless to him. You are his only source of pleasure, and without you he knows that. ..he's nothing. You can't blame him, he just doesn't have anything else going for him, so he needs you."

Failure to commit:
"It's not that this guy doesn't love you. He does. Its just that deep down he has a fear that... you're too good for him... and that you'll realize it and be like, you know....you just have to dump this guy.... and then he'll be left emotionally destroyed because he made himself vulnerable. Yes yes I know that you wouldn't do that to him, but its just that with he knows that you could get other guys (SP)...like me...I just think that he's not an emotionally secure person, and you've gotta cut him some slack."

Abusive behaviour:
"It's not that this guy doesn't love you. Its that he loves you too much, and just can't handle it. He's not emotionally available, and because he knows that you're the best he's ever had, he can't handle all of these things that he's going through emotionally. All his life he probably wasn't very good with women, and women weren't interested in him.. So now that he's got this girl, he doesn't know how to handle it.

Being too predictable, not passionate:
"Its not that this guy doesn't love you. He does. Its just that he's so comfortable with you now.. and feels so close to you, that you're more like a sister to him.. Like a special sister, but someone who he doesn't feel that he has to do all these things for anymore, because your relationship is so secure and so predictable.. there's no need for all that excitement, because he knows that nothing will change.. Some guys deal with true love that way.. I dunno, for me, I think that if you really love someone, you have to keep it fresh. But really, its not that he doesn't love you, its just that he loves you so much that he doesn't see the need."

That brought back some memories.. I love the game

Thank you very much for attention.