Judging from what she is alluding to, it sounds like over the course of your time seeing this girl who have fallen into the trap of over-gaming, or rather, being too tryhard in "setting fram" and "being alpha." Makes you seem more like a stubborn tightass than a fun-time laid back guy who's down for whatever and goes with the flow. Why don't you want to fuck her hard and slap her around? That shit is fun. She wants to let loose with you sexually but you're not letting her. Why don't you want to go on fun little trips and adventures with her? Do you not enjoy her company aside from just sex? If that is the case then you wouldn't be making this thread about how to keep her around.
You need to lighten up. Have fun, do what you enjoy, and don't get so caught up in being so stern, stoic, predicable, and tame.
You need to lighten up. Have fun, do what you enjoy, and don't get so caught up in being so stern, stoic, predicable, and tame.