Attention to detail - which after reading your post is most likely part of your problem. You sound might be a bit too obsessed with and relying on other people's routines and different "stages" of game. Really needs to become more fluid for you to get the results you're looking for. What works for you outside of routines? What makes you interesting aside from a few phrases or one liners? Focus on and enhance that aspect of your game.
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