Quote: (11-28-2015 07:50 AM)Vincent Chase Wrote:
I've done this dozens of times if not a sort of variation of this.
I disagree on meeting late on though. Especially in the winter months you should aim to meet earlier say 7:30 or 8. The reason for this is that in the scenario above you'd get the girl to your place by 10:30pm and she'll want to leave because it's "getting late" especially so when doing this on a school night. You're chancing having enough time for anything to happen. You want to meet her when darkness falls, but not too late. I do usually find it takes 3 hours or so on average to bang a girl on a first date when meeting at cocktail bar.
Secondly regarding transport you can always use a taxi or Uber if not driving and it will allow you to drink. It feels spontaneous to the girl and can add to her excitement. Do not use public transport (unless it's something sexy like a San Francisco tram) it will kill the attraction.
What you're explaining here is very similar to RSD Jeffy's technique of driving to the bar, saying "let's go" walking back to the car. If you build enough comfort and attraction it will work most of the time.
I pretty much agree with all of this. Sometimes I just do the 'Let's go somewhere' after we exit the bar and take her right to my car. Only one girl has ever not gotten in and her hamster was furiously spinning, she changed her mind 3x before deciding to go home - first date.