Let me add another observation. The customers who became loyal, are the ones I didn't do anything special. I just treated them normal and somehow they became a loyal customer.
There were many people I treated extra nice thinking they will definitely be back. But I don't remember any of them coming back.
IMO, it's the same for women. You can just treat her normal and if she is going to stick around, she will stick around. If you think 'I will do this and that so that she will deeply fall in love me', that's wrong.
Nice guys get frustrated and say 'I did this and that for you and you won't love me back?'
But the thing is you did that Voluntarily. Unless that's who you are or you don't expect anything in return, you don't have to go extra nice in many parts of your life.
There were many people I treated extra nice thinking they will definitely be back. But I don't remember any of them coming back.
IMO, it's the same for women. You can just treat her normal and if she is going to stick around, she will stick around. If you think 'I will do this and that so that she will deeply fall in love me', that's wrong.
Nice guys get frustrated and say 'I did this and that for you and you won't love me back?'
But the thing is you did that Voluntarily. Unless that's who you are or you don't expect anything in return, you don't have to go extra nice in many parts of your life.