[thebassist]

(07-23-2013 04:34 PM)Nascimento Wrote:  

I hold doors open for people whether they are a woman or not. It's just being polite, no need to overthink it.

It doesn't mean I'll go out of my way to do it.

But to avoid holding a door open for someone when it's easy to just because she's a woman and you don't want to come off beta I think is stupid.

Agreed.

Just don't make a big deal about it, don't do it because she's a woman and you want to get with her, do it because you'd do the same for anyone.

If I hold the door open for a chick, they'll usually say thanks, and if I wanna get a laugh out of the girl I'll just say something like 'Yeahhh, I'm pretty much a gentleman' in a cocky tone, just to let her know that it's no big deal.