[Jam Man]

I hung out with a 20 y/o half mexican half black girl yesterday during the day around 5 to 8 cuz we both were busy later in the night. Made drinks for us but she basically refused to drink it, no big deal I continued to escalate and eventually got her into my room to listen to music and we started making out on my bed. At this point I thought it was in the bag but every time I tried to rub her vag she would say "im a good girl" and push my hand away. I would rub other areas and make my way back to her vag and same thing would happen. Eventually pulled my dick out but she didnt want to touch it or anything. I just agreed with her "you are a good girl" "were not going to have sex" etc. as Ive heard this sometimes works for LMR but in the end I didnt get the bang. Wondering where I went wrong and pretty frustrated with myself for not being able to get the bang. What do you think I should have done differently? More aggressive, just start ripping her clothes off?

[Veloce]

Nah...sounds like you went as hard as you could. Props for trying to push through it, agree and amplify, etc... Mexican girls especially tend to pull this shit, the biggest cockteases I've known have been Mexican. There was a Mexican girl I was working on, it took 3 months to get the bang, every move you could think of. She tried multiple times to put me in the friend zone, just hang out and expect me to buy her drinks. I pretty much cut her off until one night she called me looking for a booty call.

Just stick to your guns, sounds like you did fine.

[Menace]

I had no idea that Mexican girls were like this...I dealt with this recently...glad it that it sounds like that it wasn't just me screwing it up.

[Moma]

Did you try "I just want to put the tip in?" That usually works for me.

[Virtus]

she wasn't horny enough. get her out again. if she comes out and comes back to your place she knows you will try to pull this shit again. so if she does it's a nod to game forward, just make her hornier

[Jam Man]

I do think I did an ok job and maybe she really didnt want to bang but I cant help thinking I let this one get away. What is your routine once you get a girl in your room and youre making out?

[Parlay44]

You go cold and roll over with your back to her. I did that to one girl who wouldn't let me feel her up while we're kissing in bed. After a minute of silence she comes over and starts kissing my back and shoulders. They just want attention. They want it more than sex. Game on.

[XY.]

she wants to chase u.

next time she comes over, flirt with her and be sexy. kiss her lightly and when she tries to kiss harder pull back. touch her butt and pull away before she does it for u. do it over and over again and she will break...

u are the prize

[CJ]

Sounds to me like you made good progress, just make sure you strike while the iron is hot and build on this.

Should you get her over again, don't go for the sex right away, just do whatever to make her more comfortable... conversation, some sort of game, and see if she wants a drink again. I feel like with just a little alcohol she'll probably loosen up.

You might also try making out and then pulling back/teasing her this time, and say you don't want to go to far since she's "a good girl."

Probably also try the hand to dick move, before taking it out of your pants, at some point. Just to see where she's at on that one.

[sucio44]

I don't think I've run into a mex/black chick? How does she look? Does she have the ass of a black girl or mexican? The only blk/mex combo I've seen is the Texans RB Foster.

[Captain Gh]

It was great that you tried to escalate and get it, but by reading your description, you might have went to fast for her. On the path to sex girls take in general 10-15 minutes more than us to really feel horny. A great "sex routine" that might help is the one in the Roosh book BANG.

It goes long kisses 2 min
Breast drive by Less that 1 sec
Vagina drive by less than 1 sec
Breast squeeze for a minute
Vagina rub for 5 sec
Grab her hand and put in on your dick. She needs to rub it for 5 seconds.
Remove her shirt and kiss
Remove your shirt
Remove her pants and kiss
Remove your pants
Remove her bra and kiss deep
Remove her panty and Reese her good
Remove your boxers than sex.

If she stops at any points b4 her hand spends minimum 5 seconds on your dick you need to start over until she spends the time on it. This routine is overkill if she'already horny, but if not it will give her enough time to feel comfortable to have sex. Hope this will help to get that BANG hehe

[Jam Man]

(07-10-2013 08:45 PM)sucio44 Wrote:  

I don't think I've run into a mex/black chick? How does she look? Does she have the ass of a black girl or mexican? The only blk/mex combo I've seen is the Texans RB Foster.

Shes got a black ass. Decent combo for sure. I still snapchat this girl every now and then but idk if we will ever hang out again. Ill try Roosh's routine from Bang next time.

[gringochileno]

Sounds like you were pretty persistent, I'm not sure there's any way you could have gotten the bang in that instance. One thing that sometimes works but is kind of high-risk is the Style freeze-out from The Game. If you keep getting resisted on the same move, say "ok," then nonchalantly turn on the lights, turn off music, or whatever else to completely kill the vibe, then completely withdraw your attention and start doing something unrelated like checking your email.

The key to this is not to make it look like you're frustrated or butthurt at all, simply respecting her wishes to not have sex which is completely okay and now going about your own business. About half the time this will backfire and she'll start putting on clothes and getting ready to leave, but the other half of the time she'll either start bargaining with you ("but we can do other things...") or simply re-engage you physically. Then you're in business again. You're making her feel insecure and refusing to validate her desire for attention without getting what you want in return, but again in a completely laid-back, nonjudgmental, non-frustrated way.

I can't even remember the last time I had to resort to a move like that, but it is a club I have in the bag for extreme cases of resistance when I still think she's considering having sex, and therefore there's a genuine chance of getting the bang.